The name Yu Xiaofan may not be heard of by many young people now, but for people in the 80s, it represents a generation of goddesses who have been amazed by the years.
Compared with the agile and lively Jin Ming and the gorgeous and elegant Liu Xuehua, Yu Xiaofan's temperament is more like a gentle and tender oriental beauty, but there is a hidden tenacity and optimism in his bones.
This slightly contradictory temperament is almost the same as the "Wanjun" that Qiong Yao has been looking for, and it is precisely because of this that after the TV series was broadcast, Yu Xiaofan successfully spread throughout the country with this role.
However, to everyone's surprise, when the stars were shining, she resolutely chose to get married.
"Since then, the long skirt should be laughed at, and the soup will be washed for jun."
Qiong Yao's heroines are all sad, and Yu Xiaofan has not escaped this strange circle of fate.
After marriage, Weng Jiaming cheated twice, one more than the other, in addition, a telecommunications fraud made most of her savings disappear.
However, Yu Xiaofan is Yu Xiaofan after all, she has a tenacity and optimism beyond the average person, just when she put on the dress and planned to start again, two pairs of young hands pulled the hem of her skirt, making her heart soften again...
Dream
Born in 1964 to a military family in Taiwan, Yu Xiaofan, whose original name was Zhang Xinghui, showed an unusual obsession with acting as a child, often holding a TV and watching it all day.
It's just that others are watching the joy and sorrow, while Yu Xiaofan is watching the every move of the characters in the play.
In his spare time, Yu Xiaofan will also improvise for a while, and the performance of Wei Xiaoxiao will make everyone laugh, but everyone at that time did not think that Yu Xiaofan would embark on the road of art.
"Girls, find a stable job, marry a good family, what art to learn?"
Yu Xiaofan also did not expect that she could become a generation of goddesses in the future, she just simply liked acting.
With the growth of age, Yu Xiaofan has become more and more iconic, a tall man of one meter and six, a good face, looking at the past from a distance, quite a sense of standing out from the crowd.
A thought silently crossed her mind, and it quickly grew into a towering tree.
I want to act, act in real drama!
Although it is the second child in the family, the family still loves her as a pearl in the palm of their hands, and after hearing the news that Yu Xiaofan is going to act, they initially disapprove, and then they still lose in the insistence of their daughter's eyes.
After all, their daughter's personality they all touched the real thing, others do not hit the south wall and do not turn back, Xiao Fan can bump into the south wall and do not turn back.
With the support of her parents, Yu Xiaofan successfully applied for the National Taiwan University of the Arts, and every day of her struggle for her dream was so fulfilling and enjoyable. In the eyes of his classmates, Yu Xiaofan was simply glowing.
Anything worth doing is not simple, after graduating from college, Yu Xiaofan ran into walls everywhere in the show business circle.
In order to make a living, she had to find a job as a waiter first, and every time after work, Yu Xiaofan still honed her acting skills again and again on TV.
On this day, Yu Xiaofan served tea to the guests as usual, completely unaware that they had firmly attracted the attention of the guests.
How can there be such a beautiful girl? At this age, Yu Xiaofan's every move carries a kind of elegance that stirs people's hearts.
Seeing that Yu Xiaofan was about to turn around, the scout quickly put down the tea in his hand and chased after it.
"Are you interested in being an actor?"
All kinds of emotions were detonated in her heart like a kaleidoscope, yu Xiaofan stood shyly in place, and in those few seconds, she even heard her own heartbeat.
Yes.
The entertainment industry is mixed, it is very unfortunate, Yu Xiaofan has not yet experienced the brilliance of the actor, he first saw the dirty side.
The scout invited Yu Xiaofan to shoot not a serious TV series, but a wind and moon film.
Perhaps for many people, the clothes they take off can always be worn one by one, and over time, nothing matters. But the profession of actor is a sacred dream in Yu Xiaofan's heart, and it cannot be defiled.
This blow not only did not make Yu Xiaofan slump, but made her more aware of her heart.
So she quit her job as a waiter, planning to use her own appearance conditions to participate in the beauty pageant first, but the entertainment industry beauty of that era was like a cloud, even if it was Yu Xiaofan's posture, it was only ranked fourth.
Beauty is actually difficult to distinguish between high and low, a thousand people have a thousand standards of beauty in their hearts, the so-called Rong Yao Qiu Ju, Hua Mao Chun Song, each has its own wonderful.
After that, Yu Xiaofan participated in the first TV series "Applause Ringing" as she wished, in which she played a basketball player. The response to this drama was mediocre, and it did not stir up any sparks in the market, but it allowed Yu Xiaofan to meet his own Bole.
Qiong Yao!
Since 1986's "Several Degrees of Sunset Red", Qiong Yao drama is synonymous with the blockbuster, her costume props, scene selection, lines, and even songs are far beyond the standard at that time, of course, the most important thing is the choice of characters.
At that time, Qiong Yao was preparing "Six Dreams of Wanjun", and the other candidates had been almost determined, but the heroine could not be determined.
