In the intercourse between men and women, when encountering a situation where men do not care, do not worry, do not panic! There is a saying that only when there is no chaos in the face of danger and not being alarmed can we achieve great things. The same is true of feelings. If you are helpless as soon as you encounter a little situation, or even go to the doctor in a hurry, it is easy to make the relationship between the two people more problems and contradictions. It is especially worth mentioning that some women, in the face of men's indifference, will be particularly unconvinced, and even entangled with men, do not know, the more so, the more men will be reluctant to take care of you!
Human nature is very realistic, and those who are stronger than themselves will always look up at it, and even be jealous. And those who are soft in front of themselves or concede defeat will always be looked down upon. So, for women, in the face of men's unreasonableness, it is enough to do the following 3 points!
First: cold treatment
In the relationship between men and women, if you meet a man who does not pay attention to you, you must learn to deal with it coldly. This way of dealing with it is very simple, when the other party does not pay attention to you, you must also learn to stay away. Sometimes, keeping a sense of distance from the other person, or not pestering the other person, makes it easier for the other party to have a sense of awe for you. Even if the other person doesn't love you, it won't bother you!
In addition, such "cold treatment" must have room for maneuver, otherwise it will become a Cold War. If the other party has signs of emotional reversal, then it is necessary to give the other party a certain step down, so that the two people can find out each other's temper and personality, but it is conducive to the development of feelings.
Second: hot digestion
In the relationship between men and women, regarding men's unreasonableness, we must understand "hot digestion", how to digest hot, that is, to take the initiative to figure out what is the reason why men do not care about you. The emotional relationship between men and women can not sit still, especially for women must take the initiative to figure it out, can not think wildly, and can not complain about the world.
If men do not pay attention to you, because of their own problems, they should take the initiative to stand up and admit their mistakes, so that not only will they not let men look down on you, but will admire your courage to admit your mistakes.
Third: Quick battle and quick decision
In the relationship between men and women, regarding the situation that men do not pay attention to you, do not be afraid and afraid, and learn to bravely face the feelings between two people. Men who don't pay attention to you can be emotionally unclear. However, you can't be confused in your feelings. Sometimes, directly facing the emotional problems of two people is to stop the loss for their feelings, at least there is no need to waste more time entangled with each other.
Therefore, at this time, women can directly confront men, and if two people can continue, don't let anyone ignore anyone. If men don't like themselves anymore, or don't want to be together, they don't have to be reluctant, and sometimes it's better to ask for an answer than anything else.