One day in 2004, Yan Ni went home from filming, she rarely cooked once, and when her husband came home from work, the dumplings were also ready. At this time, the husband said: Let's get a divorce. Yan Ni obviously heard it, but pretended not to hear it, saying that we would eat dumplings tonight. Yan Ni knew that there would be such a day, but she did not expect that this day would come so quickly. The husband said calmly, I will go out of the house. In this way, their nearly 10-year marriage came to an end. Then Yan Ni received a call from director Shang Jing, yan Ni did not know what scene she was going to shoot, she agreed. She needs a chance to adjust her mood, and there is no one who can forget herself more than playing someone else. This drama was the "Tale of Wulin" that later swept the country. It is difficult to imagine yan ni just divorced to act in comedy, but also acted so well, it can be seen that Yan Ni's plasticity is very strong, but also because of this comedy, she became famous overnight, this year Yan Ni was 33 years old.
Now Yan Ni is 51 years old, she has been divorced for nearly 20 years, her ex-husband has a happy family, and she still lives alone, she does not feel that she lacks anything, but her ex-in-laws are very anxious, and she hopes that Yan Ni can settle down and become a family as soon as possible. The former mother-in-law said to Yan Ni that you can't always live alone, how can this work. Yan Ni smiled and said how it is a person, I still have you and my daughter. In the entertainment industry, after divorce, the only one who can get along so well with her ex-husband's parents is probably Yan Ni. What charm does Yan Ni have that can make her in-laws angrily accuse her son of losing a treasure? Today we will listen to Yan Ni's story.
Yan Ni was born in 1971 in an ordinary Xi'an worker family, no one in the family engaged in art work, and her appearance when she was a child was not good-looking, and she did not learn to dance and sing. No one expected her to become an actress, but she just loved it. In the second year of high school, Yan Ni did not pass the Beijing Film Examination, when the Lanzhou Military Region Repertory Theatre came to Xi'an to enroll, Yan Ni immediately went to register, so the 19-year-old Yan Ni became a literary and artistic soldier, and entered the performance department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts in the same year. There are many beautiful women here, like Yin Tao and Niu Li, at that time, Yan Ni was not favored by people, and she was always said to look rustic and could only run dragon sets. So at that time, Yan Ni was embarrassed to say that she was an actress. The career can not see the direction, and the emotions are blank.
She was 26 years old and had no relationships. She was not in a hurry, but her family was anxious, and she went around to introduce her relatives to the object, so she met a young man named Zou Wei, who was once a soldier and worked in the public security after changing careers. The first time we met, everyone had a good impression, but there was not much time to understand, and the next day Yan Ni went to Lanzhou to shoot a drama, and when she returned to Beijing, the two got married.
Yan Ni thought at that time that the two people lived together without marriage, and the family always felt that it was not a good thing, so they simply got married. In fact, two people have not been in love, have not understood each other well, and have directly entered the marriage. Two years later, in 1998, daughter Zou Yuanqing was born. After the birth of the child, Yan Ni is still running the dragon set, the protagonist cannot play, and there has been no shortage of supporting roles, so she is very busy, playing a small role in this crew, and then rushing to the next crew to play a small role. Zou Wei often does not see his wife once in two or three months, and Zou Wei is also very busy at work every day. The couple had to throw their daughter to their parents, and the daughter was relieved at the grandparents. In the family, she has no worries and can go all out in her career. Every time she went home from filming in other places, she had to bring local specialties to the second elder. The second elder never complained or complained to her, but just made her pay more attention to her body, and the child did not have to worry.
