"I don't need surgery on my eyes, Yingying's money for the next treatment has not yet landed, and I can't spend my daughter's life-saving money." Bai Huaibo, who was facing blindness with an eye disease, said to his wife Liu Quanling. "What about your eyes?" What if I am blind in the future? My daughter has been so sick, if you have any more three long and two short, how can I live? Listening to her husband's words, Liu Quanling cried uncontrollably. The picture shows Liu Quanling helping his daughter exercise and walk.
Thinking that her daughter Bai Jianying had just embarked on the right track of rehabilitation, her husband was in urgent need of surgery because of the pustules in his eyes, otherwise there was a danger of blindness, she could not help but feel sad, hating why God did not let their family go.
"Yingying must be good, you don't have to worry." Even if I am blind, I will think of making money to let Yingying continue to do rehabilitation treatment, and I believe that one day she will be fine. When the doctor said that the eye was operated on, Bai Huaibo directly rejected the doctor's suggestion to let him do the operation, and his daughter was the key moment of treatment, and he could not waste the money on himself. Liu Quanling listened to her husband's words, not only did not feel comforted, but became more and more sad. On one side is the daughter, on the other side is the husband, and there is a mother-in-law with Meniere's syndrome in the family, who wants to save everyone, but no one can save her. The picture shows Liu Quanling accompanying his daughter for rehabilitation treatment.
Liu Quanling, 35, lives in a small mountain village in Zhaotong, Yunnan Province, and because of the poor conditions at home, she and her husband Bai Huaibo have been wandering outside to work for many years. In February 2016, Liu Quanling gave birth to his daughter Bai Jianying by caesarean section in Changzhou, Jiangsu Province, thinking that the birth of his daughter would be the beginning of a new life for the family, but unexpectedly became the beginning of a nightmare. The picture shows Liu Quanling looking at his daughter's inspection report.
When Yingying was 5 months old, Liu Quanling found that her daughter was always listless and sleepy all day, and her head was also soft and could not stand up, Liu Quanling, who loved her daughter, rushed to take her daughter to Changzhou People's Hospital for examination, but the results of the investigation made Liu Quanling completely confused.
"The preliminary judgment that the child is stunted, and the specific cause is still uncertain." In the future, children may have far worse intellectual development and physical development than children of the same age, and it is difficult to say whether they can take care of themselves. Liu Quanling only felt that the doctor's words weighed a thousand pounds, and she was breathless. Suddenly told that his daughter, who regarded her as a treasure, was stunted, Liu Quanling could not believe it or want to believe it. She took a bit of luck and took Yingying to several hospitals around her, but the results of the examinations were completely different. The picture shows Liu Quanling and his daughter Yingying.
"Let's take Yingying to the big hospital to see, maybe the big hospital can cure it." Liu Quanling looked at her husband Bai Huaibo with pleading eyes. "Yes, we can't give up and go to the big hospital again." Bo Huaibo said without hesitation. After learning about the authority of a hospital in Shanghai, Liu Quanling and his wife rushed to Shanghai with their daughter. After being examined at the hospital, Yingying was diagnosed with developmental delay caused by a viral infection, and the doctor recommended hospitalization. The picture shows Liu Quanling feeding his daughter.
Liu Quanling knew that the cost of the big hospital was high, and the few thousand yuan on his whole body was simply not enough, so he hurriedly called his relatives and friends to borrow money and went through the hospitalization procedures for his daughter. "This is an injection to promote neurodevelopment, good for children, it is more expensive, more than 300 yuan a needle, a day need to be shot, do you want to give your child a shot?" The doctor sought Liu Quanling's opinion.
"Fight, fight as much as you want." Liu Quanling said emphatically. She was full of expectations that her daughter's treatment in the big hospital would be effective, but after staying in the hospital for a month, the doctor told her that Yingying's condition was more serious, and she could only look at her recovery naturally, and then there would be no obvious improvement in hospitalization. The doctor's words made Liu Quanling disheartened, and he could only take Yingying back to his hometown Zhaotong first. But after returning home, she did not give up, always taking her daughter to a small clinic not far from home to do acupuncture, physiotherapy, massage and other rehabilitation, and also found a folk remedy to try again and again, but there was no effect. The picture shows Liu Quanling training his daughter to stand.
As Yingying grew older, she showed more and more symptoms due to stunting, and became more and more obvious. For example, Yingying has been learning not to walk, and as soon as she stands up, her knees are turned outward, and her legs cannot stand straight. And because of the mental retardation, although Yingying can talk about mom and dad, she doesn't even know her mom and dad, and often calls her father to her grandmother and calls her mother to her father. Liu Quanling took his daughter to run all the small clinics in the surrounding area in two years, but Yingying's illness still did not improve. Liu Quanling heard that Yingying's disease should go to the hospital for professional rehabilitation treatment, and Liu Quanling began to pay attention to inquire about the hospital. The picture shows Liu Quanling taking care of his daughter Yingying.
