Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult, and it is very common to quarrel and make noise, but it is too much to make trouble to kill people and relieve hatred.
In 2010, Xu Yili, a teacher at Changshu University in Jiangsu Province, was slashed to death by her mother-in-law Liu Xiuying with a knife 12 times, which is a typical example. However, after the tragedy, everyone really couldn't figure out why a good daughter-in-law like Xu Yili would make such a cruel move.
Dr. Xu Yili graduated, the family conditions are superior, despite the parents' opposition to marry the phoenix man Dong Gangbiao, when they got married, the family's house and car were subsidized by their parents.
However, such a daughter-in-law, Liu Xiuying not only does not know how to cherish, but even bullyes her in every way, unfortunately, her husband has always stood on the side of her mother and never helped her speak.
Unfortunately, Xu Yili's patience did not exchange for calm and calm, but connived at Liu Xiuying to raise a butcher knife to her, and her life was forever frozen at the age of 31.
What is even more shocking is that after Xu Yili's death, Liu Xiuying only stayed in prison for 2 years, while her husband Dong Gangbiao inherited the house and car purchased by her parents, and married Xin huan to re-establish a family.
Almost all the people who heard about this were not worth it for Xu Yili, but what made people helpless was that all this was unreasonable but legal.
In 1979, Xu Yili was born in Changzhou to a family of high-ranking intellectuals, her parents were university professors, and she was provided with superior material and educational conditions from an early age.
In such a family, it can be said that from the beginning to win at the starting line, do not have to run for livelihood, naturally Xu Yili has developed a meek personality, but also a simple and kind obedient girl in everyone's eyes.
At the same time, influenced by her parents, Xu Yili also likes to read and study, and her grades have always been very top-notch. After graduating from university, she continued her further studies and successfully obtained a doctorate certificate from China University of Mining and Technology in 2005.
In the same year, Xu Yili was hired as a teacher by Changshu University of Technology, and her parents felt very proud to see that her daughter was only 26 years old and could stand on the university's podium to teach.
However, what worries them is that Xu Yili has patronized reading all these years, and the lifelong events have been put aside, seeing that she is not young now, and her parents have begun to worry about her marriage.
Coincidentally, Xu Yili really met someone she liked shortly after work, but the person she liked made her parents not satisfied at all.
The man who moved Xu Yili's heart was named Dong Gangbiao, who was also a teacher at Changshu University of Technology, but his background was very different from Xu Yili's.
Dong Gangbiao was born in 1973, his hometown is in the countryside of Jining, Shandong, he lived a hard life from an early age, and was admitted to the university by hard work, and then obtained a master's degree to teach in colleges and universities, step by step from the countryside to the big city.
From a cold student to a university teacher, such a transformation experience is a standard phoenix man in today's words, but what is more special is that he also has a very "unusual" mother.
Dong Gangbiao's mother is named Liu Xiuying, is an uneducated rural woman, strong and fierce, married 3 times, had 4 children, Dong Gangbiao is her most valued young son.
After the death of her third husband, Liu Xiuying single-handedly raised Dong Gangbiao alone, and her son's ability to be a teacher at the university made her have a special face in the village, and she always liked to show her son in front of people, and she would enjoy happiness in the future.
At the same time, seeing that her son is getting older and has no girlfriend, she has also been entrusting people around her hometown to find a blind date for her son, but even rural girls hate his family is too poor, coupled with Liu Xiuying's difficult personality, even matchmakers are reluctant to come to the door to say kisses.
However, Xu Yili can't see through this, of course, this is also closely related to her growth environment. Xu Yili has not worried about material life since she was a child, her parents are people who know books and dali, and the family's daily life is also warm and harmonious, so she can't imagine a chicken feather in life, but simply thinks that two people who love each other will be happy together.
Therefore, Dong Gangbiao, who no one wanted in the countryside, became a fragrant feast in Xu Yili's eyes, and then plunged into the arms of the phoenix man.
Although Xu Yili did not have the ability to recognize people, her parents did, and after learning about Dong Gangbiao's situation, their parents strongly opposed the two being together.
They painstakingly persuade their daughter that two people with too big family backgrounds are together, and there will be many contradictions in living habits and ways of thinking in the future, and love marriage cannot be too idealistic, otherwise they will regret it for a lifetime.
But Xu Yili did not take these words of her parents to heart, but instead admired Dong Gangbiao's courage and efforts to change his fate by himself, and decided that he was the person she wanted to marry.
Seeing that their daughters were so determined, the parents could not forcibly break them up, so they had to be forced to agree.
In 2006, Xu Yili and Dong Gangbiao got married, and although her parents did not favor their marriage, they still sent a car of more than 200,000 yuan as a dowry.
Because Dong Gangbiao simply could not afford to buy a new house in the city, Xu Yili could only live with him in a dormitory assigned by the school after marriage.
However, in this regard, Xu Yili did not complain, she believed that through hard work, the house would be there in the future. At first, the two of them also had a sweet and warm time in the temporary dormitory, but soon after, all this was disrupted by the arrival of an uninvited guest.