The in-laws did not complain here, but her husband Zou Wei could not hold on. Zou Wei is very busy at work and often travels, and he hopes that Yan Ni can spend more time at home. Otherwise, this home is like an inn, and it is still a rotational type, and it is not easy for the couple to even meet each other. But Yan Ni couldn't do it. She loves acting, and she feels closer and closer to that corner on stage. She didn't want to give up. She just starred in Shang Jing's military comedy "The Story of the Cooking Class". Yan Ni is always busy, and her husband gradually loses confidence in this marriage. One winter night in 2004, Yan Ni cooked dumplings and waited for her husband to come home, but what she waited for was divorce. In fact, for so many years, she also knew that she owed too much to her family and owed too much to her husband, and Yan Ni later mentioned in the Venus show that her husband was a particularly good person. But two good people don't mean you can live a good life. On the third day of her husband's divorce with her, the in-laws also knew, and went to the door to scold their son, scolding him for losing a treasure, saying that he would regret it later.
At this time, Yan Ni ran in to speak for her husband, saying that a slap could not make a sound, and it was definitely not the husband's responsibility to go to the step of divorce. Yan Ni felt that her husband deserved a more gentle and virtuous wife than she was. She thought her husband and she were looking for the wrong person. Yan Ni talked with her in-laws for a long time, doing the ideological work of the old couple. On that day, the divorce formalities were completed, and the two old men had a meal with them, full of reluctance, like losing a daughter. They took Yan Ni to the train station because Yan Ni was in a hurry to shoot the next scene. The in-laws said: You can rest assured, we will take care of the children. You take care of yourself. The 6-year-old daughter Yuanyuan is the most reassuring to Yan Ni, and she is still taken care of by her grandparents, and she can't be more assured. And the drama that Yan Ni is going to shoot is "The Legend of Wulin". God closed a door for her emotional path, but opened the window for her career. When the director took the initiative to find Yan Ni, hoping that she could play the female number one. Yan Ni just divorced in a very bad mood, once she heard that she could enter the group to divert her attention, and then listened to it or played the female number one, she went. I didn't expect to take a comedy.
In the case of just divorced, Yan Ni still contributed textbook acting skills in this sitcom, and Yan Ni hid all her lost emotions under the spotlight. Few people knew at the time that she had just been divorced. During the day, she is Tong Xiangyu, the boss lady who laughs and scolds with a variety of styles. At night, she is a lost and confused woman who has just lost her marriage, Yan Ni. She laughs in the play and weeps of sadness outside the play. This is the two-sided life of an actor. This is the self-cultivation of an actor. Yan Ni conquered the emotions with her excellent acting skills, and no one could think of the real situation of Yan Ni at that time.
The person she knows best in the "Tales of Wulin Wai Chuan" is Sha Yi, who they met when they were filming "The Story of the Cooking Class". At that time, Sha Yi did not know that this sister who was seven years older than himself was divorced, he just saw this sister who grinned greatly when filming every day, and after finishing work, he was locked in the house alone and did not come out all night.
After the broadcast of "The Tale of Wulin", it swept the country instantly, and Yan Ni also became a household name. The god of fate finally took care of her. After becoming famous, her personal emotional life naturally became the object of attention of the audience, and Yan Ni was reluctant to mention her family and was unwilling to talk about her divorce. When asked tightly, I replied: I am filming, and my husband takes care of the children. However, this answer certainly does not satisfy the appetite of popular gossip. In 2011, it was revealed that Yan Ni had divorced, and she was immediately crowned by bad media: as soon as she became popular, she abandoned her husband's hat. At this time, Yan Ni briefly explained the beginning and end of the matter, as early as 2004, Yan Ni divorced her ex-husband. Although the divorce has been admitted, netizens still have not stopped being curious, speculating about the identity of the ex-husband, and it is rumored that the identity level of the ex-husband is very high, so she is so secretive. In fact, because the two established an offensive and defensive alliance after the divorce, they never mentioned this marriage to each other in public. Yan Ni never said a word about her ex-husband, but instead emphasized that her ex-husband was a very good person. Even after the divorce, she and her ex-husband still maintained a very good relationship.
