Opening Remarks:
Some people say that the more people who suffer too much, the more they will think too much;
It is also said that the more people who experience too much, the more they will forget a lot.
No matter which kind, people in this life, in fact, it is like boiling a pot of clear soup, the soup has no taste, mainly depends on what seasoning you add, to see what kind of taste you want.
After all, life is short, and everyone passes by in a young and crazy way, confused in simple happiness, in a way to live a secret life, and in a calm and peaceful way.
Therefore, don't let yourself live overwhelmed, live without "taste".
The true face of life is very real, if you feel that the soup you drink at the moment, there is no taste, then you may wish to add a little more heat, add a little taste, go back to the furnace to rebuild, boil out the incense.
Don't think that the life that is too much, the dust that has not been experienced, is illusory; don't live so tired, the life that has not experienced the wind and rain is ethereal.
The more bone-like reality is, the more you can't be anxious about your steps, and the more your heart shouldn't waver.
Believe that if the heart is sunny, there will always be hope.
Don't think too much, go through the wind and rain to see the rainbow
There was once a colleague who had a succulent pot on her desktop, which was very common, but every time you walked up to it, you would like to laugh, because the flowerpot containing it was an Ultraman laughing, holding up a monster with both hands as if it were about to be thrown down.
Very tacky, but every time I see it, I feel very comfortable, just like her personality, always happy, as if nothing can embarrass her.
But colleagues know that the burden on the little girl is not light.
Her father died early, living with her mother and brother, who was still studying and going to school, and her mother was sick for many years, and the family's expenses were all on her.
However, as long as she has free time, you see her, are studying some courses, preparing for some exams, whenever you feel that life is very difficult, talk to her, it will definitely be the inner rain will immediately dissipate, her humor, her indifference, as if there is really nothing difficult in this world.
Yeah, man, life is so many things, no matter how much you think about it, what's the use?
In fact, living well in the present moment is the answer. It all depends on what you expect in your eyes, and what it will return to you. You see beauty, it is good, you see pain, it is cruelty, you see tenderness, you live gratefully.
Therefore, the strength of the heart is never to force you to bear the pressure, but you use your own truth, to accept, to use your own strength, to dissolve.
You know, people live and experience wind and rain before they can see the rainbow.
Don't live too tired, the "human touch" of life needs to be touched slowly
The feelings between people always need time to witness.
Sometimes, the person you think is very talkative, not necessarily behind his back will say that you are good; sometimes, the person you feel has nothing to say, it is likely that when you encounter things, you will find that he understands you very well.
Therefore, a long life, humane, need to be touched slowly.
Mr. Lin Qingxuan once said: If you want to understand the vastness, you must look at the sea; if you want to know greatness, you must see the mountains; you want to experience freedom, you must quietly look at the clouds; you want to feel the unimpeded, you must bathe in the spring breeze.
It can be seen that in what environment you are in, what "human touch" will arise in your heart, what kind of people you come into contact with, and the true feelings in your heart can tell you the most.
Therefore, don't take some people and things too seriously, some people, after seeing it, can communicate with each other, and can be at ease with fate; some circles, can be melted, can not be integrated to withdraw, as long as the heart can be consummated; some things, in the past, turn the page, don't always hang on to the heart, don't forget, casual to get peace of mind.
Let the heart have feelings, in order to live out the ordinary heart.
Believe it or not, when you look at the sky, you are in a good mood, the clouds you see are lovely, you are in a bad mood, even if the sky is clear, you will feel that there is going to be a heavy rain.
People should have the ability to "adapt to changes" when they live, and you must know that by not being a person, pleasing yourself is to live happily.
Don't think too much, don't live too tired
Remember the caterpillar story?
"Today he is walking, and he is going away in a daily way."
Perhaps, when you are a child, when you first see a caterpillar, you will always be confused by its appearance, because it is too ugly, too terrible, but when it turns into a butterfly, you will be fascinated by it, because it is too beautiful, too romantic.
Life, why not?
Always longing to live colorful, but always limited by reality; always longing to live a cause that can be achieved, life can be complete, but there will always be some ditches to stop you, to hinder you.
Some people spend their lives in confusion and confusion; some people pursue all their lives, even if they do not succeed, they have no regrets and no regrets in this life.
Therefore, the person who can finally transform into a butterfly and be reborn must be like a caterpillar, who has experienced the wrapping of time, experienced the precipitation of years, and digested all the negative emotions one by one, and then finally one day will turn into a butterfly.
Don't be anxious, don't get angry, don't worry, live a little more soberly, live a little simpler. As the ancient Zen master said: drink tea well when drinking tea, enjoy the aroma of tea; eat well when eating, do not waste every grain of rice; sleep well when sleeping, and let the days be full.
Like a caterpillar, live naturally, don't think too much, don't live too tired, everything you experience has its own fate.
Whether he was born in the field, or was carefully fed, simply grazed, experienced some wind and rain and thunder, and always reminded himself: today he walked alone, he went away in a daily life.
Conclusion:
Man's life, but a hundred years.
There will always be something to experience that makes you feel helpless, and there will always be something to experience that will surprise and delight you.
Therefore, bitter, spicy, sour and sweet, are all beautiful tastes, after tasting, you can appreciate.
Just as during the epidemic, some people will stay at home, less work back and forth, less fun between colleagues, less noisy gatherings of friends, but also more warmth with their families, more peace of solitude.
Therefore, if the mood is transformed, the days will be quiet and indifferent.
You know, many things, just like the flow of the four seasons, have its laws, can't hide from what should come, don't stay when you should go, the virus will always be dispersed, and the human world will one day warm up.
With a heart that is at ease with the encounter, to appreciate the world, you will find more beauty; with a pyrotechnic heart, to enjoy the ordinary days, you will feel more comfortable.
Don't fill the burden on your body too much, don't be too heavy by the heart, don't think so much, don't live too tired, so that you can find the openness of life.
Finally, may everyone feel the warmth of the sun on special days, live out their own calm and leisure, and smile at the shortness of life in the verdant years.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!