Yesterday, Xuan Bin and Sun Yizhen, who made people faint, finally ushered in the wedding of the century.
The on-site secrecy work was done very well, and there were no high-definition Reuters photos until now.
But look at these hot search entries to know that the high paste scene map can not stop the enthusiasm of the melon eating masses.
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This wedding of the century of male gods and goddesses, the guest lineup is also luxurious beyond imagination, and the list is a collection of memories of a generation.
There are the friends of the bride and groom in the circle, and there are also their former screen CPs.
Ding Haiyin, the male protagonist of "Pretty Sister Who Often Invites to Dinner", Jin Xuan'er, the female protagonist of "My Name is Jin Sanshun", and He Zhiyuan, the female protagonist of "The Secret Garden"...
I just didn't expect --
In 2022, there are still people sniffing the CP of "three stones and three shun".
It's amazing to think about.
At that time, the pair of CPs had just appeared, and many people did not understand.
How can there be a heroine of an idol drama like Kim San-soon?
Jin Sanshun is a typical "no girl".
No looks, no figure, no youth, no education, no wealth, no family...
But it is such an ordinary, rough, and even faceless "Puxin woman".
Not only did he win the handsome and young handsome guy like Xuan Bin in the play, but he also won the love of countless people outside the play.
The reason is simple.
"Jin Sanshun" breaks the paradigm of traditional idol dramas.
Kim Sam Soon is not just a character, she also represents a philosophy and possibility of life.
That's --
Ordinary girls can also have a glittering life, as long as you go to fight.
The "ordinary but confident" in Yang Kasa's paragraph is not a derogatory term.
It is the survival law and wisdom sutra of "Jin Sanshun", but many people do not understand it.
Today I will talk about it through Jin Sanshun ——
How should ordinary girls like Jin Sanshun manage their lives?
In idol dramas, there is no shortage of ordinary and ordinary heroines.
But I really haven't seen Jin Sanshun like this, ordinary from one end to the end, useless.
To have no background -
Dad was the owner of a rice mill shop, and Mom was a loan shark.
Almost 30 years old, still looking around for work unemployed.
After the deposit in my hand paid the blind date introduction fee, there is very little left.
To look no longer -
In the past, the fat or ugly heroine of idol dramas was exaggerated and temporarily limited.
Dress up with heavy silicone like this and weigh 270 pounds.
Then, quickly and inspirationally counterattack within an episode.
But Kim San-soon is not.
She's been this image from the first episode to the last episode —
Looks good at best.
Underneath the messy fluffy hair was a round face and a small belly with extra flesh that could not be hidden.
Just a second ago I made up my mind to lose weight.
The next second I walked into the coffee shop and blurted out without thinking: "A latte, put more syrup." ”
Bad temper, often shouting, a little strong, a little old-fashioned.
She also never dressed up and wore an old-fashioned T-shirt every day.
The first encounter with the male protagonist was in the men's bathroom.
Jin Sanshun, who was dumped by her boyfriend, ran to the wrong toilet and hid in the compartment and cried, black tears covering her entire face.
Zhenxuan saw Sanshun's first words:
"This perverted aunt, are you breastfeeding in the men's restroom?"
Zhenxuan once took Sanshun home to avoid blind dates, but her mother looked at Sanshun's face and was not deceived at all.
"You don't want to go on a blind date anymore, and you don't have to find someone like this to fool me, do you?"
Zhenxuan's mother's mouth is more poisonous than Zhenxuan's, and she describes Jin Sanshun as a "woman like expired bread."
On Jin Sanshun,there is no "cool feeling" that the audience likes the most.
The boyfriend cheats, and Sanshun goes to catch the adulteress.
Shuangwen narrative, should be "Thirty Only" Gu Jia like this -
The "main palace" stands on the commanding heights of morality and is full of confidence.
The "little three" who beat him could not lift his head, and he was afraid that his husband did not dare to come out.
But Sanshun is like this —
Wrapped his face in a scarf, he sneaked into the room like a thief.
Before he could have a seizure, he was thrown out of the door by the scumbag's "So are you stalking me?"
At the end, I can only silently chagrin at myself:
"It's a shame."
