In 1940, in order to escape the war, she and her husband were displaced to a village in the southwest. When they saw the beautiful scenery surrounded by mountains and springs, the tiredness of the days was swept away, and the mood of the family relaxed.
They personally designed and built a house of more than 80 square meters, designed 3 rooms and a kitchen, which was the only time in their lives that they designed a house for themselves. The house cost them little savings, even most of their belongings. To save money, they had to fight for every plank and brick, or even for every nail.
The only thing they didn't fall for was a phonograph and a few records, which was a belief in their lives. In the era of war, every day she had to clean the courtyard and make every meal by herself, even if she heard the sirens in the air.
No matter how bitter life is, we must also maintain our interest; no matter how difficult the fate is, we must not be in a hurry and deal with it calmly.
Her name is poetic, her works have been passed down to this day, and her elegance and calmness, wisdom and strength make people enjoy it.
She is Lin Huiyin, a soul intertwined with beauty and wisdom, with both the elegance of the East and the elegance of the West. Her life was filled with admiration.
01 Lin Huiyin's elegance
Lin Huiyin is undoubtedly beautiful.
Jin Yuelin, a lifelong friend, once gave Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin a couplet: Liang Shangjun, Lin Xia beauty. Bing Xin also praised her as "beautiful and talented". The cousins also praised her attire and conversation.
Lin Huiyin's female classmates studying in the United States also praised her as "an elegant and lovely girl, like a fine piece of porcelain." ”
Mr. Xiao Qian's wife, Ms. Wen Jieruo, also said, "Lin Huiyin is the most fascinating oriental beauty I have ever seen in my life."
The beauty of the beauty will pass with time, but the beauty of Lin Huiyin has more precipitation of the years and shows more elegant beauty.
Good-looking skin bags are the same, and interesting soul years live on forever.
She did not indulge in her external appearance, and tried to enrich herself, both inside and outside.
She wrote dozens of poems in her life, in which she wrote: You are the April day on earth, and the laughter lights up the wind on all sides.
As an architect, she participated in the design of the national emblem, and she followed her husband throughout the wilderness, only so that the folk house could leave traces of history.
She founded a cultural art salon at home, where literary giants such as Ba Jin, Zhu Guangqian, and Xiao Qian gathered together. She is the shining pearl, the spark of inspiration.
Her elegance is "enriched".
Lin Huiyin was born in a family of eunuchs, and attended the noble school —-- Peihua Girls' High School, which also gave her the opportunity to master English. When his father, Lin Changmin, went to Europe to investigate, he specially brought her there.
The experience of studying in Europe opened her eyes. Here, she absorbed the independent spirit and modern temperament of women in the new era, and let her have both oriental charm.
When a woman has enough experience and has seen the world, she will understand what is most important in her life and will learn to let go at the right time.
This elegance and calmness allows her not to blindly follow when choosing a life partner.
Xu Zhimo's love of "you are a little light in my heart" made her addicted; Jin Yuelin's admiration and following did not make her lost; Liang Sicheng's like-mindedness was her attachment.
The so-called "abundance" is not only the abundance of materials, but also the satisfaction of the inner world. This calmness is enough for her to keep a pure world in the prosperity of the floating world.
Father Lin Changmin is open-minded, providing enough growth space for her daughter to be optimistic and open-minded in her interactions with others, and has self-confidence. The knowledge and cultivation of this "rich" made her not lose her elegance and wisdom in the years to come.
Be an elegant person, enhance inner cultivation, calmly face the outside world, even in the fireworks of the world of chai rice oil and salt, you can not lose your measure, you can also maintain a free temperament, the heart is like a bodhi, and the breeze comes from itself.
02 Lin Huiyin's frankness
Mencius has a saying: The one who is sincere, the way of heaven is also; the one who thinks of sincerity, the way of man is also.
The meaning of this sentence is that sincerity is the standard of heaven, and the pursuit of sincerity is the standard of being a human being.
In the timeline of the vast universe, even if it is like a meteor, it is necessary not to lose the original beauty, and the sincerity and frankness hidden deep in the bones are the most eternal breath in the empty valley youlan.
There is a line in Ang Lee's "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon": No matter what decision you make, you must be sincere with yourself.
Sincerity can make yourself live a frank life, but also to gain the respect and sincerity of others.
Lin Hui's frank character allowed her to harvest love and friendship in the years of youth and blood.
In 1923, Liang Sicheng was hospitalized after being injured in a car accident, and Lin Huiyin visited with his family.
In the hot summer, Liang Sicheng was unwell and his mood became more and more irritable, so Lin Huiyin stayed behind to take care of him. Lin Huiyin carefully helped him wipe his sweat, turn over, and tell jokes to make him happy.
Happiness is the best medicine to cure the sick. Lin Huiyin's gentle words made Liang Sicheng's heart feel solid, and he was also more devoted to this agile woman, especially her frank and unpretentious temperament.
Under the meticulous care of Lin Huiyin, Liang Sicheng quickly recovered, and his father Liang Qichao praised it even more: I have another lovely daughter.
In 1928, they had a lover who eventually became a family. Sincerely treat yourself and others, not pretentious, not hypocritical, with such sincere emotions, Lin Huiyin deserves a lifetime of care.
In 1931, when Liang Sicheng returned from a business trip, Lin Huiyin said to him frankly: "I am in love with two people at the same time, and I don't know how to be good." She regarded Liang Sicheng as the most trusted person, did not hide her true feelings, and discussed a solution with him.
