Scorpio people are often very good at giving in their feelings, although they have a fluctuating heart, but at the same time, they also know how to converge.
They often unconsciously take some responsibility on themselves, feel that loving someone, you need to control the overall situation, to pay attention to the development of each other, then, Scorpio in the love field, what are the performance of high emotional intelligence?
What are the performances of Scorpio's high emotional intelligence in the love field?
Scorpios may have sharp and sensitive qualities in their feelings, they dare to love and hate, and they do not mind showing their rationality, even coldness.
However, Scorpio in the relationship, also has a passionate attributes, when they are put into a relationship, and do not stingy to pay, they can unconsciously put a lot of each other's responsibilities on themselves, so that people have a sense of security, but also "disguised" to control the overall situation, so as to observe each other.
However, although Scorpio is emotionally surging, it is not easy to show, and it will not explode many of their emotions, let people grasp their handles, they know how to restrain, and to control the progress and development of the relationship, have a rational view of love.
First, know how to restrain emotions, do not easily show joy and sorrow
Scorpio people often do not easily "expose" their purposes and motives, and even if they turn the tide of the sea, they often like to restrain themselves.
Many Scorpios are like this because they have rationality in addition to their sensual qualities, so they want to face their feelings with a wise and sober attitude.
Even if they have a lot of anger, they are good at controlling themselves, and they will show it when they have a suitable opportunity or can "win with one move".
They often like to conquer each other at once, using emotions on the blade of the knife, rather than spreading them at will, and letting people clean up the "mess" for them, it can be said that this is both a high emotional intelligence performance of Scorpio and their city government.
Second, very active, able to put care on the "idea"
Scorpio people often have a very active and enthusiastic side in the love field, and they will not appear to be rejected thousands of miles away, unless, the other party has something that angers them.
Generally speaking, Scorpio is very good at giving, likes to go to the list of things, although they like to do this and that for each other, but they know how to put care on the "idea".
That is to say, Scorpio knows how to pay for it at a critical time, to offer his own care when a person is most urgent, and will not be like an "old mother", everywhere cares, as a result, can not be appreciated, it can be said that Scorpio's care has always been able to be remembered and perceived by the other party.
Third, for those who deserve it, they are very willing
Scorpio may not be a person who is known for being willing to give, after all, in life, they also have a very good trade-off, comparison, and pay attention to the quality of input-output ratio, but for the people they really like, Scorpio dares to pay, and is more willing to pay.
Because, they know that the more they do, the more they will only get, after all, the other party will remember, more grateful, it can be said that for such people, Scorpio is often willing to give anything, even if it is some very hidden money, property, or resources, will not be stingy.
It can be said that Scorpio in the love field, the side of high emotional intelligence is that for the identified people, they can rely on grasping each other's "weakness" and firmly grasp each other's hearts.
Fourth, understand where your degree is, and your rejection is also clear
Scorpio in the relationship, often know what they want, will not give an ambiguous impression, whether it is like, or reject, they have a clear attitude.
If two people have really interacted and then separated, then Scorpio will not be separated because of some "trivial" small things, or inexplicable reasons, they can give each other a clear answer, or let the other party know their attitude and bottom line.
Even without saying it, Scorpio's attitude is very clear, so that people can understand at a glance, without guessing, and will not suddenly disappear, making people anxious to catch fire, that is, there is a reliable side.