Jing Bairan's grandmother was hospitalized due to a fall, and he was unable to pay for medical expenses when he was young.
He immediately asked his father for help, but his father scoffed:
"When you are old, why don't you die?" Fall and fall,
Hurry up and roll! Less influence Lao Tzu to make money! ”
At this moment, Jing Bairan's heart was like a needle,
Only then did I realize what a wrong decision I had made...
Jing Bairan
01
Jing Bairan was born in 1989 in Shenyang, Liaoning Province, to an ordinary family.
My father was an ordinary worker and my mother was a tour guide.
Jing Bairan's birth has brought long-lost happiness to this family,
But the good times did not last long, after Jing Bairan's mother gave birth to him,
Quitting your job to facilitate the care of your child,
The pressure of life was all on Jing Bairan's father.
Jing Bairan with his father
The huge pressure of life overwhelmed The father of the well was breathless,
In order to release the pressure, he began to become idle, drinking and playing cards.
Slowly he also became addicted to gambling, and whenever his wife stopped him from making a mistake,
He would always scold, and when he was serious, he would punch and kick his wife.
Jing Bairan with his mother
In the face of her husband's scolding, Jing Bairan's mother could no longer bear it.
After Jing Bairan was born 28 days ago, he resolutely left home and never returned.
The departure of his wife did not wake up the fallen father of the well, he still spent as much time as before,
He didn't care about his swaddling son at all, and even wanted to throw Jing Bairan away.
Young Jing Bairan
Elderly grandparents, can't bear to see their grandson suffer so much,
So he took Jing Bairan to his side to take care of him.
Easier said than done, in order to raise grandchildren,
The grandparents, who have retired, have to go out to work again.
Jing Bairan with grandparents
In Jing Bairan's memories, Grandpa dragged his sick body to find a job watching the gate.
Grandma had no craftsmanship, so she had to go around picking up scraps,
From time to time, I will also go to the factory to make a bath towel,
Sold to manufacturers for a dime or two.
Although the days are hard, the three grandchildren live a relatively simple and happy life.
Jing Bairan grew up under the care of his grandparents, and soon reached the age of reading.
But the poor family could not afford to give extra money, in order to let the grandchildren receive education,
Grandparents who are more than half a hundred years old get up early every day and are greedy and dark, saving money and working hard,
Finally, I have gathered the money for my grandson's study.
Jing Bairan went to kindergarten every time he went to and from school, he was picked up by his grandmother.
Looking at the other children in the class who have parents to pick up and drop off, Jing Bairan is very envious,
One day he finally couldn't help asking: "Grandma, why didn't Mom and Dad come to pick me up?" ”
Hearing this, Grandma's nose slipped from the corner of her eye,
She took her grandson's hand and forced herself to endure sadness:
"Good child, Mom and Dad are very busy and have no time, and if they have time, they will definitely come to pick you up."
Listening to grandma's words, Xiaojing Bairan was very happy,
Bouncing all the way back to the house with grandma.
Time flickered and Kashiwa ran had gone to elementary school,
I also understand the hardships of my grandparents,
At a young age, he was very sensible,
Every time I came home from school, I would help my grandmother.
Jing Bairan childhood photo
Once he was hit by a bicycle on his way home from school.
There were several abrasions on the body,
He endured the pain and went home to help his grandmother with the housework.
Because he knows that life is very hard,
He was afraid that his grandmother would be distressed, and he was even more afraid that his grandmother would become more difficult because she spent money on his medical treatment.
The days pass in bits and pieces,
Jing Bairan has become accustomed to the days without parents.
But heaven seems to be playing tricks on him, and in 1996, 7-year-old Jing Bairan played at home.
A woman suddenly walked in outside the door, looked at the strange woman in front of her, Jing Bairan, and asked:
"Auntie, who are you looking for?"
This woman was none other than her mother, who had abandoned him and left home.
The grandmother who was working in the room smelled and came out to check, and was stunned at the moment when she saw her daughter-in-law.
Relieved, he walked over to his grandson and told Jing Bairan that this person was his mother.
The woman looks at the son in the swaddling of the past has grown up a lot,
Immediately hugged Jing Bairan and burst into tears.
Mom came back this time to buy him a lot of snacks and clothes, and thought of taking him out for a few days.
But Jing Bairan, who has never felt maternal love,
He is very distant from his mother and does not want to go out with his mother.
Helplessly, the mother had to stay at home to accompany her son, but within a few days, she left the house again.
Because after the mother divorced her father, she already had a new family.
After his mother left, Jing Bairan returned to his previous peaceful life.