When there is trouble, it is not the careful and gentle Prince Charming who meets.
It is a passerby who has seen your ugliness and has to make sarcastic remarks.
Sanshun is too far behind the glamorous girls in those idol dramas.
She's not even a "Cinderella."
After all, "Cinderella" still has beauty.
Sanshun collects the "bugs" of ordinary girls——
His appearance is unremarkable, his figure is slightly bloated, he occasionally explodes and is plagued by hemorrhoids.
To put it bluntly, the female second Xizhen in the play that year was more like the heroine than Sanshun.
She is beautiful, gentle, and charming in every move.
What's more, she is not at all like the vicious female partner in other dramas.
Beneath Hee-jin's beautiful face, there is damn kindness.
Xi Zhen, who had to leave Zhenxuan to go abroad for treatment due to stomach cancer, did not change his mind about Zhenxuan after returning to China.
She asked Sanshun to return the man to her.
In the face of appearance, family lineage, and even the accumulation of feelings with the male protagonist are far richer than those of women.
Ordinary Sanshun not only did not have any fear, but also confidently shook back:
I think you may not understand things at a young age
Memories are just memories
Nothing powerful
He's my man now
Sanshun was right, but in the next episode, Zhenxuan still ran to Hee-jin without hesitation.
When I was off-screen, watching this passage from the perspective of God, I locked my eyebrows in embarrassment for Sanshun.
Netizen @小五 said:
"What are the conditions for the two of you?" A rich and handsome and a white rich beauty. Replaced by me, I have long been hiding far away, Jin Sanshun is not inferior at all? ”
Yes, although Sanshun is ordinary, he is not inferior at all.
There is even a self-confidence that is beyond ordinary people.
She never wronged herself, and when she was uncomfortable, she immediately fought back.
The staff of the blind date agency commented on Kim Sanshun's age and stature with a greasy face:
"It's harder for a 30-year-old woman to meet a lover on the street than it is to meet an atomic bomb."
Sanshun did not eat this set, and she asked a series of rhetorical questions to make the man dumbfounded.
Don't you men get old?
The flesh on the stomach was sagging
If you want to be old, you should look good
I also want to find a young lady
Don't you feel ashamed?
The person who made her uncomfortable was Zhenxuan.
Sanshun cooked the rice, and the male protagonist awkwardly made a fuss and said that he had no appetite.
Sanshun was not accustomed to it, and said while eating a large meal:
Just use your mouth as a garbage dump and pour it in.
Sanshun also does not engage in the "humble" set.
She always fights directly for everything she wants, clinging to the slightest chance.
Fall in love, and take the initiative to confess.
Even on the side of the street.
Even then, Zhenxuan was preparing to go to find Hee-jin.
But Sanshun will still simply and directly show his intentions, without twisting or hesitation.
I told you not to go
I like you
She knew exactly what she wanted, so she wouldn't be kidnapped by anyone.
Hee-jin uses his weak body as a chip to win Kim Sam-soon's sympathy.
A sentence "Sister, you are at least healthy, I also want to be like my sister with a bloody face, healthy, lively", can be described as I see pity.
But Sanshuncai is not a stupid white sweet who eats this set, she directly and neatly refuses:
Don't think I'll let you if you're sick
I'm not that kind of person
She was frank and not screwed, and she didn't need to go around in circles with him.
Zhenxuan swayed, looking for Sanshun in the middle of the night.
Of course, Sanshun knows what it means, but she doesn't like the "push and pull" set.
"If you don't have that meaning, don't do something that is so misleading."
Zhenxuan provocative: You misunderstood?
Sanshun answered: Yes, misunderstanding for 59 seconds.
A few words showed sincerity and clarified the bottom line.
In the face of the most authentic frankness, all disguises seem so cunning and vicious.
Girls who have watched "Jin Sanshun" have a hard time not liking her and admiring her.
Because in her, there are too many shadows of ordinary girls.
In a way, we are all Kim Sanshun.
Like Kim San-soon, we don't get a lot of bad cards, but none of them are good enough.
Like her, we are also faced with a variety of eyes, and from time to time we are humiliated by appearance, body, education, and age.
However, we are not as confident and brave as Sanshun.
We often "hide."
