Big S Xu Xiyuan has not lacked labels.
The ex-wife of Wang Xiaofei, the fourth young man in Beijing, is the former daughter-in-law of Zhang Lan in the beautiful jiangnan of the whole country, but few people know that Xu Xiyuan's entertainment circle struggles and loves and hates.
Xu Xiyuan, who was born in 76, entered the entertainment industry in 1993, and this year is the 29th year of Xu Xiyuan's acting career.
In the past 29 years, Xu Xiyuan has experienced the ups and downs of life, from a "tomboy" to a beautiful lady, who has ascended to the top and fallen heavily, and has also suffered criticism and cold eyes, fortunately she can always face it calmly.
Tieba once had a hot question: who is the queen of mainland idol dramas, many people think it is Chen Qiaoen, in fact, Xu Xiyuan is the real queen of idol dramas, how hot was she? The first idol drama "Meteor Garden", in that era when the Internet was not popular, the first broadcast of the drama broke the rating record of Taiwanese TV dramas with an average of 6.99, quickly swept the student group like a hurricane, swept the whole of Asia, and met the dreams of the majority of young girls, and this drama also became the love enlightenment drama of many young girls at that time.
In the next few years, he successively participated in the well-known TV series such as "Summer of Bubbles" and "Corner Meets Love", and various awards were soft.
In the midst of her career, Xu Xiyuan and Wang Xiaofei, who has four young people in Beijing, quickly made headlines, and in March 2011, Wang Xiaofei and Xu Xiyuan held a wedding in Sanya, Hainan.
Those days, even today, were Xu Xiyuan's happiest moments.
Husband Wang Xiaofei is young and handsome, and her mother-in-law Zhang Lan has a Chinese high-end catering giant "Pretty Jiangnan" and a "Lan Club" known for its luxurious style, and she can marry into the Wang family, which has long made everyone envious.
Married to Wang Xiaofei, Xu Xiyuan is naturally full of confidence.
At the wedding scene, Xiao S Xu Xidi, Wu Peici, Zhang Huimei, Wu Qixian, Huang Xiaoming, Na Ying, Cai Kangyong, Li Yapeng, Guo Degang, Han Geng, Liu Qian and many other domestic big-name stars were present.
Speaking of Xu Xiyuan, people always like to say that she is a winner in life, but it is always easy to ignore the infinite scenery behind the scenes, and life has been very difficult.
In the human world, only through vicissitudes can we be bitter and happy. Xu Xiyuan's childhood experience is low to dust.
People's impression of Xu Xiyuan is still "optimistic" and "funny", and subconsciously believes that she must be very happy in real life. But in reality, she experienced a tragic childhood.
In 1973, a single "old man" named Xu Jian in Taiwan, did not meet Huang Chunmei before was a debauchery person, after meeting Huang Chunmei, the whole person changed, became particularly active, according to Xu Jian's words, Huang Chunmei is love at first sight, and even married and had children, under Xu Jian's fierce pursuit, Huang Chunmei was moved to marry him.
Xu Jian was born in a patriarchal family, 8 brothers and sisters only Xu Jian a boy, Huang Chunmei married Xu Jian not only to take care of her in-laws, but also to take care of 7 sisters-in-law.
Huang Chunmei has given birth to three daughters, Xu Xixian, Xu Xiyuan (Big S), and Xu Xidi (Little S).
Therefore, the patriarchal grandmother regards Huang Chunmei as the "bane" and counts the decline of the family that does not give birth to boys on the head of Huang Chunmei.
In desperation, Huang Chunmei and Xu Jian's marriage broke down and went to divorce, Huang Chunmei raised three daughters alone, and the sensible Xu Xiyuan knew at a young age that she shared worries for her mother.
Huang Chunmei's personality of Zhishu Dali also affected Xu Xiyuan's life, and the requirements for Xu Xiyuan were also "sitting and sitting, standing with a posture, paying attention to decency and proportion", these habits accompanied Xu Xiyuan throughout her life.
People say that "the children of the poor have long been home", a miserable childhood, from the time of adolescence, she has unconsciously put the responsibility of taking care of the family and changing the fate of the family on her shoulders, and has laid the background of hard work and hardship for her future entertainment circle.
Xu Xiyuan's ideal since childhood is to be able to engage in literary and artistic work, but this is not a very simple process, to carry out systematic study of literary and art colleges, and the tuition fees of this type of school are particularly expensive, Xu Xiyuan, who knows the family difficulties, had to give up this ideal.
Always thinking about dreams, will be defeated by the gap between reality and dream awakening; It is better to forget your dreams for a while, be down-to-earth, do every little thing in front of you, and sooner or later life will give you a generous gift.
In this way, Xu Xiyuan, who wanted to share the pressure of her mother's life, learned that Liu Ye, a small student in the mainland, was selecting the heroine everywhere for her film debut "Doubting God and Doubting Ghosts", so she went to participate in the selection with a nervous mood, with a love for acting and talent in acting, Xu Xiyuan stood out among more than 20 candidates.