Liang Sicheng was very bitter, but he still said: "If you choose old Jin, then I bless you." ”
When Jin Yuelin learned of Liang Sicheng's words, he said to Lin Huiyin: "It seems that Liang Sicheng really loves you, and I can't hurt anyone who really loves you." ”
At this point, Jin Yuelin did not marry in his life, silently guarding Lin Huiyin, and even after they quarreled, he became the mediator of their marriage.
Love is fulfillment, and the three of them are honest with each other and form a fate for the next life.
Lin Huiyin used her frankness to achieve love and friendship.
Another figure that Lin Huiyin could not avoid in his life was Xu Zhimo.
In 1920, Lin Huiyin accompanied his father Lin Changmin to England to study, and met Xu Zhimo in London. At that time, Xu Zhimo was talented, elegant in conversation, and fell in love with Lin Huiyin at first sight, pouring out her intelligence and beauty.
Xu Zhimo has married Zhang Youyi, and the wise Lin Huiyin understands that his happiness cannot be based on the pain of another woman, nor can he let himself fall into an emotional vortex. After her father's study tour, she returned to China with her father, and then settled on Liang Sicheng.
In 1931, Xu Zhimo was tragically killed in a plane crash. All kinds of accusations against him by public opinion did not stop with his death, and even intensified, and all kinds of distortions and slanders were everywhere.
At this time, Lin Huiyin was no longer silent, and she wrote "Mourning Shima", affirming his talent and objectively evaluating his temperament. She wrote: Shima's most moving feature is his unbelievable innocence.
Lin Huiyin's sincerity and frankness once again showed her sincere and precious character.
Her sense of truth, her tolerance, her adherence to the bottom line, her way of dealing with the world, and her discernment between right and wrong make her live a transparent and calm life. Isn't she our role model?
03 Lin Huiyin's independence
Lin Huiyin's childhood experience is more special, when he was a child, he rarely laughed, and more often he smiled. Her mother was her father's step-brother, illiterate, had little common language with her father, and had other concubines in the family.
She has limited living space, not only to obediently appease her mother's unhappiness, but also to try to show her cleverness to her grandfather, grandmother and father.
Lin Huiyin's aunt knew dali and was familiar with poetry and song. She studied with her aunt since she was a child, and she was fascinated by the elegant and virtuous lady of traditional Chinese women.
In the quiet courtyard, she read poetry and books, and also comforted the sensitive and gentle heart, which made her heart richer and more independent in character.
At the age of 16, she followed her father on a study tour to england and lived in London for a year. Instead of getting lost in the outside world, she noticed that there was such a discipline, "architecture." She opened an indissoluble relationship with architecture, and "architect" became her dream.
Lin Huiyin's choice of architecture has not yet become a scale, she went to the University of Pennsylvania in the United States to study, but the school does not recruit girls in this major, she can only choose the Academy of Fine Arts, and then audit the architecture course.
In 1926, Lin Huiyin worked hard to become an assistant teacher in the Department of Architecture, which also gave her a deeper understanding of her beloved architecture profession.
Liang Sicheng was also deeply influenced by her, so he chose to major in architecture, and later became an internationally renowned architect.
They have made outstanding contributions to the development of Chinese architectural history. Together, they completed architectural materials such as "On Several Characteristics of Chinese Architecture", "Preliminary Investigation of Ancient Architecture in Jinfen" and "History of Chinese Architecture".
During her studies in Europe, she visited the ancient buildings there. After returning to China, she and her husband Liang Sicheng trekked thousands of mountains and rivers to investigate ancient architectural sites in remote areas.
The construction industry has always been the tradition of men's world. Lin Huiyin has earned a place for women in this traditional field.
She is conscientious in her work of surveying ancient buildings. In order to get accurate data, she often climbed these ancient buildings, measured them herself, and never avoided them because she was a woman.
The independent side of her personality has made her selflessly engaged in the state of work, and her achievements are worthy of her dedication.
Because of the painstaking efforts to protect ancient buildings, Lin Hui has devoted himself to the design of the Monument to the People's Heroes and the National Emblem, and has devoted himself to the inheritance of the traditional handicraft cloisonné. She and her husband, Liang Sicheng, co-founded the Department of Architecture for Tsinghua University.
Her left hand literature, right hand architecture, Lin Huiyin's excellence, not inferior to any man.
Write at the end
The consummation of the goddess is fulfilled by herself. Lin Huiyin has turned every step of his life into a beautiful scenery.
The famous psychologist Jung once put forward the concept of "intersex personality": there should be a gentle side of women in men's personality, and a strong side of men's personality.
Lin Huiyin just embodies the strong part of male independence among women. When her father unfortunately died, she understood that without his father's protection, she would learn to face it alone and go on strongly in the future.
She wrote in an article: We must learn to be strong in silence, not in a hurry. Quietness is a state of accumulating strength, accumulating thick and thin. When we are strong enough, with the strength to support, we will not be knocked down by pain.
Lin Huiyin uses her elegant independence, frankness and honesty, and uses her cultivation and talent to show her love for emotional life and career. Her poetic talent, her architectural achievements, the fragrance of her soul, each of which satisfies a man's yearning for a woman.
Her wonderful life has explained the temperament and style that a woman should have.
Writer Lin Qingxuan also said that the highest level of makeup for women is to change from the inside, read more, think more, be optimistic and kind, and decorate the color of life with knowledge and cultivation.
The years are rushing, may we all live authentically, live out ourselves, find inner peace in the best state of life, and if our hearts are at peace, it is a sunny day.
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