Hello everyone
Today is still in the sub-article haunted by the old Chang'an ~
Today I'm here to bring you chicken soup
A while ago
Jolin Tsai, who has not appeared for a long time
Attended a public welfare event
So inevitably
I was asked about feelings again
Good reporters from the big S thing
Borrow the question to play
Ask Jolin Tsai if she has any emotional plans
Jolin Tsai: Not yet
She said she had all these years
Always focused on your own life
Spent a lot of time with myself
"Accumulated a lot of happiness energy"
To put it bluntly
"The old lady is so happy alone, she doesn't need a man"
Later she said again
Whether in love or not
Are you married？
First and foremost
Still be able to feel happy for yourself
in other words
Be able to feel happy and content when you are alone
Fully enjoy celibacy
It is the attitude that girls need to have
Not because of one person
Very lonely
It's not good
Expect others to save yourself
Otherwise, even if there is a partner
The problem cannot be solved either
Because you'll always have a time for someone
No one can guarantee it
Always with you
Or it's going to be there when you need it
"Someone else brought it to you."
It's like a short party
After the party ends
You still have to go home."
"You shouldn't bring happiness to others
First place"
This is really sober
It is better to rely on anyone than on yourself
It's not good to be alone
Then others can't help you get by
This is not the first time Jolin Tsai has expressed this view
Very early on in an interview
Being asked questions about whether a person is lonely or not
She also answered immediately
"I don't feel alone is negative"
"Even if there is another half
You still have to know how to get along with yourself
(Even if you are married)
Nor does it mean that you are going to take it
The whole life is given to the husband
You are still responsible for your happiness."
in a word
It's okay to be single
It's good to have a companion by your side
For girls
Or put the main energy
Put it on yourself
When you're single, you find a way to get along with yourself
It is easier to get contented feelings
Because you have no shortage of joy and love
So more discerning
What is really good for you
What is just a temporary disguise
And with a partner
Still put yourself first
After all
It's hard for others to pay because of your desperation
I would be very grateful
It may even be taken for granted
In summary
Only those
You use to run your own efforts
will truly reward you
The discipline of women in the world
It's often the case
"Women don't need to try too hard"
"It's good to rely on men"
"Marrying a good man is everything"
Mainly
That's why a lot of girls
Give up the focus on yourself
I only hope that feelings will save me
But now
We're actually all very clear
This is a trap
Can save your own
It's just you
The most reliable
Only you
Because "love can do it all"
And put it down prematurely
Passion for life, for school, for work
It is to harm themselves
Not to mention this era
Women have more and more opportunities and options
To pursue a sense of personal accomplishment
Satisfaction
with a sense of well-being
Instead, feelings have become dispensable
For a woman
Best way
Always
Read well when you should be studying
Work hard when it's time to work hard
Find your own ideals and dreams
Find your own bigger purpose in life
Not everyone, of course
All are to achieve high achievements
Just do your best
Be proud of yourself
Feel happy
Enough is enough
Life is not afraid of loneliness
Loneliness can also mean
You have more energy
Focus on yourself
To be afraid is to be afraid
Because of the fear of being alone
So hastily invest in feelings
Pin your hopes on others
It won't just make you lose
The right to speak in feelings
It is also easy to rush to the doctor
As it is often said
"Love flows to people who do not lack love"
But there is no lack of love
It doesn't have to be because someone else loves
It can also be given to oneself by oneself
Enough support and confidence
Learning can't get along with yourself
Learn not to love yourself
Then even if there are countless people who love you
Your world
It's still lonely
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