It's weird.
Obviously, in the past two years, there has been an overwhelming "care for women's marriage and childbearing dilemma", but in domestic films and television, you basically can't see a cute mother role... Except for Li Huanying, who exploded last year.
The image of Li Huanying's mother is particularly traditional, she is a typical mother of the older generation, not an "independent woman", and a "girl".
But it is such an old-school figure that brings fire to the "mother's beauty" and the stigmatization of the mother's taste, which is a major broadening of the female aesthetic domain.
In this area, Li Huanying has made greater contributions than the female CEOs in recent years combined.
The recent image of a mother who makes the eyes shine is not in the so-called women's drama.
It is a trailer for Yang Ziqiong's new movie.
From the title of the film, it began to be grumpy, called Multiverse.
Tells the story of a mother who goes to the tax building and mistakenly breaks into multiple parallel worlds and begins a plan to save the universe.
The mother, a common person, made up for the colorful nonsense in the second taste.
At present, the movie has not yet been seen, but this mother's sand sculpture is cute, through Yang Ziqiong Lisuo's play, and a Cantonese English, has jumped on the paper.
Yes, cute.
Domestic dramas write mothers, write them bitter, write them strong.
Write about their pity, but never want to write about them as cute.
The most popular character of the women's drama is the omnipotent middle-class independent female mother.
Abbreviated, Independent Mom.
Such explosive mothers often have superior educational backgrounds, omnipotent wrists and abilities, and the three views of advanced civilization.
A logical and clear mind, a mouth that is good at outputting golden sentences.
A skill, equipped with super gods, but to be trapped in one room and two halls, between the children of the stove.
It seems that if you don't write so extremely, you can't make the audience love them.
They went to the battlefield, out of the halls, into the kitchen.
Play a business war, cure the primary three, and get the child's school district room.
Even the bear children, the public enemy of all mankind, were completely destroyed by their personality charm.
She has no shortcomings, all-round ability, whether at home or out to break in, she must be better than her husband.
What is the level of my husband's ability to work? Six years to achieve the investment circle quasi-big man.
But by the standard of independent mother ability, what is this? Blind and inefficient.
If I do it, this upward speed, I can still take time to take the baby, the career family grasps with both hands, and everything is superior.
The last time I admired people's mentality and ability was so super-god, it was Gu Ailing's Winter Olympics that issued a Valentine's Day lip print on the ins between the two jumps.
But the most typical representative of an independent mother should be Gu Jia, who bravely broke into the Circle of Shanghai's Rich Women in the previous two years.
Internal.
Three meals a day are arranged, the meat, eggs and milk are balanced in nutrition, and the presentation is exquisite.
Daily look styling consultant for family.
The husband did not comply, she pretended to put on a face, squeamish and soft language, coaxed to obey.
foreign.
She wants to make connections and run the human field.
That head should cure the little three and govern the love field.
After the end of the work, I still have to take my emotional husband to kindergarten (company).
Maintain customer relationships and do it all from her own hands.
There is both a wrist and a moral bottom line, which can be bent and stretched.
It is easy to get the child into the top kindergarten of the rich second generation, there is a child in the kindergarten who has epilepsy, and the parents jointly let the child withdraw from school in the group.
Only Gu Jia, whose educational philosophy is sober and correct, stands up alone and advises parents to raise their hands high.
In middle-class momdom, she not only stands out from the crowd in terms of cognition.
Physical fitness and IQ are also all-round crushing.
The son was ostracized by the kindergarten circle and locked up in the small room of the family by two stupid rich wives.
After Gu Jia found out, she directly dragged two rich wives of equal personality into the small room and beat them violently, with one enemy and two enemies, and the force was superb.
After venting, and without leaving her hands and tails, Mrs. Fu pointed at Gu Jia's nose in disheveled clothes and said that she wanted to call the police and let her get out of the kindergarten circle.
Gu Jia sat on the queen's chair and put on her stiletto heels, directly taking the names of "eating rebates" and "crutching belts", so that this fool quickly shut up and smeared his own skin.
In short, no matter what independent mothers do, they are like high-level human dimensionality reduction blows, which makes ordinary female mothers clap their hands in front of the TV.
But in hindsight, I can't help but feel ashamed and embarrassed.
The creative logic of this kind of woman is actually not difficult to understand.
Independent mothers are capable of reflecting the pity of their return to the family.
But so to shape the image of the mother, abuse point, cool point is there.
The other side of this logic points in a dangerous direction -
Isn't it true that as long as a woman is not strong enough and is eaten by the family, it is not a pity?
Independent mothers are actually an awkward mother image born when this tradition is intertwined with the awakening of women's consciousness.
They can perfectly achieve all the KPIs of traditional motherhood, and they can also adapt to the standards of independent women in the new era to cope with society and adapt to the market - even if they have experienced the soft castration of taking their babies at home for a long time.
Because the logic of domestic heroines has always been: to create the perfect victim.
Then it must create this kind of product, which is in line with the morality of the motherhood and the standard of independent women, and cannot be faulted.
In fact, why create an empathetic mother character?
Writing about the wisdom of the mother, shaping her into a powerful woman in every detail, is not only false, but also prone to the suspicion of moral kidnapping of ordinary women.
Small and clever incisions are the key to empathy.
