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Know such a girl.
She is a post-90s, but when she puts it together, she is as powerful as a man.
She has been married to men for many years, and men are less profitable than she is.
On the issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, men do not say a word, allow the contradictions between the two women to be heavy, and never take the initiative to mediate.
Two people have been married for 6 years, have two children, and change from a small house to a big house, and all this good life is brought to men by women, not by men.
A woman has a freelance job and no one understands the hard work of her job and thinks she's particularly relaxed.
After all, as long as you sit in front of the computer, you can earn money, and who in the world can make money easier than her.
A woman has to work while taking children, and since men can't count on it, she can only make money on her own, or even desperately.
In countless dark nights, in countless late nights, at dawn, women are working on the desk, women are in front of the computer, crackling and typing.
Everyone knows the effects of staying up late on the body, but women really don't want to sleep.
After all, the time after midnight is a rare quiet moment in her life, no child's crying, no mother-in-law's reprimand, no husband's helpless sigh.
She just leaned on, cup after cup of coffee and flower tea, survived the time from early morning to dawn, and boiled out one article after another that made people envious.
2.
In this world, women who really live well are actually very cruel to themselves.
This girl is particularly cruel to herself in terms of making money, even if she insists on working the day before giving birth to her second child, and does not relax her work requirements because she is a pregnant woman.
Even if her husband can't count on it, she has already made her life good, with a house and a car, a job that she likes and can make money, and a decent and respectful that others envy.
There is also a friend, she gave birth to 160 pounds, just out of confinement, she can't wait to lose weight.
Because she couldn't tolerate herself and became a big fat man.
She chose herself, the last thing she liked was running, and the more she didn't like it, the more she felt she needed to accept it.
During the first month of running, her weight didn't change at all, but she changed her attitude towards running and she already fell in love with what running felt like.
The time for her to run is here, her brain is completely relaxed, her mind is a quiet blank, the tip of her nose is the scent of flowers, and the song of birds is in her ears.
There was no moment that made her so relaxed. When she persisted for half a year, running made her lose a full 30 pounds.
There are friends around who spend tens of thousands, 100,000 dollars to lose weight, and she just chose a way of exercising, that is, to run with a silly attitude, and blindly insist on running, so that her life has undergone earth-shaking changes.
Because she insisted on running, she saw self-discipline, an important impact on her life, because of insisting on running, she also saw her own life, more possibilities.
She turned out to be such an indecisive, so easy to give up a person, because she wanted to become thin, there was such a simple wish, just because she insisted on running every day, she easily got the results she wanted.
3.
After she fell in love with running, running became the daily meal of her life.
People around her before felt that she was particularly cruel to herself, a woman who had the courage to lose weight, a woman who insisted on running, really was extremely harsh on herself.
When she fell in love with running, she felt that it was not pain, nor suffering, but a kind of enjoyment, but also a kind of mental exhilaration, and only those who have really experienced it will understand this enjoyment.
Recently, the epidemic has struck again, but the enthusiasm of friends to run has not receded.
Although it is not convenient to run in the park now, she thought of a good way, because the seventh Xtep 312 Running Festival will start soon, and she feels that using such a way to continue running, another way to run, and run to a spring blossom is really worth advocating.
Moreover, she also specially chose her favorite special step running shoes, a lightweight and shock absorption spin 9.0 running shoes, which are simply tailor-made for runners.
Running has not only changed her outlook on life, but also changed her attitude towards life, but also changed her mentality, and she is now a completely positive, optimistic and enthusiastic woman.
A really powerful woman will be particularly "cruel" to herself in making money, because she knows that making money is the bottom of her life; making money is also her own, the best guarantee against life crises.
Really powerful women, when running, will also be particularly "fierce" to themselves, running, not only so that women's figure, has undergone a completely different change; but also let women from the mentality to thinking, a completely different cognitive change.
Women who can be cruel to themselves in these two aspects already have the underlying logic of successful thinking and success.
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A woman wants to be successful in life, a woman will live her life well, do not need to see what she said, do not need to see what she did, just from this two aspects, you can glimpse one or two.
A woman's cruelty to herself is also her thorough understanding of life and human nature.
Because the woman knows that she has no one to rely on in this life, no one to shield her from the wind and rain for a lifetime.
The only thing she can rely on, she can rely on, is herself.
Even if she encounters countless difficulties and obstacles, she will only grit her teeth and persevere, because she has no one to support, no one to rely on, and no one to talk to.
It is better to spend all your time and energy on creating wealth, instead of expending energy to complain, to negative energy, to damage your own blessings.
This is a woman, truly intelligent and wise.
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