Text / URANUS.
Editor / Little Love Letter
In 2008, the 51-year-old Liu Wei finally grew old and became a father, of which his wife Wang Xiaoyu naturally contributed.
The age gap in their teens did not become an obstacle for the two to be together, and they are still happy to this day.
Although Wang Xiaoyu is not as young as her husband's previous two girlfriends, she is the one who went to the end hand in hand with Liu Wei.
Liu Wei has also expressed his love for Wang Xiaoyu in public many times, and even his friends around him have praised Wang Xiaoyu.
So what kind of charm is behind this seemingly ordinary woman?
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Wang Xiaoyu is a famous makeup artist at Bayi Film Studio, and Liu Wei worked in a circle and met very early.
The two began to have in-depth contact with the crew of "Snowflakes That Drifted", and then found that they had many common languages, and soon fell in love.
Stills from "Snowflakes That Drift"
Although the two are more than ten years apart, they are not too young.
Therefore, the love between Wang Xiaoyu and Liu Wei is less impulsive and more stable and stable.
But if the two want to enter the palace of marriage, they must win the consent of Wang Xiaoyu's parents.
At that time, Liu Wei had been working hard to win the favor of his father-in-law, because his cooking skills were very good, so Liu Wei often went to Wang Xiaoyu's house to cook.
Moreover, my father-in-law was from Shaanxi and did not speak Mandarin very well, while Liu Wei happened to speak Shaanxi dialect, and the two often communicated in dialect.
Wang Xiaoyu's father is not an unreasonable person, and looking at Liu Wei's sincerity and care for his daughter, he is also relieved to hand over Wang Xiaoyu to this man.
At that time, Liu Wei had already starred in many film and television works, and the economic conditions were not bad, but Wang Xiaoyu did not receive any gifts when he was with him.
At first, in order to reduce contradictions, they could have their own space, and the two discussed the AA system when they were first together.
Liu Wei said: "If you need money, you can tell me, and you don't care how much money I make." ”
Wang Xiaoyu also readily agreed.
However, after a long time, Liu Wei took the initiative to hand over the financial power to his wife to manage, and when his credit card needed to be repaid, he transferred the information to Wang Xiaoyu, and his wife transferred money to herself before repaying the loan.
But Wang Xiaoyu is not the kind of "authoritarian" person, sometimes she finds that her husband's wallet is flat, she will take the initiative to stuff some money into it.
Soon after the marriage, Wang Xiaoyu became pregnant, which made Liu Wei, who had only become a father at the age of 51, very happy.
During her pregnancy, because her husband had been filming in Shanxi and had no time to take care of himself, Wang Xiaoyu followed Liu Wei to the filming crew to be with him.
On August 8, 2008, Wang Xiaoyu gave birth to the day Liu Wei was also accompanied.
How difficult it is for a person to grow up healthy, having children is a big pass for women, how long Wang Xiaoyu is in the delivery room, Liu Wei is worried about how long he is outside.
After the child was born smoothly, Liu Wei took a quick look at it and waited for Wang Xiaoyu to come out at the door of the delivery room, and the moment he saw his wife's safety, he let go of the hanging heart.
Liu Wei said that when his son was born, he had not yet found the feeling of being a father.
But watching his son grow up day by day, in the companionship and laughter, he became a good father, and the family of three was happy and sweet.
After marrying Liu Wei, Wang Xiaoyu put her energy on the family, and the term "virtuous wife and good mother" can completely describe her.
While taking care of the children to become a good mother, while taking care of the husband to become a good wife, the little life is tasteful.
And her care for Liu Wei also made many friends around her husband praise.
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In addition to taking care of the family, sometimes when Liu Wei is filming, she often visits the class, as long as his wife comes to Liu Wei's state immediately becomes different.
Every day the beard is shaved exceptionally clean, and there is a variety of cut fruits on the table.
Bai Yongcheng, a good friend of Liu Wei, said: "My sister-in-law is particularly sensible and considerate.
And she especially understands what kind of occasions she should go, what kind of occasions she should not go, when she should talk, when not to speak, she looked at Liu Wei from a distance, and the places that should be taken care of were taken care of. ”
Xu Songzi said that when he first saw Wang Xiaoyu, he felt that she was particularly dignified and stable, very atmospheric, and exuded the brilliance of motherhood, which was simply full of praise for her.
Once Liu Wei and Bai Yongcheng got angry because of a small quarrel, Wang Xiaoyu knew that he would take the initiative to call Bai Yongcheng for half an hour:
"In vain, your brother is like a child, if he has any bad temper, you should include him a little more."
In fact, there is not much contradiction at all, that is, the two people argue about the problem of the play, Liu Wei went home and casually mentioned it, and the careful Wang Xiaoyu put it on his heart.
When Liu Wei is on the show, Wang Xiaoyu will also prepare her husband's styling in advance. Friends said, "After being with your sister-in-law, you are more angry." ”
Wang Xiaoyu is a person who loves cleanliness and likes to live a clean and orderly life.