This uninvited guest was Dong Gangbiao's mother, Liu Xiuying, who had been thinking about moving to the city to live with her son since her son had married his daughter-in-law.
She felt that she had single-handedly pulled her son up, and now that her son was out, it was time to enjoy the blessings, and more importantly, she did not trust Xu Yili, the daughter-in-law in the city, and felt that she should discipline her well for her son.
Liu Xiuying's arrival caught Xu Yili off guard, although she was displeased in her heart, but looking at her husband's face, she still warmly received this mother-in-law who looked unkind, but she did not expect that there would be no peaceful day in the family from now on.
Liu Xiuying gave Xu Yili a dismount a few days after she arrived, because the dormitory area allocated by the school was not large, so Xu Yili bought a foldable wire bed for her mother-in-law to sleep at night.
However, this kindness of the daughter-in-law made Liu Xiuying extremely dissatisfied, and she began to count Xu Yili in front of her son, complaining that the daughter-in-law did not respect her, and she slept on a tightrope bed with a sore body, and the bed in the countryside was more comfortable than this.
What was even more excessive was that the next night, she directly moved her quilt to her son's bed and drove Xu Yili to sleep on the wire bed.
In the face of such absurd and unreasonable behavior of her mother-in-law, Xu Yili was very angry, but Dong Gangbiao advised his wife not to worry about her mother, quarreled and let outsiders listen to the joke, and endured everything.
In order to take care of her husband's face, Xu Yili had to swallow her breath and watch Liu Xiuying sleep peacefully next to her son every night, while she was forced to sleep on the fold bed. The newlyweds are forced to go to bed and sleep by the evil mother-in-law, who can bear this?
Shortly thereafter, Xu Yili's parents heard about the incident, and the old couple who could not bear their daughter's grievances paid for the two of them to buy a house in the city.
What is more intimate is that Xu Yili's parents are afraid that Dong Gangbiao will think too much, and only his name is registered on the real estate deed. That is to say, Dong Gangbiao, a phoenix man, achieved a big leap by marriage, not only had a daughter-in-law in the city, but also a car and a house.
The son has a house, of course, the old mother also wants to go in to enjoy the blessings, Liu Xiuying followed her son to live in the new house bought by the daughter-in-law's family.
With such a generous family and sensible daughter-in-law, it is reasonable to say that Liu Xiuying should be grateful, but she thinks that Xu Yili has climbed her son, and Xu Liyi, as a woman, is to serve her mother-in-law and husband well, and there can be no complaints.
What is even more aggravated is that Liu Xiuying also used the set of rural feudal mother-in-law to manage her daughter-in-law's daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law went to work to earn money like her son, but when she returned home, Dong Gangbiao did not have to do any work, and Xu Yili had to undertake all the housework.
As a knowledge-based new woman, Xu Yili naturally cannot accept this set, but as long as she raises objections, Liu Xiuying will break her mouth and scold.
Whenever this time, Xu Yili hopes that her husband can help her say a few fair words, but what disappoints Xu Yili is that Dong Gangbiao is not only a phoenix man, but also a true mother-in-law, every time she and her mother-in-law have a conflict, Dong Gangbiao always tries her best to defend her mother, complaining that she should not worry about the old man.
With her son to support herself, Liu Xiuying became more arrogant, as if she was the hostess of this family, and Xu Yili lived in the house bought by her mother's family more like a sender under the fence.
Later, Liu Xiuying and her eldest son born to her first husband went to Changzhou to work, in order to save her son money for renting a house, she did not consult with Xu Yili and directly arranged for her eldest son to live in the underground garage of the new house.
It is not a big deal that the family occupies the house, and what is even more excessive is that Liu Xiuying often finds opportunities to lock Xu Yili outside the door and prevent her from sleeping in the house.
Dong Gangbiao continued to study for a doctorate after marriage, sometimes need to study outside and can not go home, whenever there are only two mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family, Liu Xiuying as long as she hears that Xu Yili has to work overtime, she will deliberately lock the door of the home early.
Xu Yili worked overtime to go back and couldn't open the door lock, and the fear of disturbing the neighbors at night did not dare to call the door, so she had to find a way to go out for the night, and sometimes simply made up the night in the car.
She did not dare to mention these grievances to her parents, for fear that they would worry about themselves, nor was she embarrassed to complain to her friends, and the female doctor who was in the hall was bullied into such a situation by an uneducated rural mother-in-law, which made her feel embarrassed.
In 2007, Xu Yili was pregnant, and she thought that at this time, her mother-in-law would read her good and no longer embarrass her, who knew that Liu Xiuying would still try to rectify her when she looked at her unfavorably.
When Xu Yili's stomach became large and she was unable to move, she deliberately splashed water on the smooth ground, and when she saw Xu Yili fall several times, she was very proud in her heart, as if her daughter-in-law was pregnant with someone else's child.
This is not cruel, the most cruel is that when Xu Yili gave birth to a son who was still in confinement, Liu Xiuying forced her to get up and do housework, and sneered at the side, the daughter-in-law in the city was too delicate, and she went to work in the field after giving birth to a child.