Wanjun's temperament is too unique, as a child bride who has been bought to chong xi since childhood, she must have the gentleness and tenderness of an ancient woman, but she cannot be cowardly, and she must also have a little tenacity and optimism about fate.
There are many beauties in the audition, but there are almost no ones that match the temperament of Wanjun.
Just when the work was almost at a standstill, Qiong Yao noticed Yu Xiaofan. After several observations, the more she looked at it, the more satisfied she became, wasn't this the living "Xia Wanjun"?
That's it!
I have to say that Qiong Yao does have a unique point in casting, and Yu Xiaofan did not disappoint her, and played the role of Xia Wanjun in three points.
As soon as the drama was put on the market, it caused a huge response, and Yu Xiaofan also completed a gorgeous transformation, and was called the "head of Taiwan's jade girl" in the 90s by the audience.
Yu Xiaofan is still that Yu Xiaofan, but when Xia Wanjun gave her the character of the character, she truly became a generation of "Qiong Yao Goddess".
Simple beauty is thin and cannot distinguish between high and low, but the beauty with connotation is thrilling and unforgettable.
Shadow
Not long after, Yu Xiaofan has starred in well-known IPs such as "Three Flowers of Six Dreams", "Outside the Slanting Sun of Herbs", "Seven Heroes and Five Righteousness", and officially stepped into the ranks of A-list stars.
Years of dreams finally come true, Yu Xiaofan reveled in this vigorous success, but at the same time she felt a little empty, and it was at this time that Weng Jiaming appeared.
Ladies and gentlemen. Not only Weng Jiaming, Lin Ruiyang, and Ma Jingtao also expressed their good feelings to Yu Xiaofan, but only the least optimistic Weng Jiaming successfully won the favor of the goddess.
It turned out that during the filming of "Wangfu Cliff", the conditions of the crew were very difficult, and Yu Xiaofan, who grew up in Taiwan, could not adapt to the cold of Inner Mongolia and shivered every day with a quilt.
All of this was seen by Weng Jiaming, who was in the same crew, and he burned some hot water every day to send it to Yu Xiaofan's tent, hoping that she would be better.
Weng Jiaming is not good at words, each time just laughing, or saying "hot water is placed here", and then left. Compared with those who booed and asked for warmth, this sincere feeling can touch people's hearts more.
One after another, Yu Xiaofan had a good feeling for Weng Jiaming, the two people often shared some daily trivia, and sometimes Yu Xiaofan would also tease Weng Jiaming a few words.
Looking at the slightly red tip of the person in front of him, he couldn't smile to himself. The shyness of men is absurd, but Yu Xiaofan sees the cherishing of himself in it.
After the drama "Wangfu Cliff" was completed, the two people also formally established a relationship.
At that time, Yu Xiaofan was no longer the newcomer who had just entered the entertainment circle, and her every move was highly concerned.
When Qiong Yao learned of this news from the overwhelming reports, she immediately found Yu Xiaofan to verify, and Yu Xiaofan had a frank face.
"Now that your career is on the rise, are you sure you want to fall in love?" To be honest, I'm not bullish on you two. ”
Not only Qiong Yao, everyone is not optimistic about this strong female and weak relationship, but if Yu Xiaofan can compromise, it is not her, and she feels in her heart that Weng Jiaming is the one who can work with her for the rest of her life.
Just like the original resolute choice to run to the show business circle, this time Yu Xiaofan also decisively choked Qiong Yao.
"Yes, I'm sure I'm going to be in love, and I'm going to marry him!" The more you are not optimistic, the more you are not blessed, I will prove it to you! ”
It is not difficult to make a heroic move, it is rare to bear the consequences of the heroic action, after offending Qiong Yao, Yu Xiaofan can no longer walk the Kangzhuang Avenue that has been planned before, and "Wangfu Cliff" has also become her work.
It's hard to ride a tiger
Yu Xiaofan would not have dreamed that she had abandoned her career and abandoned her original ideals for Weng Jiaming, but in exchange for Weng Jiaming's wholehearted love. Sometimes, the gap between people is really greater than the difference between apes and protos.
When he learned that Yu Xiaofan was pregnant, Weng Jiaming did not rush to get married, but only gently comforted her to raise a good fetus, and when the right time was right, he would definitely marry her.
When is the right time, how long?
Yu Xiaofan touched her growing belly with trepidation, and for a woman, what she needed was a down-to-earth sense of security.
When Yu Xiaofan held the toilet morning sickness several times, Weng Jiaming said the same set of words, "It will be good to wait for the child to be born." "It's useless to think about it, maybe it's just that I'm too sensitive."
In 2000, Yu Xiaofan's child: Little Ding-Dong was born, and looking at this soft little clump, the regret in her heart dissipated.
When Dingdang was one year old, she and Weng Jiaming finally entered the palace of marriage.