Later, Xu Xiyuan recalled that when she first started to be an actor, her life was not good, it was very hard, basically she had to participate in the shooting for thirteen or four hours a day, in order to make money to subsidize the family, but also out of the love of the acting career, the busiest time three plays were filmed together at the same time, and every day I was tired and fell asleep.
In order to save money, Xu Xiyuan can only go to the dilapidated basement, although the rent is cheap, but the environment is humid, but she does not care, the first thing she does every time she pays her salary is to send money to her mother.
Mom asked her, "Are you keeping your own living expenses?" Xu Xiyuan always smiled and said, "I stayed, rest assured Mom, I eat well here and dress well."
But as soon as I hung up the phone, I couldn't help but shed tears, and it was this persistence and love for the acting career that made more well-known directors discover this desperate Sanlang.
Co-starring with Zhou Yumin in the idol drama "God of War" made her completely popular, and in the following years, she has always been the heroine of TV series and movies, and the cooperation is a popular big star.
The hardships of life will not knock down the soul, a woman with a fragrant soul will only live richly and intensely, and what is eternal and unchanging is Xu Xiyuan's strong desire for life.
Men and women in love will always suffer from gains and losses, but Xu Xiyuan has never had such troubles, in an interview with reporters, she said, "In marriage, I have never worried about each other's changes of heart, because I can't control it at all."
What I didn't expect was that it was a slur.
At that time, Xu Xiyuan would not have thought that in a few years, the marriage that condensed her half-life's efforts would be broken due to Wang Xiaofei's derailment.
Two people have a fate, in the crowd, will always meet, before meeting Xu Xiyuan, everyone thinks that the prodigal son Wang Xiaofei, a handsome and golden love field, will play for a few more years, until the banquet meets the young and beautiful big S Xu Xiyuan, and it is precisely because of this banquet that the two people who originally had no relationship are brought together.
At that time, Wang Xiaofei and An Yixuan were very good friends, and An Yixuan's birthday was also very face-saving, personally sending blessings to the scene, but he did not expect to know big S, Wang Xiaofei fell in love with big S at first sight, and then launched a fierce pursuit. It is said that the two of them had established a romantic relationship within a month of knowing each other.
Big S once said bluntly that he and her husband Wang Xiaofei belonged to love at first sight, and the two only used four meetings to determine their life.
And in 2010, he made a high-profile statement that he was engaged. In the same year, he went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register his marriage, and in 2011, he held a very grand wedding. The speed at which they were together was really too fast, it was not an exaggeration to say that it was a flash marriage, there was a lot of speculation from the outside world at that time, but I did not expect that the two people were very sweet after marriage, and hit many people in the face.
I thought that two people could spend this life hand in hand, the media suddenly broke the rumors of big S unilaterally announcing divorce, the end of the 10-year marriage, as fans sighed, the two people will jointly bear the responsibility of raising children, which is a peaceful dissolution of the marriage.
On March 8, 2022, Xu Xiyuan officially announced her marriage and once again appeared in various media headlines, and 45-year-old Xu Xiyuan chose to start all over again after experiencing a divorce storm.
In the era of new media, people turned out that Gu Junye and Xu Xiyuan had already begun to communicate as early as 1999.
The most beautiful passage is: "We have an indissoluble relationship with someone who loved each other more than 20 years ago, and we want to continue this love."
It turned out that Gu Junye was Xu Xiyuan's first love, the two met more than 20 years ago, although there was no contact for many years, hearing the news of Xu Xiyuan's divorce, Gu Junye found the former number, the number did not change, in order to be able to reconnect, fortunately they met again and got married.
Xu Xiyuan, who once appeared on the show with her, recalled that Xu Xiyuan has always been a beautiful girl who dares to say and dare to do, and is not afraid of the sky.
Everyone is happy to stand on a high place, overlooking this once popular mainland idol drama queen is still looking for true love, entering the marriage hall for the second time in her life, looking for her embarrassment and flaws.
Whether it is the long-ridiculed incident of "Gu Junye was repatriated to South Korea" or the news of "Xu Xiyuan dislikes Wang Xiaofei, who failed to invest", so clearly "business" is always "faked" by trendy young people with higher media literacy.
Middle-aged, half hidden and half retired from the entertainment industry, unfortunate childhood encounters, experienced a failed marriage; she struggled in the vortex of slander and right and wrong all day long, still trying to find a way out.
However, after experiencing the divorce storm, Xu Xiyuan's more and more frustrated and courageous style has not changed. She is strong and brave, and she fights for love, even if she only has one breath left, she has to earn a marriage she wants.
This precious fighting spirit is admirable.
"It can't overwhelm my frustrations, and it will eventually make me happy." Xu Xiyuan is ready and continues to live like a warrior, facing all the storms of the unknown.
She would like to believe that "no fate is a punishment for man, and that only those who do their best are happy."