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On Chinese New Year's Eve night in 1995, the family sat around the old-fashioned TELEVISION set, watching the sketch "Something you call me", a young man was very excited to point to the actress inside, and said to his mother:
"Mom, in the future my wife will be her, and this is your daughter-in-law."
The mother smiled and shook her head, apparently not taking her son's words to heart.
Who knew that after just five years, the son really brought this actress home, and the mother was happy to close her mouth, directly praising her son's ability and marrying a female star to go home.
This is the story of singer Sun Nan and actors buying red sisters, I thought that the obsession from childhood and the pursuit of goals for many years would make this relationship carry me for a lifetime, but it backfired.
01 Return to the family when it is popular
Mai Hongmei, born in 1970 in Pingdingshan, Henan, her parents are both music workers.
Maybe it is affected by the environment, or it is the good genes of his parents, and he can sing and dance well from an early age, which is particularly outstanding.
Once, at a young age, she saw her mother often looking enviously at people in military uniforms on TV.
In order to fulfill her mother's wishes, She Hongmei was conscripted into the army in 1984 and became a member of the Northwest Military Region's Cultural and Labor Corps.
Looking at her daughter in military uniform, her mother's eyes were full of heartache and tears.
Once, when the army performed the sketch "Female Soldier Variations", an actress was out of physical condition, so she bought a red sister and was pushed on the stage.
I thought the show was going to mess up, but the result was unexpected by the leader.
Although he did not participate in rehearsals, he had long been tempered in the army and admired the soldiers.
Let the buy red sister show this character very vividly, and also have the opportunity to board the Spring Festival Gala.
The "little nanny" in 1993, the "something you talk about" in 1995, and the "Xinjiang buy, buy, buy" in 1996, were repeatedly on the Spring Festival Gala, and only then did they have the opening scene.
If this situation continues to develop, it is not impossible to become the next Song Dandan. But the appearance of a man has disrupted her acting career.
While buying a red sister is well known to more people, Sun Nan has also accumulated some fame through a singing competition.
Sun Nan, whose career is becoming more and more popular, finally came into contact with the goddess of youth - buying red sisters on a show, and getting along for several hours made the two appreciate each other more.
Therefore, when Sun Nan confessed, buying Red Sister did not hesitate to agree.
Just when Sun Nan was struggling with how to give her a grand wedding, the red sister who was overwhelmed by love said: I have money.
In May 2000, the two people who had just met went to the temple of marriage.
On the day of the wedding, Sun Nan just took on an event, but just made a hasty appearance at the wedding, so he left the red sister to toast everywhere and deal with the guests.
Put on the average girl, maybe it will play a temper and turn around, but buy red sister does not have the slightest complaint, and apologizes to the guests over and over again for her husband.
With the help of buying red sisters, Sun Nan quickly gained a foothold in the music scene.
It was also this year that Buy Hongmei gave birth to their first child, Buy Baoyao, but Sun Nan was busy with her career all day, and she had no time to take care of her children, and she could not put her children in the elders' house for a long time.
Helplessly, he had to push off all the announcements and return to the family, wholeheartedly accompanying his daughter's growth.
02 After all, it was paid by mistake
With their daughters, they also lived an enviable and happy life.
For example, because of the relationship between buying red sisters, Sun Nan has not eaten pork since she fell in love.
On some anniversaries, surprises are often made, either by hand or by hand, or by hand, or by hand as a gift for the wife.
In addition, he also took his father-in-law and mother-in-law to live together, and his attitude towards the second elder made the biological daughter of buying red sister sigh to himself.
Once, Sun Nan peeled a prawn and handed it to his father-in-law's mouth, perhaps he had never enjoyed this treatment, so that the old man got up in a panic and hid in the bedroom.
Sun Nan did not give up, and sincerely chased the prawns from the living room to the bedroom, and had to feed his father-in-law a bite.
This move made the old man remember for a long time, and everyone praised: the girlfriend is married to the right person, and my son-in-law is very good.
However, his attitude towards his wife buying a red sister was diametrically opposite.
Sun Nan in life is a man with macho ideas.
Every time the couple quarrels, no matter who is reasonable and whose fault it is, the last person to bow their heads and apologize will definitely be to buy red sisters.
In the early interviews, Mai Hongmei always said: The husband is a particularly good person, as long as he is given a step, the solemn atmosphere that pervades the two will always ease up instantly.
The only topic that will cause the two to contradict each other is Sun Nan's obsession with sports.
In the morning, I go out to greet the morning glow, and after playing golf, I will go out non-stop to socialize or party with friends. The next day, the previous day's process is still repeated.
Obviously, they are the most intimate couples, but they are like tenants who rent the same house, so they buy a red sister and do not miss their husbands.
However, for Sun Nan, everything else can be discussed, but this alone cannot be. Who could have predicted that one of Sun Nan's hobbies would become the fuse that destroyed this happy family.
In 2007, Mai Hongmei had just conceived her second child, and while she had to endure physical discomfort, she tutored her eldest daughter's homework and took time to do tedious housework.
That time was her hardest time.
However, Sun Nan was trapped by the career of the day and one announcement after another, and whenever he came home, he lay on the sofa like mud, facing the help of buying a red sister, and also showed impatience.
Pregnant women are easy to think wildly, Sun Nan's behavior, so that buy Red Sister often asked herself in her heart: A person who loved me so much before marriage, why did she become like this after marriage?
Sun Nan was also confused when she lay on the bed: a girl who was so understanding before marriage, since she had a child, was out of shape, sallow-skinned, grumpy, and had no charm at all.
In this way, the two people who had a disagreement went farther and farther.
