In recent years, "flash marriage and divorce" seems to be no longer a news topic in the entertainment industry.
A couple has been in love for many years, and supporting each other has become the object of everyone's suspicion.
But such an actor predecessor,
Entering marriage when it is up-and-coming, and having children when it is hot,
Comeback, deep cultivation of acting, frequent appearances of good works,
Now he has been in love with her husband all his life and has been married to him.
She's Guiare,
At the age of 78, he still does not forget his original intention and makes a living from drama.
She is serious and responsible for life; for acting, she is not arrogant or impatient.
One
Gui Yalei was born in 1944 in Changsha, Hunan Province.
Her ancestral home is Zhejiang, and she moved with her family to Taiwan Province as a child.
Gui Yalei's family environment is more favorable,
As the eldest daughter in the family, she received more love,
At the same time, she was also more anticipated.
Since living in the south since childhood,
Gui Yalei has always retained the gentle and gentle temperament of a southern woman.
From an early age, her parents cultivated her to learn to sing, dance, and play musical instruments.
Until later, Gui Yalei found that she was very passionate about acting,
So she was admitted to an art school to study acting.
After graduating from the Film and Drama Department of Taiwan Provincial Art College, he aspired to become a professional actor.
But at the time,
Gui Yalei's family would prefer that she be able to do some ordinary work.
I don't approve of her becoming an actor who is bright on the outside, but very the inside.
So in 1964, on the eve of graduation, Gui Yalei chose to embark on an unusual path.
At this time, the students of the school began to audition around, hoping to get more opportunities to act.
But Gui Yalei entered a welfare school,
Became a teacher.
All day long with innocent children,
Although the days are slightly uneventful, the salary is also very meager.
But Gui Yalei still feels that this life is very happy.
But one day, a classmate from the former art school came to gui yalei.
At school, the classmate told her that the "Miss China" contest was registering.
Gui Yalei should seize this opportunity and try it anyway.
Gui Yalei is famous for her "beauty" in school.
Her outstanding appearance made her a "big star" in the hearts of many people before graduation.
Gui Yalei has adapted to the teaching life in the school at this time,
I also plan to continue to work here as soon as I graduate from art school.
She didn't want to take that step.
But in the face of the kind words of the classmates,
In addition, I still have a strong yearning for performance in my heart.
So Gui Yalei decided to try it anyway.
Even if it's just a "play and watch" mood.
Gui Yalei participated in the selection of "Miss China" in Kaohsiung, Taiwan Province.
But Gui Yalei, who originally just held the mentality of "playing and playing",
With outstanding appearance and outstanding temperament,
In one fell swoop, he won the regional selection competition.
It stands to reason that champions from all regions should continue to compete,
Attack towards a higher level of selection.
But Gui Yalei chose to stop there.
Gui Yalei, who won the "championship laurels", withdrew from the competition,
She returned to school and was back as a regular teacher.
I thought it was just a small episode in my life.
Just like Guiare thinks that acting is something,
In the future, it will be just a hobby of my own,
It was a topic of conversation with someone many years later.
But unexpectedly, in 1964, the film "Smoke and Rain" project was launched.
Director Wang introduced him to the art school where Gui Yalei studied to select actors.
The director of the school's film and drama department saw the kind, beautiful, confident and stubborn "Lu Yiping" in the script.
In an instant, I remembered Gui Yalei.
The director recommended Gui Yalei to the director.
At this time, Gui Yalei rehearsed the graduation drama at school.
And she's ready,
I plan to return to the school to teach calmly after graduation.
But at this time, Gui Yalei received a call from the film crew,
She was shocked with a hint of excitement,
She knew in her heart that this was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for her.
But Gui Yalei hesitated in the face of the school work she was responsible for in reality,
But in the end, the dream he had been holding since childhood defeated the stability that reality brought to Gui Yalei.
She went to the crew for an interview.
And passed very smoothly, becoming the new "Qiong Yao Girl",
It has also become "Lu Yiping" in "Misty Smoke and Rain".
In 1966, Gui Yalei won the role of "Lu Yiping" in the movie "Smoke and Rain",
Won the 4th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Award for Best Actress.
In the words of many viewers, it is "debut is the peak".
Two
In fact, gui Yalei participated in the movie and became "Lu Yiping",
It's not everyone's support.
