As the old saying goes: Do not persuade others to be kind without suffering.
Human nature is subtle and fickle, and everyone is, so we can see in some people that they tend to give people a cold, cold-blooded feeling on the surface.
But in fact, after spending a long time with them, you will find that in fact, the inner world of such people is very simple and simple, and it is also warm.
They are just used to hiding themselves in life, and because they have a sensitive nature, they always maintain a keen feedback response to many small things and words and deeds.
Therefore, they have their own principles and opinions on many things, and in the process of self-growth, they are also very patient and thoughtful.
This constellation is Cancer.
Cancer people actually like to pursue romance, so much so that in their familiar occasions, or in some places where they feel safe, they always seem to be impatient to show their noisy side.
However, such a situation is not common, because Cancer is very raw from beginning to end, and it is also a sensitive and delicate type.
Therefore, if you want Cancer to be able to accept a person with an open heart, first of all, in terms of time, it will take a relatively long time.
Secondly, they also need to be attracted to each other in their hearts, and accumulate more and more strong feelings and trust for the person in front of them, and then they will truly accept each other's closeness.
From here, we can also imagine that in life, especially in some strange occasions, Cancer is relatively cold, and likes to treat the people and things encountered at the moment with a look of rejection.
They may even deliberately show their cold-blooded side, make the other person feel bored, and then return home disappointed.
However, those who really understand what a Cancer personality is, in other words, how to approach them, will know that the treasure of Cancer lies in trying to approach them with patience and sincerity, and to attract them with kindness and ability, which is effective.
Therefore, after truly understanding the true character of Cancer, you will understand that such people are also vulnerable and impetuous, especially when they are deceived and hurt by others, they will choose to restrain themselves, wrap their hearts layer by layer, and pack their own small worlds tightly.
In this way, they will feel safe and comfortable in a small world of self-design.
Therefore, those who have hurt them, even if Cancer will not retaliate, but no matter what, it is impossible to warm their hearts.
Because once Cancer is disappointed in a person, it means that they will drive the other person out of their own world.
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