Yan Ni is not just lip service, and after so many years of divorce from her ex-husband, they still get along like family. Once Yan Ni encountered a phone fraud, the first thing that came to mind was her ex-husband, Yan Ni was very panicked and called to ask her ex-husband what to do? The ex-husband said don't panic, you have been deceived, this matter is entrusted to me to deal with, I will come right away. After her ex-husband arrived, Yan Ni's hanging heart was put down, and she knew that she didn't need to be afraid of anything with her ex-husband. Although they are divorced and the feelings of the husband and wife are gone, the love of the relatives is still there. Therefore, Yan Ni will say that sentence in "Lu Yu has a date": After the divorce, we are not friends, he is my lifelong relative!
Divorce makes many couples turn against each other, and how many divorced couples can become friends, let alone relatives. Yan Ni Zouwei's mode of getting along with the divorced couple may be better than many couples who get along during the marriage. They have been divorced for 18 years, and instead of becoming strangers, they have not become friends, but they have become family. And Yan Ni's relationship with her former in-laws and mother-in-law is a good story. The former in-laws have taken Yan Ni as their daughter, Yan Ni's later fame is getting bigger and bigger, and the former in-laws are also very proud, and everyone says that it is a play played by my daughter.
Yan Ni is also very good to the old couple, and after the divorce, she still calls her parents. I think that the two old mouths have spent a lot of thought on their daughter Zou Yuanqing over the years, and now that they have made money as stars, they should be good to them. The former in-laws said that Yuan Yuan was our granddaughter and that it was right to spend money on her. We all have pensions, you don't need to give us money. Yan Ni often said that if her in-laws had not taken such good care of her daughter and had no worries, her career could not have been as smooth as it is today. If it weren't for their support, I might have given up.
Every time there is a parent-teacher meeting in the daughter's class, it is the grandparents who go. Therefore, Yan Ni often said that she not only owed too much to her daughter, but also owed more to the second elder. The second elder was the strongest backing for her to work outside in those years. It is precisely because of such a family that Yan Ni may be "unhurried and unhurriedly strong", and it is possible to become a popular goddess in a late fashion and counterattack. After her daughter Yuanyuan finished junior high school in China, she was sent to the United States by Yan Ni to attend high school, and her former in-laws were more relaxed. However, Yan Ni did not reduce the number of visits to the old couple, and one by one was confessed by her daughter Yuanyuan. Zou Yuanqing wanted to return to China to take the Central Drama in his third year of high school, and Yan Ni supported it without hesitation. Now her daughter Yuanyuan has graduated from Chinese opera and embarked on the road of acting. In order for her daughter's acting road to be smoother, Yan Ni did not pave the way for her daughter.
Other actresses are facing a mid-life crisis at the age of forty or fifty, Yan Ni is still playing continuously, she has acted in "The Legend of Wulin", "The North Wind That Blows", "Three Guns Shooting Surprise", "One Servant and Two Lords", "Life Apocalypse", "Young Pi" and many other film and television dramas, no matter what role, as if as long as Yan Ni gets it in her hands, she will present this role perfectly. Yan Ni is a professional household of "sister-brother love" in the play, and has also talked about several sister-brother relationships in real life. But that's all in the past tense. Now Yan Ni is 51 years old and single. What was her ex-in-laws most looking forward to? It was Yan Ni who threw herself into the arms of a reliable man. Every time Yan Ni came to see her ex-in-laws, they asked when yan Ni could marry out with beautiful scenery? But Yan Ni smiled every time and said, I think it is already very good to have a daughter and you.
Many people will not think too clearly before getting married, and if they think clearly, they will simply not get married, and Yan Ni is such a person. Yan Ni is in a good state now. She has a very comfortable lazy style, and she is becoming more and more attractive as a mature woman. She is called a little confused in life, but she is never confused in big things. Daughter Zou Yuanqing has grown up, 24 years old, and is also acting. Mother and daughter look like sisters and have a good relationship. Yan Ni and her ex-husband are still moving around, and the relationship with her ex-in-laws is more like a family! Everything is not as real as family affection, as for love is the cherry on the cake, it is very beautiful, but it is just an embellishment, then leave it to fate!
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