But Providence tricked people, Jing Bairan's grandfather fell ill due to long-term labor.
Although there is no fear of life, but can no longer continue to work,
This makes it even worse for families that are not already wealthy.
Because he had no money to treat his illness, Grandpa could only stay at home.
The sensible Jing Bairan would carefully wipe his grandfather's body every day and pour tea and water.
Take care of Grandpa's living quarters, while Grandma continues to run for the livelihood of a family of three.
Jing Bairan and Grandma
As I grew older, my grandmother worked harder and harder.
When I was working, I accidentally fell off the stairs,
After breaking his leg and breaking his bones, Jing Bairan heard the news and rushed to send his grandmother to the hospital.
After arriving at the hospital, the doctor told him that his grandmother's medical expenses cost 2,000 yuan.
This is simply astronomical for the young Jing Bairan.
In order to treat his grandmother, Jing Bairan remembered his father,
So he ran all the way to the place where his father often came and went,
Sure enough, I found my father who was playing cards inside.
When he told his father about the 2,000 yuan medical expenses that his grandmother needed to be hospitalized,
But he was ruthlessly driven away, and his father said, "Don't stop me from getting rich!" Then he flew away.
Faced with his father's desperate feelings, the desperate Jing Bairan had to dial the phone of his mother, whom he had not seen for a long time.
After learning of her son's difficulties, the mother was silent for a while and decided to take out money to help.
Unexpectedly, he was opposed by Jing Bairan's stepfather, who said to his wife:
"I can pay you to raise your son, but I'm not obligated to take care of your ex-husband's mother!"
Listening to the angry words of his stepfather on the phone, Jing Bairan silently hung up the phone,
He knew that no one would help him now.
Learn to be independent,
Don't reach out to them for money even if it's difficult later.
Later, in order to treat his grandmother," he lied about his age and found a job delivering water.
Carrying dozens of buckets of water back and forth every day, my shoulders are swollen,
But he still endured the pain and gritted his teeth to insist,
After working for a few weeks, I finally managed to scrape together my grandmother's medical expenses.
With the money that had just arrived, Jing Bairan rushed to the hospital to hand over the money.
After a period of treatment after handing over the money, Grandma finally recovered her health.
I thought that grandma had recovered and the three grandchildren could finally return to their previous happy life.
But the hemp rope is specially picked and broken, and the doom is dedicated to finding the bitter man,
My grandfather, who had been bedridden for many years, suddenly deteriorated and died soon after.
Grandpa died that patio Bo Ran cried heartbreakingly,
For he has lost the most precious person in his life,
Looking at the grandmother who lost his wife and fell into sorrow, Jing Bairan knew,
From now on, he will have only one relative, his grandmother.
For this reason, he secretly vowed to make good money and let his grandmother live a good life.
Then the 16-year-old Jing Bairan began to work-study,
As long as he can make money, he will do the hard and tiring work.
Because I often use vacation and spare time to work,
Causing Jing Bairan to delay the study time,
After the middle school entrance examination, he was not admitted to high school.
Instead, they chose to attend a vocational secondary school.
In 2007, 18-year-old Jing Bairan and his classmates ate at a roadside stall.
Because of his handsome appearance, he attracted a customer at the next table.
The man was a tv director, and he went to Jing Bairan and said to him,
You are handsome in appearance, you can consider participating in the talent show "Come on! Good Boys" Shenyang Division competition.
Jing Bairan knows that the other party may be a liar, but he also knows that fame can make a lot of money,
So he needed money and went anyway, choosing to sing as a talent to compete.
Jing Bairan competition photo
What he did not expect was that the director did not deceive him.
He not only participated in the competition but also won the overall championship of Shenyang District,
He then went all the way to the national finals to win the championship and the best internet popularity winner.
After the game, he formed the "Four Young People of the Fallen City" with Fu Xinbo, Li Yifeng and Qiao Renliang to officially debut.
In the same year, Jing Bairan signed a contract with Huayi Brothers,
And with Fu Xinbo formed a BoBo group officially entered the entertainment circle.
Jing Bairan and Fu Xinbo
02
In the same year, the group released its first EP album "Glory",
A year later, he released his first music album "The World Is Big" and began to catch fire.
Although it became popular, it did not earn a lot,
But no matter how much money he earned, he would take it home to honor his grandmother.
With the combination of fire, Jing Bairan's development is getting better and better,
Because of his modest work, he was quickly reused by the Engineering Division.
In 2008, he co-starred with Yang Zi, Huang Shengyi and others in the comedy "Girl Rushing Chong Chong".
The play plays a kind and simple male protagonist, which is loved by the majority of the audience after the broadcast of the play.
