001 How to reconcile with your past
When it comes to making peace with my past, I really haven't done it, so why am I writing this?
Shouldn't the question also be about your future?
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If we alone are always struggling with our past, it is difficult for us to shake hands with our past.
At this time, we will expend a lot of energy in the past tense.
Then it is naturally difficult for us to achieve a good result, because you put a lot of energy into the past tense.
In fact, I was such a person before, who would put a lot of energy into the past tense and did not know how to shake hands with the past tense.
Living every day is very painful, feeling that fate is unfair to himself, and that others are very unwilling to live better than themselves without themselves.
Finally, there are a bunch of negative emotions, and I believe that many people are like me, but they don't know how to break the laws of this society.
In fact, we really don't need to break this law, because this is the whole society is like this, I don't need to say what must be done, first of all, we just need to think about a question, that is, what is the reason why I have become like this.
Solve this problem on it.
Then at this time we have found the problem, of course, it does not mean that we can find the problem.
We still have to find a solution, in fact, there is no way to give up the past, just feel that their past experience is very bad.
You feel like you've had a miserable life, but have you ever thought that there are people who are worse than you.
It is that they are born without hands and feet or congenital disabilities.
What are these people doing wrong? What's wrong with them? So this society is very fair to each of us, and what feels unfair is our heart, and we feel that we have given a lot but have not had a good result.
I'm not going to sprinkle chicken soup, but do you really look at which disabled people, they will count these?
Do they know where their past is? No, they will do it by making themselves try to live, because if they don't work hard, then they won't be able to support themselves.
So when their generation is threatened, they are very independent, very inspirational.
But many of us are there wondering if the world is fair.
What a problem here! It is that you have not really understood how this society is fair, in fact, as long as you pay something, this society will definitely return you something?
The main thing is the time problem, sooner or later, if you feel that you are living very hard in the present, then you will be more hard in the future.
Because this society is constantly developing, in today's rapid economic development, we are all working hard for a small income.
002 How to speed up your life
In today's rapid economic development, we all want to take the high-speed train to time.
But only a few people made the time to catch the train.
Didn't they get on this train because they didn't work hard?
No, so what exactly is the reason? Or is it that their IQ is not high enough, in fact, this society has not yet reached the era of fighting IQ.
At present, we are still fighting in the era of hard work, since it is not time to fight IQ, then we only need to solve a few problems.
The first is to know what kind of life we want to live, so that we know where this train is going.
The next step is what kind of knowledge you have to start this train.
What is the spelling at this time? Spelling is learning, spelling is knowledge, of course, the knowledge mentioned here is not your academic qualifications in school.
Because academic qualifications represent your past tense, not your future.
I was very anxious before, and the reason for my anxiety was very simple, that I was not small.
But I don't know where my future lies, but I've been thinking lately about what kind of value I can offer.
Can I help the enterprise to pull new transformation and retention, or can I help the enterprise to bring the value of performance, what kind of ability do I have.
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There is also the ability to sell now that I am now live streaming.
What should I do if I don't have these abilities and what problems should I solve?
What do I have to do to have this ability.
When I understood this question, I found that I didn't seem to be so anxious, and I understood that as long as I tried to work in one direction, then I would naturally have a more OK result.
Just like my article, I did make a lot of effort, and I can say that I didn't have any results in the previous year, but this year my overall mental structure, writing ability, and other aspects of reading articles have changed a lot.
There are also people who say that you are not a writing genius, but I will tell you that I am not a genius, I am a very stupid person.
The person whose logic is not clear when speaking, who cannot write when reading, and who is often criticized by the teacher.
But today I wrote out an article that has been read by tens of thousands of people, why there is such a change, in fact, it is very simple, that is, I shook hands with my past.
I used to be really bad, but I'm working very hard now, and my original articles have reached a number of 300+.
So is your original article so high?
If not then you can go back and continue to work hard to reach my number, of course I don't rely on quantity to win, I read a lot of books in the process of writing articles.
I listened to a lot of writing lessons, and I spent a lot of time thinking about it every day.
Why should I train myself to write this thing? What problem was solved? What did I gain from writing?
These are the questions we think about every day, and when we really understand what problem we've solved, you'll find that the results you want are completely different.