Her husband, then fiancé, was strongly opposed to her becoming an actress.
Gui Yalei and her husband have known each other since they were in school,
The two spent their young years together,
It can be called the friendship of "green plum bamboo horse".
But Gui Yalei's husband is a man who is very traditional in his bones.
He always believed that there was no nine-to-five life as an actor.
The uncertainty of time will bring greater trouble to the family.
And in the show business world, there will be all kinds of complicated situations,
His wife may be affected and have an "affair".
Compared to "stars" and "movie actors",
He wanted his wife to become a teacher.
Doing ordinary work, two people living ordinary days.
Gui Yalei has always been very understanding of the requirements of her family and fiancé,
But her love for acting has always been in the eyes of everyone.
She told everyone about her persistence and eventually won the support of her family.
In the face of her fiancé, Gui Yalei also used a special move.
She called her fiancé, who had gambled with her, to her and quietly told him:
"If I hadn't become 'Yi Ping', I would have come back and continued to be a teacher.
But if I become 'Yi Ping', I will act, and when I finish making the movie, I will marry you when I come back. ”
With this commitment, Gui Yalei's fiancé finally assured her to go to the film.
moreover
When Gui Yalei continued to work hard to shoot the movie "Smoke and Rain",
Her fiancé is also secretly and silently helping her.
He bought the original novel of "Smoke and Rain" for Guialei,
Although it is a love story written by Qiong Yao, in order to help her fiancée,
This "traditional" man still accompanied Gui Yalei to read the whole novel,
He also often helps her practice, constantly looking for the feeling of the character.
After the release of the movie, Gui Yalei became a hit and became a household name for female stars.
At the same time, she did not renege on her promise, registered her marriage with her fiancé, and entered the palace of marriage.
On the day of receiving the Golden Horse Awards, Gui Yalei stood on the stage,
Thanks to many people,
Thank you for your understanding, thank you for your husband's company.
Gui Yalei has said many times in the interview,
The gentleman gave her a nice piece of cloth on the eve of her graduation.
Gui Yalei cut this cloth into a cheongsam,
She wore this cheongsam to the graduation ceremony and entered the palace of marriage.
Eventually, she also wore it and became the queen of the Golden Horse Awards.
Three
After that, Gui Yalei filmed films such as "Winter Warmth" and "Home in Taipei".
Just when everyone thought that Gui Yalei would take advantage of the victory and pursue,
As the actor continued to advance on this road, she suddenly announced that she was gone.
In 1970, Gui Yalei won her second Golden Horse Awards queen trophy.
But then she suddenly faded out of show business.
She returned to her family, became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter.
Gui Yalei's departure shocked fans and audiences.
They don't understand,
Why would such a young actress choose to get pregnant and have a child when she is just red?
But for Guialei,
Become an actor,
Shining in movies is what you pursue.
But in real life,
Returning to her family and nurturing the next generation with the people she loves is also her wish and dream.
Gui Yalei left the audience's attention for three years.
Until the daughter grows up, she can not be accompanied by her mother all day long,
Gui Yalei moved her mind to return to the TV screen again.
However, this comeback was still blocked by her husband.
Like when I first debuted,
The husband felt that Gui Yalei had made several movies as an actor,
And has won a high gold award,
You can give up the idea of becoming an actor again and return to your family completely.
But this time,
Gui Yalei showed a stronger desire.
She and her husband said,
If you first debuted, your persistence was only based on your interest in acting.
So now, my firmness is the unrelenting pursuit of the word "actor".
In the end, Gui Yalei persuaded her husband,
But at the same time, the husband also proposed to "make three chapters of the covenant law" with Gui Yalei,
She is asked to strictly abide by her own requirements in the future shooting process.
Guialei's husband asked her,
Can't socialize outside during a filming period;
The second filming scene must not shoot exposed shots;
Third, you can't give fans photos of yourself or your family;
Four Can only wear skirts that are below the knee length when shooting.
Gui Yalei agreed one by one.
Because she knows very well in her heart,
Husbands are protecting themselves and their common family.
With the support of her family, Gui Yalei no longer has any worries.
She has filmed many works such as "Titi's Diary", "Eating Men and Women", "Wedding Feast" and so on.
Wait until many directors appreciate,
It has also won the love of many audiences.