Stills from "Girl Rush"
A year later, he starred in the campus sitcom "When Youth Is In Progress",
Jing Bairan also has an additional nickname of "Jing Bao".
Jing Bairan, who debuted as a singer, after shooting several film and television works,
Found that compared to singing he preferred the profession of actors,
So I began to transform into an actor.
Stills from "Youth in Progress"
Because I grew up with my grandparents,
The lack of fatherly love and maternal love made him understand the pain of loneliness very well.
In his inner world, he believes that only by being an actor can he release the repression in his heart.
In 2014, he cooperated with Andy Lau and Wu Junru in the film "Lost alone",
True color starred as Zeng Shuai, an orphan who had been abducted for many years.
Stills from "Lost alone"
Jing Bairan, who worked with a big name for the first time, was both nervous and excited.
In order to play his role well, he practiced hard every day,
Memorize the lines you read.
Even repeatedly ponder the character, action and characteristics,
He will also humbly consult Andy Lau and other old drama bones.
Andy Lau saw such a dedicated junior, and he was also happy to pass on the experience.
May be affected by their own experiences, more empathetic,
Or maybe it's because of the humble learning of the guidance of the predecessors,
Jing Bairan portrayed the characters in the film into three points.
Even after the shooting,
Andy Lau will also praise Jing Bairan without stinginess in the face of media interviews.
He said: "Jing Bairan is a very dedicated young man, very good, the future must be unlimited. ”
At that time, Jing Bairan did not begin to be proud of this achievement,
Still guard against arrogance and impetuosity, and seriously precipitate yourself.
If the film "Lost alone" is just a springboard for him to step into the acting world,
That movie "To Catch a Demon" is the best result of his struggle.
Still
It didn't take long for the director of "To Catch a Demon" to find Jing Bairan,
Invited him to the film.
What many people don't know is that the original male protagonist of this movie is not Jing Bairan, but Ke Zhendong.
However, due to the ke zhendong east window incident before filming, he ate a prison meal and could not star.
In the face of this situation, the director Xu Chengyi, who is both helpless and anxious,
Find Jing Bairan through the recommendation of actors in the circle.
At the beginning, the director was still struggling, and the film "To Catch a Demon" invested a lot of effort on its own.
Is it feasible to use such a fledgling newcomer?
But now there is no way back, Xu Chengyi can only hold the idea of seeing himself first,
Invited Jing Bairan to come to audition.
I didn't expect this audition to make his eyes light up,
Jing Bairan's temperament and appearance are very much in line with the image of "Song Tianyin" in his heart,
It was then decided to enable Jing Bairan.
Sure enough, as Xu Chengyi expected, once "To Catch a Demon" was released, it was all over the country.
It has refreshed and created more than 200 domestic box office records.
In just one month of release, it set a box office record of 2.438 billion.
Jing Bairan also relied on the role of "Song Tianyin",
Overnight, the fire spread all over the country, and the career ushered in the peak moment.
With his popularity, countless high-quality works have found him, and Jing Bairan has lived up to expectations
He has starred in "A Slight Smile is Very Charming", "Notes from the Tomb Robber",
"To Catch a Demon 2" and a series of film and television works,
Created one classic screen image after another.
Stills from "A Little Smile is Falling Down"
Director Er Dongsheng said of him:
"A good actor is born with a sense of rhythm, and Jing Bairan is such an actor."
With the steady improvement of his career, Jing Bairan finally gained a foothold in the film and television circle.
After becoming famous, Jing Bairan can finally let grandma live a good life,
So he secretly bought a house worth 30 million yuan for his grandmother.
And personally decorated the design.
After that, he took his elderly grandmother to live with him, and the two grandchildren finally lived a good life.
When Jing Bairan lamented that he was finally out of the crowd and could honor his grandmother well,
A bad news crept in.
This patio Bairan was filming in the crew, and suddenly received a call from the assistant,
He thought the company had given him a new notice.
Unexpectedly, it was the news of my grandmother's death.
Hanging up the phone, Jing Bairan was stunned, he couldn't believe it was true,
Before anyone else could come forward to comfort him, he squatted in place and cried with his head in his arms.
After that, he apologized to the director and immediately rushed home to see his grandmother for the last time.
The period after his grandmother's death became the darkest day of Jing Bairan's life.
When Jing Bairan endured grief and took care of his grandmother's affairs,
Here came two uninvited guests, these two people he did not want to see again in this life,
His father and mother.
After my parents heard that he was famous, they bought your grandmother a mansion of 30 million yuan,
For a better life for themselves, rush to grandma's funeral,
Pray for Jing Bairan's forgiveness.
