"The Severed Queen" has a famous saying:
"She was too young to know all the gifts of fate, and she had already secretly marked the price."
All unearned gains are accompanied by a price; all shortcuts in life will not lead to the road of prosperity.
Bad character, no matter how good the starting point, no matter how high the education, will also be the loser of this marathon in life.
Because character is a person's hardest bottom card, the key to a person's success or failure, and the most hardcore backer of a person.
Character reflects a person's attitude toward doing things, and also reflects a person's cultivation of being a person.
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If the character is good, the road will be wider and wider
Xu Shichang once said: "Whoever establishes meritorious deeds is based on the establishment of morality." Those who have always been learned and able to take on great causes have first established their feet in character. ”
Remember the arrogant high-speed rail overlord?
When the conductor asked him, "Why occupy someone else's seat?" He replied calmly, "I can't stand up." ”
"Are you unwell or have you been drinking too much?" The man said slowly, "I didn't drink." ”
The conductor patiently continued to communicate with him: "Can't you stand up when you arrive at the station?" The man's answer was astonishing: "Then you can help me find a wheelchair." ”
Finally, the police came, the man did not get up, and in desperation, the conductor took the little girl whose seat was occupied to the other carriages.
After this incident, the man was blacklisted by the railway system and will not be able to ride all trains for a certain period of time.
Later, the identity of the man was exposed, and he was a doctoral student at a foreign university. People are very curious, how can such a person have such a high degree of education?
As Mr. Yang Dai said: A person's character is the master of talent; and talent is only a slave of morality.
We can have no superior academic qualifications, no sufficient capital, but we cannot do without good character.
It is not difficult to find in life that a person with moral character and sincerity is welcomed wherever he goes, because he is sincere, speaks seriously, and works hard.
Always treat others with a kind heart, and be with anyone for a long time.
Because I know how to be considerate, I know how to tolerate, and I know how to respect.
To be a person, you must put sincerity first.
The soul must be based on kindness, do things, and must first be a person.
Houde can carry things and be the best of yourself.
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At the end of life, the fight is character
Some time ago, a news item touched countless people.
A group of sanitation workers, after cleaning at the hospital, quarantined at the hotel for 14 days.
After the 14-day lifting of the ban, the hotel staff went to check the room and clean up as usual, but they were shocked by the scene in front of them.
Each of the 9 rooms where the sanitation workers lived was cleaned and organized, as if no one had ever lived there.
The staff choked up:
When I pushed open the door of their room, my first reaction was whether it was wrong, I had never seen anyone who would clean the room so clean before checking out.
Walking in the world, a person's most powerful strength is not a glamorous profession, not a difficult to climb a degree, nor a wealth and power, but a good character.
Character is something in a person's bones, it is a person's inner son, and education, money, and power are only people's faces.
Gorgeous face may help you go fast, but how far you can go depends on Lizi.
At the end of life, the fight is character.
Only character is our hardest bottom card.
Character is the standard of a person's life in the world, and it is also the foundation of a person's foothold in society.
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Character is the hardest hole card
In the real society, there may be people who come close to you because of your money and fame, and there are a lot of friends who drink and meat, but when you are down, they don't see anyone, they get along with you, and they don't have the slightest sincerity to speak of.
For a person, only character is the most precious. Only when you have good character and will be a person, others are willing to come near you, and only when you are down will someone lend you a helping hand.
When you have the right character, you will be respected by others.
A person with good character, reliable and down-to-earth, others are willing to confide in, worthy of the trust of others, and only when doing things can someone believe.
On the contrary, a person with extremely bad character thinks of calculating others everywhere, only has his own interests in his eyes, and treats others with hypocrisy. Just as the so-called "sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity", such people often do not get the sincerity of others in the end, and no one is willing to trust him.
No matter how much wealth a person lives in the world, after a hundred years it is just a piece of waste paper; no matter how powerful it is, after death, it is a floating cloud.
And only character is our eternal wealth.
To be a person, character should always be put first. Character is more important than academic qualifications, and more rare than ability.
No matter how high a person's education and ability are, if his character is not up to standard, he is also a villain with a clumsy hypocrisy.
To be a person in advance, to live in the world, you can have no money and no power, but you must have quality and conscience.
No matter how difficult it is, do not deceive; no matter how bitter it is, do not calculate the use of others.
Be an upright person, do things in a down-to-earth manner, be worthy of your conscience, have no regrets to others, and be ashamed of yourself.
With the hardest hole card in hand, you can not be afraid of the wind and rain of your old age.