Men find solutions in complex details and derive pleasure and fulfillment from them; women find catharsis and satisfaction in the details of the discussion
- "Men from Mars, Women from Venus"
Concubine Hua: The Emperor has never hated me, the Emperor used to spoil me very much, even if I made a big mistake, he was angry again, and he was not willing to ignore me for too long!
Zhen Huan: If it were not for the will of the emperor, how could there be no doctor to tell you that you have musk in your body, not to mention that you have been infertile for many years, even if you gave birth to a small child, it was the will of the emperor.
Concubine Hua: (Crying and laughing) Emperor, Emperor, you hurt Shilan so bitterly (one head crashed to death)!
Every time I see this section of "The Biography of Zhen Huan", I can't help but feel a little sad in my heart, for Concubine Hua, and for too many women in this world who are addicted to love.
Men and women, are both people, but so different, men are good at calculation, women are good at sensuality, men will write poems for women after falling in love with women, women will make dreams for him after falling in love with men. Just like the dream that is perfect in the movie "Dream Space", she just doesn't want to go out again, even if she knows the cruelty of reality, she still insists on staying on the edge of the subconscious until the end of the world.
Like Princess Hua, also like her.
In the best of times, they met!
The peach blossoms full of trees reflected her face full of xia, her eyes were like a deep pond, and her hair was like a waterfall, and he couldn't help but look stunned.
She has a beautiful face, a lot of family lineage, and the people who chase her are like carp across the river, but she looks at this man who has nothing.
He is also a dignified man, looks down-to-earth and thick-minded, and looks like a good man.
He really understands women's hearts, has a sense of ceremony for her love, and will send her all kinds of small gifts every New Year's Festival, so that her life is full of surprises.
Of course, she thought that he loved her, so she did not hesitate to take out her own private money to support him in starting a business, and even begged her father many times to help him, to contribute money, connections, and resources.
"Wife, I love you, and I am really lucky to be able to marry you!" His love words are very beautiful.
She was always happily snuggled in his arms, her face full of smiles, as if she were immersed in an incomparably beautiful dream, just unwilling to wake up.
"Daughter, you have to take good care of yourself, my days are not much." An accident caused her father's factory to disappear, and her father, who was hurting her life, has since collapsed.
At the funeral, she cried to death, and he gently comforted her: "Don't be so sad, baby, you and me!" She held his hand tightly, afraid that he too would leave her.
His career is indeed getting better and better, it is simply a daily gold, his waist is getting harder and harder, handsome, rich, and understands women, and a group of warblers and swallows flew towards him.
"Wife, you don't have to work so hard now, you can enjoy life at home, take the children, and do what you like." He said to her gently.
Looking at his incomparably considerate look, she agreed, and she had never been able to refuse him.
Sometimes read books, sometimes watch dramas, sometimes raise flowers, sometimes accompany children, and the days of being a housewife are also idle, but there is always an inexplicable uneasiness in her heart.
"Old woman, you can go, he never really loved you!"
"It was a misunderstanding that you were together."
"You have no value now, so let's go."
One after another different women gave her all kinds of harassing phone calls, some hidden needles in the cotton, some arrogant, sometimes thinking about this situation is really angry and funny, are women, why bother for a man, women hurt women?
She rarely fought back, even if once she was born prematurely because of a vicious phone call, she still did not say a word.
Even though she had seen him walking intimately past her with a young woman in his arms, he looked full of spring light, and the woman was charming, she still didn't say a word.
She really can't be regarded as an ordinary woman, no matter what happens, no matter what happens, she doesn't cry, she doesn't make trouble, she doesn't argue or grab.
Because, she was waiting, either he said it himself to drive her away, or let him come back again.
It is said that the most paid in love is also the most hurt, and the deepest hurt will often love more deeply, and life is sometimes like a prank.
He's still a showdown!
"Let's break up, I'm in love with another woman." He said to her very calmly.
"Oh, then do as you please!" She also seemed calm.
No argument, or her character, or the decency she wants to leave him.
But, how many times, she lay on my shoulder and cried heartbroken, she said: "Obviously he loved her so much, how did he change his heart so much?" ”
But, how many times, while crying, she wiped her tears and said to me: "You say, does he still love me, but he is temporarily confused by the women outside, and when he wakes up, he will look for me?" ”
This is really a very painful woman, I always caress her with great pity, can't bear to hit her, can't bear to help her puncture the truth, "He actually doesn't love you so much!" ”
Because, this is too cruel to her!
She refuses to go on into other feelings, she refuses to come out and waits...
Perhaps when women love deeply, they will regard dreams as reality, hoping to sleep for a long time and not wake up. Men are their dreamers, they can easily implant ideas in their minds, and they can collapse their dreams just as easily.
In fact, I want to tell her that he just doesn't love you so much, you may just be his tool person, you may just be his last choice, you may just be his second-best trade-off.
In fact, I want to tell her that men and women are born different, men's world sword and light sword shadow, is the fame and fortune of the competition, women, sometimes just his icing on the cake, he really does not love you as much as you think, you are not as important to him as you think!
The truth may be painful, but it can be growing.
"Is this my blessing, or is this my iniquity?" It's not just the emperor who is wrong, I'm even more wrong! The love and time of these years, in the end, is wrongly paid! ”
Fortunately, the clever Zhen Huan woke up early.
Stop being so narcissistic!
Stop being so wishful thinking!
Mo Huo became a concubine, saying "Emperor, Emperor, you hurt Shilan so bitterly", and then turned his life into a puff of green smoke and went away with the wind.
How silly!
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