In order to get their son's forgiveness, the two began to blame each other,
The mother said that she beat herself because of Jing Bairan's father,
Unable to bear it, he left him with a fierce heart,
And the father is even more unrepentant,
Brazenly said that he went to gamble in order to make more money to raise Jing Bairan.
Jing Bairan and his mother
Jing Bairan, who knows the nature of his parents, does not intend to forgive them,
But thinking about it, I have lost my grandparents who are dependent on each other,
If you don't recognize yourself with your parents, you will really become an orphan,
What's more, he deeply felt the pain of "the son wants to be nurtured and does not wait",
So he didn't want to let himself regret it again.
He forgave his parents and took them to his side for support,
In order not to let the tragedy of grandparents who are not honored to repeat itself,
He was very nice to his parents and took good care of them.
03
Parents who feel their son's love may really feel guilty about their son.
It also began to change slowly, and now I get along well with my son.
Jing Bairan has experienced the hardships of life,
Going around and around finally having a belated father's love and mother's love,
I have a happy family that I longed for in my childhood.
Hard and excellent Jing Bairan,
In addition to his tragic childhood, he also had a beautiful love before and after his debut.
Jing Bairan met his first love girlfriend Wang Ziru when he was in high school.
In Jing Bairan's description, this girl has a melon face, big eyes, and a tall figure.
She was a beautiful girl at the level of the school flower of that year.
After the two wanted to become friends, the girl confessed to him on April Fool's Day,
Jing Bairan, who was confessed, was very surprised, and the two came together.
"Actually, I liked her first, but I was too thin to be embarrassed to break through this layer of window paper."
Jing Bairan smiled and recalled.
The first love of the two is very much in love, but in the end still did not escape the graduation season.
When Jing Bairan participated in the draft, the love between the two came to an end.
The second girlfriend is Miss "Asia" than the third runner-up Lee Eun-qian,
It is rumored that the two met at an event in Beijing.
The two were exposed by the media after a year together.
Lee Eun-chi
But the two fell in love and talked very low-key, and after the explosion, they were never photographed together.
Some people say that the reason why Li Enqian and Jing Bairan are together is to rub the heat,
But before netizens could respond, the two quickly broke up and had no intersection.
Jing Bairan and Li Enqian
The third love affair is the well-known "Jingni" love,
In 2013, Jing Bairan and Ni Ni cooperated in the film "Waiting for the Wind to Come" to meet,
At that time, Ni Ni was interacting with Feng Shaofeng.
When Jing Bairan was asked by Venus about the criteria for choosing a mate on "Venus Show",
Expressed a lot of love for Ni Ni's type.
Stills from "Waiting for the Wind to Come"
Subsequently, Ni Ni and Feng Shaofeng broke up due to personality incompatibility,
Soon after, he was photographed walking together with Jing Bairan.
The relationship between the two has been very stable during the love period, often attending various public events together,
Often hold hands and go out shopping, and visit each other in the crew, which is very sweet.
Jing Bairan and Ni Ni
But after the beautiful love returned to calm,
The two announced a peaceful breakup on social media in July 2018.
Caused an uproar, the reason for the breakup was not mentioned by both,
Maybe the two have been together for a long time and feel inappropriate.
After the breakup, Jing Bairan began to focus on work,
Many wonderful film and television works have been filmed, and the acting skills have become more and more exquisite and more and more loved by the audience.
In 2021, he and Yang Zi collaborated again on the TV series "Female Psychologist" after 12 years of separation.
The two can be described as a continuation of the frontier.
Stills from "The Female Psychologist"
He and Yang Zi are both young actors with great acting skills and strength, and after the TV series they cooperated with was broadcast,
Caused a lot of repercussions, so that many psychologically haggard people resonate,
This drama can also be regarded as a work that was more out of the circle at the end of last year.
Now 33-year-old Jing Bairan no longer focuses on filming film and television works, but began to participate in the healing department variety show.
In January this year, he joined the Hunan Satellite TV variety show "Friends Please Listen to the Second Season".
Listen to the stories of others as much as you can, comfort the devastated hearts of others,
These stories are heart-wrenching and moving, but they are all wonderful.
"Friends Please Listen To The Second Season"
Jing Bairan's childhood was hard, and he never gave up hope in the face of a difficult life.
Even in the face of parents who have ignored them for many years,
The kindness in his bones still made him choose to forgive.
Jing Bairan with parents
Now he is finally bitter,
I look forward to him bringing us more good film and television works in the future,
Living with my parents for the rest of my life has been happy and joyful.