It is reasonable to say that such an evil mother-in-law had already sent her away, but Xu Yili was a particularly kind person, even if Liu Xiuying treated her like this, she did not drive her away, and later when Liu Xiuying got gallbladder cancer, she also took her around to seek medical treatment.
Who knew that after Liu Xiuying's illness was controlled, not only did she not have a word of thanks, but also spread rumors that her daughter-in-law often abused her during her illness.
Seeing that a piece of her kindness was treated as a donkey's liver and lungs, Xu Yili was extremely angry, and the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also fell to a freezing point, and what made it more difficult for her to accept was that her husband's attitude towards her was getting worse and worse, and several times when she and Liu Xiuying had a conflict, Dong Gangbiao also beat her.
Unable to bear it, Xu Yili proposed a divorce, but every time she mentioned divorce, Dong Gangbiao was busy admitting her mistake and writing a letter of guarantee, saying that she would never do it again next time.
In order to let her young son have a complete home, Xu Yili forgave her husband again and again, but she did not expect that she would be killed because of repeated tolerance and accommodation.
Since hearing Xu Yili propose a divorce to her son, Liu Xiuying hates Xu Yili even more, on the one hand, she can't tolerate Xu Yili's love for her son, and on the other hand, she is afraid that her son will lose his existing life when he divorces.
In order to maintain her authority in this family, but also in order to teach Xu Yili's disobedience, in every small matter, she has the intention to fight against Xu Yili, as long as she sees Xu Yili angry, her heart is happy.
Even, in the end, it reached the point of killing people and relieving hatred.
On the morning of November 26, 2010, Dong Gangbiao was away from home because of a business trip, and Xu Yili was reading a book in her room, preparing for an upcoming exam.
Liu Xiuying was alone in the living room watching TV, and deliberately turned on the volume of the TV very large, Xu Yili was so noisy that she could not calm down to read the book, so she asked Liu Xiuying to turn the volume down.
But she said it several times, Liu Xiuying did not hear, Xu Yili ran to the living room to unplug the power supply of the TV set, Xu Yili's behavior annoyed Liu Xiuying, and the two had a big fight over it.
Near noon, Liu Xiuying saw Xu Yili preparing to go out to eat with friends, so he scolded her again, and Xu Yili replied with a few words, which completely angered Liu Xiuying.
Immediately, she took out a pot of gasoline prepared at an unknown time and threw it at Xu Yili, and then when Xu Yili slipped and fell to the ground, she rushed into the kitchen and took a kitchen knife and slashed directly at Xu Yili's neck.
Sticky with oil, coupled with the habit of being pampered from childhood, Xu Yili was Liu Xiuying's opponent, before and after she was slashed by Liu Xiuying a total of 12 knives, on the spot due to excessive blood loss and died, it is said that her neck is almost cut off.
What is shocking is that liu Xiuying not only did not panic after killing people, but was quite calm, and even changed into clean clothes, and did not hurry to the small restaurant downstairs to eat enough, and then ran to the public security bureau to turn himself in.
In February 2011, Liu Xiuying was sentenced to death for intentional homicide by a court for voluntarily surrendering, and Dong Gangbiao issued a letter of understanding as Xu Yili's husband, and the death penalty was suspended for two years.
It is lamentable that after Liu Xiuying was imprisoned, she applied for medical parole on the grounds that she was suffering from cancer and was approved, so she only stayed in prison for 2 years.
A murderer who only ate two years in prison was so sad for the Xu family, but what was even more cold was that after Xu Yili's death, Dong Gangbiao threatened to send his son to the countryside to raise him in order to monopolize the house and car, so that his in-laws, who could not bear the suffering of their little grandson, gave up the inheritance right to their daughter's inheritance.
In order to compete for property, nothing can be done, and naturally Xu Yili's death will not have any impact on Dong Gangbiao's life, and soon after he began to go on blind dates, and reorganized the family in 2016, living with his new wife in the house that Xu Yili's parents bought.
At this point in the story, some people may say that the wicked have their own evil retribution, but the time has not yet come. But unfortunately, the wicked do not necessarily have bad retribution.
Dong Gangbiao can also be regarded as an accomplice in Xu Yili's murder, but he did not get any bad retribution, but instead rose step by step in his career, and after obtaining a doctoral diploma, he was also rated as an associate professor, and later promoted to vice president.
More than ten years have passed since Xu Yili's murder, and now many people are still talking about it, feeling unworthy for her, Xu Yili lost her young life, but the murderer only paid the price of 2 years in prison, and her husband took another woman to live in the house she left behind to live a moist life.
This seemingly unreasonable everything, but in the legal invulnerable, Xu Yili's marriage is indeed a tragedy, and the Internet has even set off a big discussion on whether to marry a phoenix man.
Reason before marriage is far more important than reflection after marriage, and everyone should look at it as much as possible and think about it as much as possible before entering marriage, and listen to the opinions of those around them.
If you are really unlucky enough to enter an inappropriate marriage, knowing how to withdraw at the right time may also save yourself from being hurt more.