Economist: Oriental Original
2022-04-02 Saturday
【Senior media experts, commentators, creators in the fields of science and technology, military, economy, and emotions】
For "good men do not gamble", I am in favor of it. Some people will say: big bet hurts the body, small bet is pleasant. However, "small gambles" under certain conditions, or when people lose their minds, it is easy to become "big gambles", and the results are far from being as simple as "hurting the body", and most of them are often "ruined" and "high debts".
So don't gamble for both men and women, of course, the "gamble" I am talking about here does not include competitive games for entertainment purposes. Regarding "good women do not dance", I think it is very "extreme", which is a bit of a partial generalization. It is easy for a good woman not to dance that the women who dance are not good women, which is really difficult for women who like to dance to accept.
In feudal society, dancing women, in addition to the palace offerings, are basically "dancers" who make a living, these dancers are from the bottom of society, in order to live, they have to do it, and many people fall because of money.
Especially since the introduction of ballroom dance to China, at that time in some big cities, few women from good families could dance bravely, so most of the people who danced with men were "dancers", so the folk had a saying that "good women do not dance".
But many people think that they are not "women", many people are forced to laugh and eat and chat with tears in their livelihood, and indeed some dancers have even made the feat of accompanying guests all night to collect donations for the volunteer army.
As early as the Yan'an period, due to the influence of the Soviet Union, the leaders of our party took the lead in dancing ballroom dance, so that ballroom dance was on the hall of elegance, and many female comrades who danced with the leaders were enthusiastic young people who rushed to Yan'an from big cities and even overseas at that time, and it can be said that they were the initial positive energy on the ballroom dance field.
In the early days of liberation, ballroom dancing was even more popular, celebrating the founding of New China, and many places held large-scale dances, and there were many female cadres, female party members, and female activists who participated in the dances! Later, due to the influence of left-leaning ideas, ballroom dancing was banned for many years.
Then, in Chinese New Year's Eve 1979, ballroom dancing was held in the Great Hall of the People, but it was not long, and it was soon banned, saying that ballroom dancing was suspected of being interfered with by a third party. It was not until 1986 that ballroom dancing really came out of the haze, and dance halls blossomed all over the country.
Most of the women who dance now are ordinary workers or retirees who love to dance in all walks of life, most of them regard dancing as a hobby or a way of exercising, they take the improvement of dance skills as a pursuit, practice hard every day, and only take time to dance under the premise of taking into account the family, and they can't see any "degenerate" shadow from them.
It is precisely because of their persistence that the folk dance culture of the mainland can be carried forward day by day, in full swing, so they are "good women" from both a social point of view and a family point of view.
Of course, in some places, the dance hall still has the bad habit of "dancing girls", that kind of situation is another matter, I will not explain it here, I have not seen it, I really have no right to speak, I guess whether the local good women have succumbed to the old man's words of "good women do not dance"? That's why dancers have a market.
In summary, about "good men do not gamble, good women do not dance", we must look at it in two, because good women who dance really still account for the vast majority. At the same time, women who like to dance should not cower because of this sentence, challenge the world with their own integrity, and dissolve the prejudices of people, especially their families.
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