One continues to be at home with chai rice oil and salt, washing and cooking to take care of the children, one is either to the entertainment venue to borrow wine to dispel the worries, or to the golf course to relax.
The endless green meadows are like the scenery on the head of the red sister.
In an interview, Sun Nan told reporters about the way to get along between husband and wife: two people should have common interests and hobbies. Perhaps it is precisely for this reason that the nine-year-long marriage between the two has come to an end.
In the process of playing, Sun Nan met the host of the golf game, Pan Wei.
Although she has had two marriages and a daughter, the ease she shows can always eliminate the boredom in Sun Nan's heart and leave a ripple.
Compared with the "yellow-faced woman" who had just given birth to a child at home, Sun Nan's mind came up with a bold idea.
When he returned home, he filed a divorce for his wife, which made the red sister very puzzled, was it because he stayed at home for too long and lost his charm?
So he decided to come back to work.
First joined Oriental Satellite TV, became the host of a variety show, and then participated in TV series.
However, can buying a red sister who returns to her career really save the heart of the prodigal son?
The answer, of course, is no.
After a period of time, in order to regain his freedom, Sun Nan used most of his assets, thirty million cash and five properties as chips, and once again proposed a divorce to buy Red Sister.
Perhaps sensing the man's determination, he bought the red sister with a dead heart and did not keep it any longer.
And in 2009, the divorce procedures were completed, and just when the woman was immersed in pain, the man did not stop marrying Pan Wei, who was married three times.
After being sad, The red sister came out of the sadness of divorce and returned to work. After all, the family also has a daughter who goes to school and a son who is waiting to be fed.
Sun Nan seized this handle and directly sued his ex-wife in court, saying that the woman was too busy with work to take care of a pair of children, and demanded that the custody be withdrawn.
This paper complaint directly pushed the exhausted buy red sister into the abyss.
03 The status quo varies dramatically
How many times had she walked alone to the beach and wanted to plunge herself into the sea for a hundred times, until the cold sea flooded her feet, and a pair of childish faces appeared in her mind.
What should the two children do if she is gone?
After several thoughts, the red sister bought a smile for the rest of her life, patted the dust on her body, and left here.
After several years of litigation, Mai Hongmei decided to reconcile and raise the children together.
In 2011, she partnered with Guo Donglin and returned to the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, back to the spotlight, back to her favorite performance before marriage.
In addition, she has also participated in many TV series, such as divorce lawyers, good life and other works, there are her figures.
However, the ex-husband Sun Nan has made a whole moth.
In 2019, a topic called "Sun Nan sent her daughter to female Durban" quickly rushed to the hot search list.
When Xuzhou opened a so-called "Chinese studies class", Sun Nan and his wife discussed and decided to let their children learn traditional culture, so they also moved from first-tier cities to third-tier cities: Xuzhou, which is quite the meaning of Mengmu's three migrations.
However, careful netizens found that it was catty.
"Motherhood, motherhood, wife?" Girls must take marriage and children as the purpose of life?
In the 21st century, there are even parents who send teenage girls to learn these things, and let a group of boys and girls who are in their youth live in the same room.
Everything can't help but make people sigh, this is what the biological father can do?
Pan Wei also trumpeted in front of the camera: now Sun Nan and the two children of The Red Sister are both educated in traditional schools in Xuzhou, especially the daughter, who in addition to learning traditional etiquette culture on weekdays, also learns needlework such as female red embroidery.
Because she will definitely be a wife and a mother in the future, which is also to lay the foundation for her future life.
Although this passage does not seem to be wrong on the surface, but read the words with a red label and bold, you can see the intention.
Some people wonder, Pan Wei sent someone else's daughter to the female Durban to study, but what about her own children?
Earlier, Pan Wei's daughter had been studying at an ordinary high school in Beijing, and even if it was ordinary, it was a hundred times stronger than Xuzhou's "female Durban", right?
After that, Pan Wei also sent her daughter to study abroad. The education of the biological daughter and the stepdaughter is compared, and the difference comes out.
Maybe it was the wind blowing too much on the pillow, or maybe it was pretending to be confused, Sun Nan, the father, did not feel anything wrong, and stood next to his daughter with a smile and a smile.
During that time, there were many opinions on the Internet, and Sun Nan and Pan Wei, who were at the center of the rumors, became the targets of everyone, and they were ridiculed from the inside out.
At this moment, the parties bought Baoyao to stand up, and their words subverted everyone's three views.
"I learned a lot there" was a long paragraph of essay writing, full of admiration for my stepmother.
At this time, some netizens came out to dismantle her station, posted a screenshot and asked: You didn't say that a few years ago.
This family is in turmoil and intrigue, and the ex-wife bought a red sister but did not express her position, but instead became more and more focused on the development of her career.
Look at Sun Nan, without the blessing of the filter, the marks left by the years on his face are more and more obvious, the loose muscles, the wrinkles, so that he no longer has the style of his youth, in addition, the career is gradually declining.
Look at the 13 years of divorce, the 52-year-old buy red sister, although because of the first marriage, there was a period of empty window, but in the past two years received more and more scripts.
Variety shows, draft judges, career is smooth, emotionally enviable.
In the struggle for a career, she also met her current husband, Sun Yulun.
After the low-key marriage, he spoiled her as a little princess, and time not only did not leave a mark on her face, but also became more feminine and charming than when she was young.
On social platforms, you will often see pictures of buying the red sister's family going out to play, and from the looks and state she shows, the shadow of the 52-year-old cannot be seen at all.
Remember what Mai Hong mei said: When you hate a person, the best way to get revenge is to live better than him, and it is obvious that she did it.
Finally, I also hope that I can buy Red Sister and her current husband to join hands with Baitou and accompany her for the rest of her life.