But Liu Wei sometimes throws things around when he is busy filming, and she also understands Liu Wei's hardships, never saying much, and every time Wang Xiaoyu, who enters the group to visit the class, has to be busy for a while to help her husband clean up.
But once made Wang Xiaoyu, who has always been gentle, crazy, she found cockroaches in the bathroom twice in one day, and even climbed on her son's towel, she quickly called Liu Weiche to clean the bathroom thoroughly.
In addition to taking care of Liu Wei meticulously, Wang Xiaoyu also has a unique perception of music.
At that time, there was an mp3 at home, as long as Wang Xiaoyu heard the music in the film and television works, he could know which movie it was, what year it was made, and who the director was.
Later, as long as Liu Wei wanted to watch a certain type of film, he would listen to the same style of music to Wang Xiaoyu, and Wang Xiaoyu would find out for her husband.
If a family wants to be harmonious and happy, it must be the love of the double arrow.
In addition to Wang Xiaoyu's care and consideration for her husband, Liu Wei is also a person who knows how to love his wife very well, and he has said more than once in public that he is afraid of his wife, and that he and Wang Xiaoyu are "Li Lianying and Cixi" relationship.
Although he said it, he always had a deep love in his eyes.
Director Yan Jiangang said: "Liu Wei is particularly careful, can accurately know when his wife wants to drink water, when she wants to eat fruit, when she is happy, when she is unhappy, and she is always inductive. ”
Liu Wei's care for his wife Wang Xiaoyu can also be said to be accustomed to it, which has become a habit of his.
But even intimate feelings will produce contradictions in life, and the husband and wife have set the rules, one husband and wife are not allowed to swear between one husband and wife, and the other is not allowed to use hands.
But basically the two quarreled and were angry, and Wang Xiaoyu, who was gentle, first went to coax Liu Wei to apologize to him.
As long as the wife gave a step, the two were soon reconciled.
The enviable love between Wang Xiaoyu and Liu Wei is inseparable from their efforts.
Wang Xiaoyu is distressed about the hardships of Liu Wei's work, Liu Wei also understands Wang Xiaoyu's tiredness of taking care of the family, and the two people understand each other and tolerate each other to have such a happy life.
Liu Wei also said: "Don't get married when you are not sure if you will divorce, and when your wife is pregnant, you must love her for the rest of your life." ”
03
Liu Wei, who has a son, is very fond of his son Liu Junlin, although he is more than 50 years old, but in order for his children to have a better life, he has been fighting in the front line of the actor, which also makes Wang Xiaoyu very distressed.
Although the work is busy, Liu Wei will also set aside time to go home with his children, and the people around him also say that Liu Junlin is Liu Wei's heart. In the face of children, the roughness of northeastern men has also become loving and gentle.
But on the issue of children's education, Liu Wei has never been ambiguous, and he is also very strict with himself in order to set a good example for his children.
During the rehearsal of the drama of "The Gate of the Big House", due to the long and high-intensity rehearsal, Liu Wei's body could not withstand it, and his entire shoulder was strained, but in order for the performance to go smoothly, he had to wear a shoulder strap and continue rehearsal.
Wang Xiaoyu knew that she would come to see her husband later, and when she looked at Liu Wei's appearance, she was so distressed that she began to cry when she hugged Liu Wei.
She understood that her husband was working hard for the family and for the sake of the children, but seeing Liu Wei injured, Wang Xiaoyu couldn't help but feel sad.
In addition to the mutual support of the family, the two also have a lot of common language in art.
Wang Xiaoyu and Liu Wei went to see the performance of conductor Zubin Meita together, and when Wang Xiaoyu saw the conductor greeting the audience, he had a lot of emotion in his heart:
"You see how touching it was when he turned around, but the eyes of such an old man were as pure as a child's, no flattery, no turbidity."
Liu Wei said: "We have intersections in our work, there is a lot to communicate, and she can often touch the essence of things. ”
In addition to lovers, Wang Xiaoyu and Liu Wei are also very close friends, and the state of the two people together is too general if it is described by tacit understanding, it is more like heart-to-heart communication.
Although Wang Xiaoyu, who is in her thirties, is no longer the age of a woman's flower, she has a different temperament and style in her body, more calm, more calm.
After marrying Liu Wei, she is her husband's helper and a good mother of her son, which makes the family full of warmth and love.
Although she gave up her career for the sake of her family and became a full-time wife, she has her own attitude to life, her view of art, and her understanding of the world.
She and Liu Wei tolerate and understand each other, and their happy lives are praised and envied. After having children, the world of two people was upgraded to a family of three, and the son's education in Wang Xiaoyu and Liu Wei also thrived.
Mature, indifferent, calm, gentle, these qualities converge to form Wang Xiaoyu, so that she can live comfortably and happily in her life and marriage.
I wish that all girls can meet their true lovers and keep their most beautiful selves no matter what kind of life they are.