In October 2019, Liu Quanling heard that there was a hospital in Zhaotong that could treat the child's illness, so he moved his mind to take his daughter. However, the mother-in-law has been suffering from Meniere syndrome for several years, this time is more and more serious, always dizzy and nausea can not do anything, Liu Quanling is worried about what accidents the mother-in-law has, so she is embarrassed. After knowing Liu Quanling's entanglement, the mother-in-law said to her, "Yingying is the hope of our family, you quickly take her to the hospital, don't worry about me, don't worry about money, I will give you Zhang Luo at home." The mother-in-law's words warmed Liu Quanling's heart, and then he led his daughter on the road to recovery with a few thousand yuan borrowed by his mother-in-law. The picture shows Yingying doing rehabilitation training.
After coming to the rehabilitation hospital, Liu Quanling took Yingying through the various rehabilitation treatment rooms every day. She cherished her daughter's hard-won opportunity to recover as her last, so she did her best to fill it every day. When Liu Quanling took Yingying to rehabilitation in the morning, she learned the doctor's rehabilitation techniques and massage techniques on the side, and then gave Yingying more training in her free time. The picture shows Yingying crying constantly while doing rehabilitation training.
In order to let her daughter learn to recognize people, Liu Quanling bought a bag of sugar cubes, and every day he tirelessly pointed at herself next to Yingying, guided her to call her mother, and rewarded her with a piece of sugar when she shouted correctly. But Yingying didn't even look at her every time, which made her very disappointed. However, she taught Yingying to exercise and walk quite effectively, as long as she had time, she held Yingying's hand like a doctor to train squatting, and sometimes stood on her knees. Day after day, Yingying's twisted legs were gradually corrected, and she could straighten her legs when standing. Although the child's condition improved very slightly, it was enough to make Liu Quanling cry with great excitement. The picture shows Liu Quanling playing with her daughter toys.
But just when Yingying's rehabilitation training was slowly on the right track, and the doctor said that as long as he persisted, he would have a more obvious improvement, an accident occurred. In 2020, Liu Quanling's husband often felt that his eyes were tingling, and the bottom of his eyes was always red, and every time Liu Quanling looked at his husband's red and swollen eyes, he advised him not to work the night shift again. "My eyes are fine, the night shift is 20 yuan more than the day shift salary, and with this 20 yuan, you two can eat better in the hospital." Bo Huaibo said. Every time Bai Huaibo came to the hospital, he was very distressed to see his wife eating steamed pickles and vegetable soup and rice. The picture shows Yingying doing treatment.
However, the consequence of Bai Huaibo's day shift night shift is that the eyes hurt more and more severely, and finally found that there were several pustules in the eyes, Liu Quanling pulled her husband to do the examination, the doctor suggested that they do surgery to pick out the pustules, otherwise there will be a risk of blindness, and the doctor said that even if the operation is done, the pustules of the eyes may grow later, then it is necessary to do surgery again, and it is impossible to go to the root.
After Bai Huaibo heard the doctor say that it cost thousands of yuan for surgery, he said that he would not do the operation, he desperately earned money in order to maintain his daughter's rehabilitation, if he spent the money, what should his daughter do? He wanted to hold on, but the doctor's suggestion that he might be blind made Liu Quanling very scared, and she insisted that her husband have surgery. The picture shows Yingying sitting in a wheelchair.
"Yingying, call Daddy." Liu Quanling hugged her daughter to visit her husband, but Yingying twisted left and right in her mother's arms, that is, she refused to look at people, and how to tease her to coax her not to call her father, Liu Quanling had no choice but to give up. "Wait a minute, Yingying doesn't know anyone yet." Bai Huaibo said comfortingly.
Despite the operation, in 2021, Bai Huaibo's eye pustules recurred again, and this operation cost more expensive than the last time, requiring more than 10,000 yuan. To make matters worse, the mother-in-law of the family suddenly fainted and was hospitalized because of the aggravation of Meniere syndrome. Three people fell ill at once, leaving the already crumbling family in a desperate situation. Although both her husband and mother-in-law strongly demanded no treatment and wanted to leave the money for Yingying for rehabilitation, Liu Quanling still begged relatives and friends to borrow money so that both her husband and mother-in-law could do treatment. The picture shows Liu Quanling pushing his daughter to the hospital.
After the operation, the husband can no longer work in the factory, and can only work as a handyman at the construction site, and the salary of 3,000 yuan a month is not enough to maintain the family, let alone the cost of her daughter's treatment. Some relatives and friends advised Liu Quanling, "Yingying has been treated for 3 years, and she has not seen any progress, and now that the family is like this, it is better to take her home as soon as possible." "In the most difficult and embarrassing time, Liu Quanling only ate one meal a day in the hospital. Liu Quanling also thought about giving up treatment and taking the child home, but she quickly denied it herself. The picture shows Liu Quanling teaching his daughter to read.
"I insisted for 3 years to finally let Yingying stand up, is it another 3 years she will leave?" Doctors have said that Yingying's cognition has improved now, and it is also very likely that she will learn to walk, and I gave up at this time, which is to harm her for a lifetime. "Liu Quanling insisted on treatment for his daughter, but it was useless to have a cavity of blood, how can I let my daughter continue to recover without money?" Liu Quanling asked himself every day, but he couldn't find the answer. The picture shows Liu Quanling frowning. Original works, it is strictly forbidden to reprint in any form, infringement will be investigated!