In 2004, the two added another daughter, Yu Xiaofan completely bid farewell to the show business circle in order to take care of the family wholeheartedly, and turned to the background and began to be the woman behind Weng Jiaming.
With the increasing expenses of his son and daughter, weng Jiaming's income alone is inevitably a little stretched, and Yu Xiaofan has the idea of making a comeback.
A generation of newcomers in the entertainment industry replaced the old, Yu Xiaofan was not sure how much of her fame was left, and she was reluctant to have a pair of children. In order to shoot, the crew often goes to some inaccessible places for several months.
Yu Xiaofan's entanglement did not last long, in 2007, Xiao Dingdang officially reached the age of primary school, and her daughter could also be cared for in kindergarten, and her pressure suddenly decreased.
But Weng Jiaming's side is still tepid, watching the family's savings are getting less and less, Yu Xiaofan finally made up her mind - she wants to go to the mainland to act.
One night before leaving, she kissed the foreheads of a pair of children one by one, and walked and did not walk with love.
What once supported Yu Xiaofan to go down was the dream, and now what gave her the courage to run thousands of miles away alone was love and responsibility.
The entertainment industry is not friendly to women, especially those who have children.
At her age, she is no longer suitable for playing a young girl with green onions, and can only make money by playing the mother of a child to others, but fortunately, she has never defeated the beauty in the years, and with her acting skills and temperament, Yu Xiaofan still has a firm foothold in the mainland.
Sometimes looking at the young actresses in the same crew, Yu Xiaofan will also have a little trepidation, if he had been chasing his dreams and going on, what would he look like?
However, these unpleasantnesses will disappear every night after talking to her husband and children, and tomorrow is a new day!
Yu Xiaofan was so busy every day that his feet did not touch the ground, but Weng Jiaming moved other thoughts.
In the past, Weng Jiaming bore the financial resources of the entire family, and for the sake of the living security of his two children and wife, he did not dare to slack off for a moment. After Yu Xiaofan's successful comeback, he became the person who took care of the family, and his life suddenly became idle.
In 2009, Weng Jiaming was photographed by the media as a secret flight attendant, and Yu Xiaofan, who was far away on the mainland, felt disbelief when he heard the news, but the iron evidence in the magazine could not allow her to refute it, and the eyes of people around her seemed to have some pity in their eyes.
Tears slipped uncontrollably.
Qiong Yao once said that she cried extremely beautifully, there was a kind of heartbreak that made people see pity, thinking of this, Yu Xiaofan's sadness in his heart was even worse, and he simply cried loudly.
I gave up the premise of greatness for that man, isn't it Weng Jiaming's honesty!
Grief has passed, and life has to go on. Yu Xiaofan chose to forgive Weng Jiaming, this fearless spirit may come from more people riding tigers, and fewer people who are righteous and strong.
Not long after the peaceful days, Weng Jiaming was exposed as a woman in a private meeting, and what Yu Xiaofan could not accept most was the identity of this woman - her daughter's teacher.
She couldn't imagine the way the two men would get along in front of her daughter, and just thinking about it made her feel like her heart was going to break.
Yu Xiaofan is not an ordinary woman, she has a kind of tenacity in her bones that does not accept defeat, after calming down, Yu Xiaofan calmly sent a message to Weng Jiaming.
"Let's get a divorce."
Weng Jiaming panicked at once, although he cheated twice, he never thought of divorcing Yu Xiaofan, in order to save Yu Xiaofan's heart, he flew to the mainland with two children overnight.
In the face of her weeping husband and two children wiping tears, Yu Xiaofan hesitated.
The children are still young, do not understand any reason, and will only softly repeat the words taught to them by their fathers.
"Doesn't Mom want us anymore?" Mom don't go away okay..."
The blow was too great, and Yu Xiaofan did not directly forgive Weng Jiaming, but chose to move to Shanghai with his two children.
When Yu Xiaofan was in a trance all day because of these things, she received a phone call.
The police, who claimed to be from shanghai, told her that there was a problem with her bank account and that it needed to be dealt with immediately.
This simple means of telecommunications fraud may not have been fooled now, but at that time, Yu Xiaofan was convinced to follow the instructions of the scammers.
More than 8 million hard-earned money is missing.
After all, Yu Xiaofan is still just a woman alone in a foreign country, she sat on the bed in frustration and collapsed and cried, at this time, she dialed her husband Weng Jiaming's phone again.
Weng Jiaming quickly rushed over, he comforted Yu Xiaofan, while actively assisting the police in collecting evidence, looking at such a husband, and looking at a pair of children next to him, Yu Xiaofan was still relieved.
In 2019, the police caught the criminal gang at that time in a foreign country, Yu Xiaofan also recovered his hard-earned money, in order to reassure his wife, Weng Jiaming came to the mainland with a pair of children to settle down, and the husband and wife worked together.
Life in the world, there may be a lot of imperfections, after experiencing so much Yu Xiaofan's mentality has gradually relaxed, she has also asked herself whether she regrets it, the answer is.
"No regrets."