Traditional mothers have their own traditional good, where to avoid suspicion and abandon in this way?
It's like "Li Huanying" mentioned at the beginning.
Where is our mother's mother's wisdom?
When he met the girlfriend who crossed over, he was anxious to make a harmonic terrier and unblocked the girlfriend without a trace.
Le Ying, Ling Er
Traditional moms, wisdom is all in life.
Although the cognitive limitations caused by the background of the times make them unable to leave the family, in the family's acres and three points, the wisdom of the mother can also make a great achievement.
Mai Du's "My Mother and Me" portrays this traditional mother's wisdom very smartly.
McDougall's mother, a single mother.
She can't engage in business wars, she can't fight Xiaosan, and she can't hand blade Mrs. Rich.
As a single mother, she does not have enough money on hand, the bed at home is too small, she teaches Mai Du Bi theorem: sleep obliquely, the position is large.
McDougall wanted to buy a camera, but his mother scolded him for "leaving me some coffin books", so she taught him to use his eyes as a lens and make a human camera.
Close-up, push panorama, close-up, CUT...
McDougall said his mother had given him something more important than matter: imagination.
Imagination is something that can only be seen in people who have an absolute passion for life.
Isn't It more powerful than omnipotence that Mama Mai, who is immersed in the hardships and hardships of life, can still maintain this enthusiasm?
In today's independent mothers, we can't see this kind of flesh and blood power.
In Jia Ling's view, Li Huanying gave birth to her own useless daughter, not beautiful, not out of breath, except for health and happiness.
When her mother was young, she was obviously a small factory flower, and she had the opportunity to marry the son of the factory director and live a more beautiful life. But it was planted in the mediocre genes of her and her father.
But in Li Huanying's eyes, his life is another version.
In her opinion, the living treasure daughter is the living paragraph in her life, for her, health and happiness are more precious than glamorous and rich.
This is Li Huanying's independence, although she does not have any advanced ideas, but her happiness standards are self-defined, not wrapped up in the environment.
She decided, so she did not complain, and seriously managed in her own choices, and was at ease.
So her contentment is not a passive compromise, but an active choice.
So Li Huanying may not live a glamorous life, but it is absolutely open.
So how to put a mom written cute.
Not to shed her ordinariness and limitations.
Instead, it is to find valuable places in limitations, and to find extraordinary places in the ordinary.
Of course, we can also fully understand that in the era when feminism is fragrant, the drama party just wants to write about some cool mothers with advanced concepts.
But really, there are many cooler ways to be a mother than the golden sentence.
Soybean field permanently this mother is cool enough, she is cool in her mother can not be like a mother.
She could never fix the screens or fix the bathtub.
Pasta is never put away, and opening the cupboard is always a rain of pasta.
What she proves will not do even if she is a mother, and what she knows and cannot do as a mother is a myth.
Confusion in life is a human design of soybean fields, and since it is a human design, it means that even shortcomings do not need to be changed.
When there are no guests in the house, she is often disheveled – it is really like a chicken nest.
On the other hand, the independent female mothers of the middle class in domestic dramas either comb their hair at home or engage in a lazy and beautiful home look with evenings and nights.
They are all laughing at sakura sister baggage to sleep and make up plain makeup, who knows that the current domestic drama also has to put unnecessary baggage on the woman's body.
The same is true in parent-child relationships.
The eternal son has no authority in front of his daughter.
On the contrary, the daughter, who looks like a little adult, also has to teach her mother to pile up clothes on the sofa less.
Educated, The eternal child can only hum and spit back: who does not put a change of clothes on the sofa...
The C position in the double crosstalk is always funny, and freedom always belongs to the party being spat upon.
The mother who can be scolded by the child is the mother who really has the freedom to be a person.
To be able to maintain her own laziness in a certain field is to retain her humanity and defend the so-called right of her mother to be a person.
After reading the laziness in life, I look at her career strength.
In terms of career, she is a strong woman.
But her strength is also the strength of the half-hanger.
She doesn't want to care about people, she only likes to draw quietly, is a craftsman personality, not an ambitious woman.
But perhaps because he was more reliable, he was appointed as the acting president by the sick president.
From then on, be careful in front of the old employees, and be embarrassed in front of the new employees, which is equivalent to being softly isolated.
She didn't want to take over the appointment, but she did.
It's not that the genetic mutation blackens, but that you want to step out of your comfort zone and seize the opportunity for self-growth.
The opportunity also seemed to be very daily, and she saw a JK preparing for the exam in the café.
After solving the math problem in hand, I started eating strawberry desserts, which looked even more delicious.
Rewards after achievement are often more comfortable and delicious.
This may be closer to the growth of ordinary women.
It is not to clamor for progress, not to open your eyes every day to talk about the rise of class, and to dream of climbing to the peak of life.
Independent women are also human beings, mothers, they have laziness, for career women, they have cowardice.
We can't let cognitively limited women get ahead of the curve, and we shouldn't let them be helplessly abandoned behind a moving civilization, which is caring.
We should have a new vision and freedom for women who are not yet married to have a new vision and freedom for the role of mother in the future, which is the guide.
When a mom on screen is a likable necessity, not strong.
When they no longer gain the favor of the masses by being omnipotent, independent women and IKEA.
The identity of the mother, or really got up, forward, left, right... It's okay to stay still, real freedom.