The Question to Consider in Outdoor Donkey Walking: Have You Done It All? 》
Photography/Textual compilation Sunshine Footsteps
First, the donkey friend who walks in front, how to consider the donkey friend who walks behind?
Physically strong, experienced donkey friends can often walk in front, they sometimes think to the old donkey friends who can't come up in the back: Why do you have such a dish? Why did these steps take so long?
In fact, sometimes the donkey friend who walks behind is the strongest and most tenacious donkey friend, his physical fitness is really not good at this stage, but he really walked down, in terms of willpower, he is more powerful than you, so when you suspect that others are not good, or when you want to laugh at others, don't say it easily.
Second, the donkey friends who walk behind, how to consider the donkey friends who walk in front?
Donkey friends who walk behind often say a sentence: "Slow down in front!" ”
Even some donkey friends think that the donkey friends in front of them are not united, regardless of the overall situation, only care about their own boring heads, showing themselves...
In fact, the donkey friends who walk in front will go fast unconsciously because of their good physical strength and fast feet, but in order to wait for the donkey friends behind, they have been blown through in the biting cold wind, and their bodies are cool and cool, but they still have to walk and wait...
They waited so hard that they caught a cold before they even went down the mountain...
Therefore, do not easily complain that the donkey friends in front of you do not talk about unity, remember to rest a few times less, and walk a few steps as fast as possible.
Third, how the team members consider the team leader
The team members all hope that the leader is Superman, that any difficulty can be solved, and any problem should be solved.
In fact, the leader is also an ordinary donkey friend, but the leader is more willing to find new lines, more willing to keep climbing the new mountain...
When the leader sits in the front row of the car and looks back, the head of the car is brought out by him (her), which has invisibly produced a lot of pressure, so in the mountain trip, if you can solve the small problems by yourself, try to solve it yourself, don't always add trouble to the leader. If you neglect you in something or really don't take good care of it, think of him or her as your brother or sister. If it is a real brother, is it still a matter of accounting?
Don't always doubt the motives of the leader, the leader wants to take a new line, find a new feeling, generally will not worry about your little A fee, if the leader is really for the embezzlement of that little A fee up the mountain, how far can you go?
Think about it if you were yourself, collecting money for everyone, miscalculated a dime in the fatigue and chaos and attacked by everyone: how do you feel about saying that you have corrupt ideas?
Besides, have you been 100 points in math since you started school? Don't be too harsh on others for things you can't do yourself.
Don't easily doubt the leader's personality and motivation, it will hurt feelings.
Fourth, how the team leader considers the team members
Don't treat the team members as a herd of loose sheep, especially with new donkeys, and make them feel like they are in a team, not orphans who have been left out in the cold.
Don't think that the old donkey has been out of the mountain many times and can take care of himself without ignoring the greetings to them.
The older the donkey, the bigger the temper, the more they may not need specific care but definitely need the feeling of the heart, so...
Fifth, how the new donkey thinks about the old donkey
Don't take the words of the old donkey as an inappropriate warning to the world, the old donkey climbs more than you, and has more experience, that is a classic that comes out step by step. The few words spoken may be a summary of years or even decades of mountain walking, listen with your heart, think with your heart, and don't play with the action of waving your sleeve.
Don't have anything to rub the old donkey's things, the things that the old donkey brings are very economical, you rub him (her) an apple, you may cut off his (her) day's vitamin supplementation, people are embarrassed to refuse your mouth, you don't want to eat people's things, that is not appropriate.
How the old donkey thinks about the new donkey
Don't worry about your can of gas is 18 yuan bought, see the new donkey does not know how to bring hanging noodles to the mountain, you may wish to cook more than half a pot of spring water, bring a few mouthfuls of noodle soup to the new donkey, let him feel warm - this is not your obligation and responsibility, but after all, you also came from the new donkey, when you first traveled, did you also drink other people's noodle soup?
The new donkey has no experience with your words, do not have to be angry and do not have to be helpless, the new donkey is not disrespectful to you, but they lack experience, can not recognize the judgment, and can not appreciate where your words are smart?
I believe that one day, when they become old donkeys, they will give you a compliment.
How male donkeys consider female donkeys
Male donkeys in the mountain walk mostly do not want to treat female donkeys as ladies, but prefer female donkeys are maids, help male donkeys cook when they go to the camp, and then help clean the dishes after eating, of course, if you can help press the legs and press the feet before going to bed, it is perfect...
In fact, no matter how strong the female donkey in the mountain walk, when she was camping, she only wanted to be a nun - not asking about mundane things, just lying on the side of the mountain spring and green grass listening to the birds singing, smelling the aroma of cooked noodles...
How female donkeys consider male donkeys
Female donkeys always hope that male donkeys are gentlemen in mountain walks, rushing to grab the ground before traveling to help carry the tent, during the trip, they first help to cut thorns and thorns, when they go to the camp, they go to fetch water and cook without saying a word, and after eating, they help you press your legs without thinking...
In fact, the male donkeys in the mountain walk, even if they are gentlemen, do not want to be gentlemen all the time, at this moment, they prefer to be well-behaved children in the arms of their mothers, and they are very small and small children who have not yet gone to kindergarten - cared for and loved by their mothers.