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Lead:
It is a good choice for the elderly to find some hobbies and interests to enrich their lives after retirement, there are many projects, and everyone's choices are different, but many people like to dance, square dancing and ballroom dancing are very popular. However, when dancing ballroom dances, you must keep to yourself and not do anything that hurts the marriage, otherwise you will regret it.
A 63-year-old man said: I have been dancing ballroom dance for less than 1 year, and I have changed 3 female dance partners, all of whom have other plans and are not right. What the hell is going on? Let's take a look at the story of Uncle Wang.
Self-narrator: Uncle Wang is 63 years old
I am 63 years old, I just retired not long ago, when I was young, I was doing seafood wholesale business, because I did not call myself able to suffer hardships, coupled with the help of my wife over the years, I have made a lot of money over the years, and the seafood wholesale store has also opened 3, now the business is still very good, I bought two houses to rent outside, I can rent more than 7,000 per month, I have 600,000 savings in my own hands, I wanted to be able to enjoy the later life, my wife left because of an accident.
Later, I thought about letting my son take care of the business, and I wanted to enjoy my retirement life, and after a lifetime of hard work, it was time to enjoy life. But I didn't know what to do, I didn't have any hobbies, but when I saw the guys around me dancing, I joined them.
I learned to dance ballroom dance, because ballroom dance requires a dance partner, generally men and women with dance, I myself do not know much, it just so happened that a woman came to ask if I want to be her dance partner, I did not think too much, I agreed. Her name is Liu Fang, Liu Fang has been dancing ballroom dance longer than me, and she dances very well, and she heard her last dance partner not come because she was sick, so she found me.
She taught me a lot of dance moves, I learned to improve very quickly, and then we talked more and more speculatively, so I added contact information and called every day. After talking to her for a while, I learned that she had two sons, and neither of them was living well, and one of them was not yet in his business, and he was idle all day, which made her very troublesome.
Once, after we danced, she borrowed 3,000 yuan from me, saying that the younger son had no money to pay off the mortgage, did not want to make his son embarrassed, and he could not help anything, so he borrowed money from me in a hurry, my impression of Liu Fang was still very good, I did not think too much, and quickly lent the money to Liu Fang.
Because this time borrowing money is more anxious, did not let Liu Fang write an IOU, but not long after, Liu Fang asked me again to borrow money, this time the reason is his son, because his son drove a red light and hit someone, need to pay the other party's medical expenses 5,000 yuan, although my relationship with Liu Fang is good, but for the matter of borrowing money, I still feel a little wrong, but I don't know how to say it.
In fact, I didn't want to lend her money this time, because the last time the money had not been repaid to me, I wanted her to write an IOU, but I didn't expect Liu Fang to say: "Big brother, don't write an IOU, or we live together, I still like you as a person, I want to live with you." "As soon as I heard Liu Fang say this, I thought that Liu Fang wanted to settle the account and didn't want to pay me back."
I said at the time, "We haven't known each other for a long time, so we can try to understand it first and see if it's appropriate." "I did not explicitly reject her, and then Liu Fang asked me to borrow money, before and after I have borrowed 30,000 yuan, I felt that Liu Fang had a bit of a problem at this time, I told my child about this matter, my child told me that I may have met a liar, Liu Fang is such a woman."
My child asked me to get the money back, I called Liu Fang, but her phone was always unable to get through, and then it was turned off, I later went to the place where she lived to find her, I did not expect that the neighbor next to me said that she had moved away three days ago, Liu Fang was just a tenant, I knew at this time that I was deceived, and I was very distressed.
But I like to dance, without Liu Fang, I later successively found 2 female dance partners, at first they were still very good, but later they are the same as Liu Fang, they are all trying my money, running my money to come, close to me is to ask me for money, I suffered a loss, this time I must not suffer any more losses.
I learned at this time that most of these ballroom dancing women do not have good intentions, they take the initiative to approach men in order to take other people's money, this kind of woman is not a good thing at all, I experienced these 3 evil female dance partners, I no longer dance, I think that the women who dance ballroom dance are not a fuel-saving lamp, such a woman is really too bad. I have also spent money to learn a lesson, and I hope that I will not meet such a person in the future.
Today's Topic:
In my opinion, dancing is no problem, the problem is those who have bad intentions, they take the initiative to contact others with purpose, win each other's trust and then cheat each other's money, such things are still common. Therefore, when choosing a dance partner when dancing, we must be cautious, and we must stay away from those women who have bad intentions.
Should Uncle Wang continue to dance ballroom dancing? How can he recover the money That Liu Fang owes? Welcome to leave a comment in the comments section below to discuss.