According to surveys by relevant agencies, more and more couples are more likely to be able to have a girl, because in their view, daughters are not only more cute, but also able to worry less.
But after really having a daughter, parents who become parents find that there are actually many headaches in raising daughters.
Many families follow the principle of raising daughters, the whole family is particularly spoiled for their daughters, especially compared to boys, fathers are particularly spoiled daughters, and many young fathers are daughter slaves, unconditionally to meet the various requirements of their daughters, according to this way of education there are certain problems, which is not conducive to the physical and mental development of children.
There is a parent-child TV series that has aroused the heated discussion of many netizens, and the cute daughter in the video has been loved by many viewers, but the way her parents educate her has also caused discussion among the audience, and many netizens believe that there is a problem with her parents' education methods.
In the TV series, this lovely daughter has reached the age of primary school, but she can't even tie her own shoelaces and eat with chopsticks, and everything every day is arranged by her parents, like a little princess.
Professor Li Meijin, an education expert, once said: Instead of letting children grow up under the greenhouse, it is better to raise their daughters to be "wild".
Wild girls, more cheerful personality
I don't know if you have paid attention to observation, in life, those who are raised by their parents as tomboys, the personality is often more cheerful, there are not so many big miss tempers, easy to get along with others, easier to make good friends.
In the traditional concept, many parents believe that girls should be quiet and gentle, so in the process of raising children, they are more inclined to protect their children and are not willing to let their children face setbacks in life alone.
In fact, there is a certain error in such an educational concept, because parents cannot accompany their children for a lifetime, and children will one day face various setbacks in life and will also see the dangers of society.
Waiting for this day, if the child does not have a tenacious character and a strong heart, it is likely that he will be devastated by setbacks.
A wild girl who dares to rebel against injustice
Before seeing a video, caused the public indignation of netizens, in the video a pair of male and female friends quarreled for some reason, and then the man began to beat the woman, but the woman did not have the slightest intention of resisting, a look of resignation.
After the video was exposed, some institutions came to the door to help the woman, but in the end she chose to forgive her boyfriend and did not pursue any responsibility.
Women are in a vulnerable group in society, it is easy to be malign in life, at this time, many women choose to grit their teeth and endure, and finally can not be solved.
A large part of the reason for this situation is due to personality. Therefore, in the process of raising their daughters, parents should appropriately cultivate their children's "wild" personality, so that children dare to resist in the face of injustice.
How to raise a daughter with a "wild nature" is very important to do so
Don't spoil your daughter too much
Mr. Lee has been fretting about his daughter lately, as he finds that his daughter seems to be becoming more and more unreasonable as she gets older.
As soon as something did not go according to her wishes, he began to cry and make trouble until her parents agreed to her request, which made Mr. Li feel very headache, and he was worried that when his daughter grew up, she would become a cruel and unreasonable person.
In fact, the reason why the child will appear in such a situation is largely due to Mr. Li himself, because Mr. Li is a daughter slave who is a daughter slave who spoils her very much when he is young and unconditionally meets his daughter's various requirements.
In this regard, in the process of raising their daughters, parents must pay attention not to spoil their children excessively, and learn to refuse the unreasonable requirements of their children.
When your daughter makes a mistake, don't stop because of your daughter's crying and coddling, let her realize that it is not right to do so, so as to avoid the next time you make it again.
Let your daughter have her own goals in life
There was such a news before, which surprised many netizens, thinking that there was such an institution in the 21st century, which was simply a failure of modern education.
In this news, the so-called female Durban was exposed, and among these female Durbans, all of them were girls in their 10s, who not only had to learn the so-called three from four virtues, but also learned female red, doing housework and other content.
I did not expect that in this era, there are still such feudal remnants as female Durban, and there are so many parents who are willing to send their children to such institutions.
Women are not subordinate to men, and they also have the right to pursue their own lives and realize their ideals.
In this regard, parents must let their daughters have their own life goals, learn to work hard, become more independent, and have their own lives, so that their children can have a better life.
Let your daughter have a healthy body
Now many parents protect their daughters too well, are reluctant to let their daughters participate in physical exercise, afraid that their daughters will be physically hurt when they are physically exercised.
In their concept, girls should be soft and weak, so that they appear quiet and gentle. In fact, exercise is very important for girls, more participation in sports can not only make the body more healthy, but also play a role in sharpening children, so that children's personality becomes more cheerful.
epilogue
Making her daughter more wild can not only make her personality more tenacious, but also make her more courageous and dare to face all kinds of life.
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