With what you want —
Rather than fighting, the first reaction is to feel that you are not worthy.
In the face of others, even a little kindness or appreciation —
The first thing to feel rather than generous acceptance is to be at a loss.
Offended —
Instead of fighting back, it is often self-reflection, "Is there something wrong with me?" ”
I have such examples all around me.
Friend Alai meets a member of the opposite sex who is better off than herself in every way.
Obviously like it, but because of the fear of rejection, just waiting for the other party to approach, would rather miss than take the initiative to confess.
She said:
"Since there is a high probability of failure, instead of making others laugh, leave yourself alone to embarrass."
It is better not to start with illusions and turn around and leave with self-awareness. ”
I was helpless against Alai's "cowardice", but I couldn't harshly rebuke her for "hiding".
Ordinary girls who grow up under discipline and scrutiny are too easily caught up in that traditional narrative.
Because of ordinary, so inferior.
Therefore, we cannot argue, dare not grab, and will not take the initiative.
This is how most ordinary girls live.
And this is more and more valuable.
An ordinary girl like Sanshun shows us a different way of life management than before.
Ordinary girls can also be confident.
Ordinary girls also have to "fight".
Ordinary girls can also have a shining life.
It's certainly hard.
Because that set of narratives and disciplines is so ingrained —
When "Jin Sanshun" was broadcast in 000 years, someone commented on the scene where Sanshun stopped the male protagonist on the road and confessed:
"This woman is really able to open up, and she doesn't even want self-esteem..."
In the traditional narrative, ordinary girls who go to fight for handsome and rich people are not self-aware, self-measured, low self-esteem...
Therefore, whether it was past or present, there are very few characters like Jin Sanshun.
What do the female characters in the TV series look like?
Only after they became dazzling did they start killing the four sides.
If they want to succeed, they must work hard to transform themselves, from a small transparent all-round counterattack to become an elegant and beautiful woman.
In short, they can't have a little "ordinary" shadow on them.
And ordinary girls who see more of such women seem to run their own life", that is, they have become no longer ordinary.
So, ordinary girls are caught in an unsolvable cycle -
Habitual timidity, reflection, one step back and two steps back.
I always feel that I am not good enough, not perfect enough, not comprehensive enough.
It seems that you have to wait until everything is ready to fight for what you want.
Before that?
I can't even think about it.
However, is the life of an ordinary girl destined to be like this?
Ordinary and cowering, ordinary and timid, ordinary and, get by.
No.
We don't believe in this set, so we were poked by Jin Sanshun.
It turns out that ordinary girls can also bravely express their needs and desires.
It turns out that ordinary girls can also fight so bravely.
As long as you want.
Someone described Kim Sam-soon as "round, healthy, slightly vulgar but thriving."
Every word sounds pejorative, but it's not.
Under the scrutiny, every point is the survival philosophy of ordinary girls——
She never cared about the outside world's gaze.
Live brightly and freely, thrive to the point of envy.
Ordinary and confident, in fact, it is never a derogatory term.
Rather, it is a precious quality.
Even Yang Kasa, who said this paragraph at the beginning, did not mean this.
Later, in a J program, Yang Kasa mentioned his intention to write this paragraph -
Not to mock men.
Rather, I would like to say that in this social environment, ordinary women who have been under discipline are more likely to be unconfident than ordinary men.
She hopes that all ordinary girls can be confident.
Ordinary and confident, not believing that you can do everything.
It's about whether you can do it or not, you always have the courage to take steps.
Ordinary and confident, not all the way smooth and not frustrated.
But no matter what kind of setbacks you encounter, you can quickly pack yourself up and start again.
Just like Kim Sam Soon.
After being betrayed by her ex-boyfriend, Sanshun shed black tears in the bathroom, how miserable and miserable.
But the next day she regained her strength and began to give herself a blind date.
This is ordinary and confident energy.
So, girls, what about the ordinary.
Don't be afraid, as Sanshun said:
Love as if you had never been hurt;
Dance like no one will appreciate it;
Sing like no one will listen;
Work as if you don't need money;
Live as if today is the end of the world.
Don't be limited by the "ordinary", use all your strength to love, to sing, to dance.
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