But once,
When filming the movie "Eating Men and Women", because of the needs of the plot,
The director and Gui Yalei discussed whether they could take off the petticoat they were wearing during the performance.
This seemingly small thing was sternly rejected by Gui Yalei.
Because she always remembers her agreement with her husband,
Although she knew that if she consulted with her husband, he would definitely agree,
Don't let yourself get caught in the middle.
But in order to keep his promise, Gui Yalei did not call her husband to negotiate.
Instead, he directly rejected the director.
In the final movie,
Gui Yalei was still wearing that tight petticoat,
But outside the play,
Gui Yalei, who has been criticized by the director for a long time, hid alone in the corner of the set and cried for a long time.
Even so, Gui Yalei never complained to her husband about anything.
This kind of thing often happens in later shooting,
Therefore, during that time, Gui Yalei was often labeled as a "big card" by the major media.
Saying that she set up the shelf of the star, she did not cooperate with the director's requirements at all, and privately reduced the drama and changed the play.
Gui Yalei's husband knows the truth of the matter from the media reports,
After thinking about it for a long time, he reflected on whether his request was really reasonable.
Whether it will have a negative impact on Gui yalei's career.
After that, he took the initiative to mention it to Gui yalei, who returned home,
He chose to abolish this requirement of the "three chapters of the covenant law" with his wife,
Let her have no further restrictions on her future acting career.
Four
Gui Yalei repeatedly talked about the secrets of her and her husband's 50-year marriage in the interview.
She said: "One must be loving between us, the second is tolerance, and the third is filial piety." ”
The first two points of Gui Yalei are talking about getting along with her husband and the two,
The third point is that they should maintain full filial piety to each other's parents.
Gui Yalei introduced that her mother-in-law was actually a "small-footed woman",
Coming from rural Henan, I have never read a book.
But Gui Yalei, as a daughter-in-law, has never abandoned this "rural mother-in-law",
But to filial piety to her as much as possible,
Even if the mother-in-law has done something inappropriate, Gui Yalei will choose the right way and method,
Definitely not "stand up to it" with your mother-in-law.
Gui Yalei said in an interview,
His mother-in-law is very frugal,
The leftovers at home are not willing to throw away, and always say "hot can still be eaten".
Once an old man took a bowl of noodles from the refrigerator,
But Gui Yalei found that the bowl of noodles had "turned green".
She told her mother-in-law that the bowl of noodles had grown hairy and steamed, and that it could no longer be eaten.
But because of presbyopia, the old man can't see the "mildew spots" on the noodles at all.
So I still insist that this bowl of noodles can still be eaten.
GuiaLei is not an old man,
Just tell your mother-in-law directly that you will heat the noodles,
See if the bowl of noodles can still be eaten after the heat is finished.
After the noodles are heated, the real smell wafts out,
The old man sniffed, skimmed his mouth and said to his daughter-in-law:
"Throw it away."
Gui Yalei will smile every time she mentions her mother-in-law,
She said that although her mother-in-law's knowledge and culture were not high, she was very open-minded and enlightened.
Gui Yalei's husband did not agree to her going out to shoot in the early years, and asked her to return to school to become a normal teacher.
But the mother-in-law advised her son,
"Since you have chosen this person as your wife, you must understand her and trust her, otherwise why would you marry her?"
With the help of the mother-in-law,
Gui Yalei's husband finally agreed that she could make a comeback,
Go back to the screen and continue to realize your dreams.
Five
To this day, Gui Yalei has gone through the golden marriage years with her husband.
Together throughout their lives, the two have joined hands since they were young, and they have not been separated since then.
Mr. Guiare was a pilot when he was young,
After his retirement, he often followed Gui Yalei out to shoot films, taking good care of her from the sidelines.
Even if you can't keep up with the days around you,
They're going to keep talking every day.
He also shares his life with his daughter who is far away in the United States.
Gui Yalei, who is 78 years old this year, is still active on the TV screen.
She said in an interview:
"As long as you have the strength to continue to work,
But in order to ensure quality, it will definitely reduce the number of films, one or two times a year. ”
50 years of acting career, starred in more than 100 movies, TV series works.
He has won many awards in Taiwan, Asia and even Europe.
An entertainer like Gui Yalei is truly worthy of the word "actor":
For performance, there is a sense of awe;
For life, there is also its own insistence on righteousness.