We all know that breastfeeding is the best for children, and many doctors and experts have called on everyone to breastfeed their children best. However, there are still many young mothers who are reluctant to breastfeed their babies, what is the reason for this?
Colleague Xiaomin, since giving birth to the baby has changed, the former cheerful and bold girl, after having a child, rarely go out, now the baby is only 6 months, Xiaomin told me that I do not plan to breastfeed the child. She said that breastfeeding herself is going crazy, it is inconvenient to take the baby out, especially to go to a little farther away, when the child wants to drink milk, it will not care where you are, it will cry vigorously, making it embarrassing.
Indeed, breastfeeding babies are very difficult to feed when they are out and about, especially in public, and there is no mother and baby room, and the mother is embarrassed and shy.
However, in November last year, star Zhu Zhu broke this embarrassment. She first posted a photo of herself breastfeeding her daughter on her social profile. Although a piece of cloth covered half of the mother and daughter's bodies, it could also be seen that Zhu Zhu was very confident and calmly breastfeeding the child in front of the camera. The baby is peacefully and happily in the arms of the mother, and there is no more beautiful picture in the world.
Zhu Zhu's caption to this photo is "decency", which means "decent". Decent – these two words say how many breastfeeding women's voices. Feeding a child is a decent thing to do, it's normal, you don't have to feel embarrassed and ashamed.
Zhu Zhu is using her own actions to speak up for thousands of mothers, doing what they want to do but dare not do. Mothers who are discriminated against because of breastfeeding should bravely face the alternative views of others and bravely defend their rights and interests.
Moms who feed in public, whatever they do, are wrong
On the bus, when the mother carries the child and the child rubs in the mother's arms, we all know that the child wants to feed. Do you choose to undo your shirt in full view of everyone, or do you want your child to keep crying?
On the subway in Shenzhen, I once encountered such an incident, a mother with a four- or five-month-old child sitting in a seat. Originally, the child was asleep, and the mother hugged him tightly. I don't know if the surrounding environment is too noisy, the child woke up from sleep, began to cry wow, arched in the mother's arms, he wanted to suckle.
A young man on the side was reading a book, and he first frowned, then muttered a few words in his mouth, and walked to the back of the carriage. The people around them also threw inquiring glances at the mother and son.
Mom couldn't stay up any longer, so she turned her back, undressed, and started feeding the baby. A big aunt said: "This is really offensive." This young mother's face is very ugly, there is a blush of shame, but also helplessness and grievances.
The child is crying, some people are noisy, the mother feeds the child, and some people can't see it, and it is so embarrassing and difficult to take the child out. Breastfeeding children in public, many mothers have had the experience of being humiliated, or the wind and cool words, some are "killing you" with their eyes, and there are excessive people, taking pictures with mobile phones to send circles of friends to humiliate you.
These people who stand on the commanding heights of "morality" are actually the real dirty people, and I am afraid that most of them also grew up eating breast milk!
Motherhood is great, and breastfeeding should not be blamed
If you are also a mother of a child, do you choose to let your child cry non-stop, or will you put down your face to feed your child? Breastfeeding is the most natural, the child's most basic physiological needs are met, which has nothing to do with moral cultivation. Therefore, whether it is verbal attack or photo ridicule, when the mother is personally attacked, you must not be afraid, and you should bravely take up the martial force of the law to protect yourself.
Breastfeeding is not a shameful thing, Zhu Zhu bravely posted photos of her breastfeeding, but most of our mothers still do not have the courage, in public or pay attention to the baby and their privacy protection.
Therefore, I recommend taking the nursing child out of the house, and the mothers should do some tips to try to avoid their own embarrassment and the discomfort of the child.
Before the mother goes out, feed the child and try to avoid feeding on the road.
When it is time to take the child out, we feed the baby before going out, so that the child does not cry on the road. If it is a baby who can already eat complementary food, you can also bring a little food to the child, and if the child is hungry and bored on the road, he can take it out to eat a little to avoid the embarrassment of feeding the child on the road.
Ü Mother planned the time and route to go out in advance.
Taking children out is very troublesome, we must plan the time, choose the most suitable time to go out, avoid taking children outside for a long time, because children are more likely to be hungry.
In addition, we take children out of the best planning and familiar with the route in advance, such as how to transfer trains by subway, in some subway stations there is a mother and baby room, in advance to understand the situation can let the child feed in this gap.
ü Mothers take their children out and dress appropriately for breastfeeding.
Now there are many maternal and infant products are more humane, such as mothers' breastfeeding underwear, outerwear have a more appropriate design. If it is a nursing mother who takes the baby out, you can buy clothing suitable for breastfeeding, which is convenient and can protect your privacy, which is also very good.
Women are weak, mothers are strong, for the healthy growth of children, how many difficulties, we can also overcome.