"The grace of saving lives should be promised by example" We often hear in film and television works.
For unmarried men and women, this is also a beautiful thing, and such a marriage has more romantic colors.
The woman disappeared for eight years and returned to her in-laws' house with her boyfriend
"Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." For girls, marrying someone is the beginning of the second half of their lives. Marrying a good man and making your life comfortable is a winner in life. No matter what the material life is, as long as the husband knows how to respect himself and cherish himself, he is happy.
Xiaoli (pseudonym) is such a girl. After disappearing for eight years, Xiaoli took her "boyfriend" back to the home that had scared her. The husband saw Xiaoli angry and asked loudly, "You give birth to others, why do you still have your face back?" Time has left marks on her husband's face, and her husband looks much older than Xiaoli, but he still tries to do something with Xiaoli, but now Xiaoli has the confidence. She loudly accused her husband of domestic violence and said that she came back for divorce. Why is it that Xiao Li did not quit and had an affair, but now she is justified?
In order to repay the grace of saving lives, he gave birth to two children
It turned out that Xiaoli's life was also very bumpy, when she was 1 year old, she was accidentally disfigured and did not live happily in her childhood. At the age of 14, seduced by her 27-year-old husband, the two became boyfriend and girlfriend and eventually married, giving birth to a child for him at the age of 16. However, the husband was not satisfied with Xiaoli, often punched and kicked, and mixed with other women, and often insulted Xiaoli with words and denigrated her appearance. Such a life made Xiaoli feel suffocated, and she decided to run away from home.
Men and women, should have been equal. There should be no absolute authority in the family because of the disparity in power. Nor should violence against the other party be used. For any girl, it is a kind of suffering, and it is reasonable to choose to resist.
After Xiaoli left home, all thoughts were gray, and she was ready to commit suicide by the river, when her current boyfriend Ah Qiang (pseudonym) saved her and encouraged her to live bravely, in the conversation Xiao Li learned that Ah Qiang's parents died since childhood, and he has always been a person who has been displaced by his lungs, but he has never lost hope in life.
Ah Qiang's optimism touched Xiao Li, the two had a good feeling for each other, Xiao Li in order to repay the grace of life, gave birth to two children for Ah Qiang, lived together for eight years to be commensurate with husband and wife, but so far Xiao Li threw away no household registration, so the two returned to Xiao Li's home.
Choose love carefully and reject domestic violence
The husband also found his own girlfriend and lived together for a while. Although the two initially met and had an argument, they eventually reached an agreement and divorced peacefully after mediation.
The incident seems to have been perfectly resolved, but the problems exposed in it are still worthy of our deep consideration, and now it is a legal society, but in the corners where people are not noticed, there is still darkness and evil quietly breeding. In the face of love, we must choose seriously, protect ourselves, and not make choices easily because of a momentary impulse.
In the face of domestic violence, we must also have the courage to resist, and when we seek help from others without success, we must bravely use the law to protect ourselves. For domestic abusers, tolerance is connivance, and we must use the law as a weapon to dare to resist.
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