Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
Text | The wind stops at night
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I don't remember where I heard a lyric - society is very simple, complex is people!
I was deeply touched by this lyric! To be honest, man, it is true that the more you live, the more complicated you are.
Looking at the reality of the present, people who call brothers and brothers are not necessarily true friends. People who don't usually contact may be the people who take the initiative to help you when it is most difficult.
Unfortunately, everyone knows this truth, but they can't get over the "embarrassed to turn their faces" when they face hypocrisy!
Don't turn your face when you should turn your face, it is you who suffers, it is you who is consumed, it is you who is hurt or yourself!
Although, people should be polite, respectful, and maintain relationships as well as possible. But these are always mutual! If a person and a relationship bring negative harm to themselves, and relationship maintenance needs to be consumed infinitely, then why should you?
Dealings with people, the continuation and harmony of relationships, are the result of mutual efforts. Isn't it?
In this real moment, people who oppose you, people who look down on you, and people who don't like you everywhere and hurt you often don't embarrass you to your face.
In the real world, the smiling tiger is the most harmful species, and if you don't understand the exchange of self-protection, you will regret it!
People who look down on you in their hearts will never take you seriously! People who don't take you seriously, no matter who they are, don't deal with them!
When you face reality, you will know that people who look down on you and don't take you seriously are obvious to you.
In particular, people with the following characteristics should turn their faces and turn their faces, and they should not interact with each other:
1: People with different hearts!
To tell the truth, everyone wants to be recognized and affirmed by the outside world, although these are not important to their actual business life.
But no one can escape the temptation to be recognized.
However, some people can distinguish between true and false in these recognitions. Be sincere to your own people, and be grateful. Hypocritical, discordant, superficial and behind-the-scenes people immediately cut off contact if they were not necessary.
People who treat you with different hearts and hypocrisy may be your classmates, colleagues, or your relatives and friends.
Such people, when they generally make oppositional voices, use the most vicious language to deny you and hinder your development, for fear that your light will cover their light. When I identify with you, I am completely "not concerned" attitude that does not matter to you.
We must respond to people who are really good to us and care. We must respect and stay away from those who do not see us as good and who want to pretend to be good.
People live, too many difficulties come from not knowing the real and false people! Too much self-embarrassment stems from knowing how unbearable the person in front of you is, and you have to get in the way of emotional contact.
2: "Take care" of you in public and "seriously injure" you privately!
There is a kind of "good man" in the world, and we must be more strict than the bad guy. That is, the person who has a good public image, but privately uses "vicious" means against you to hurt you.
Usually, we refer to such people as "toxic" people.
Toxic people are around us at all times. The range of relationships that occur more often is family and the workplace.
Such a person, when any third character is present, will show various "good for you" and "good for you". In this way, anyone envies the existence of such a person around you.
However, in private, he has the opposite attitude towards you, and may even personally attack you! Such people are either degraded to a certain extent or psychologically distorted.
In short, ta is to blind everyone's eyes with a good public image, and to get their own happiness with the words and deeds that hurt you the most.
When you show dissatisfaction with his hypocrisy in public, everyone is telling you how to be grateful.
For such a person, no matter who he is, you must stop the loss in time no matter what. Don't think too much of it and let yourself be hurt endlessly.
3: Approach you in order to use you!
The intercourse between people, though based on the reality of equal exchange. However, this equivalent exchange will certainly not be purposefully approached!
The equivalent exchange between people may be emotional resonance and emotional sharing, regardless of any interest gain or loss, but also an indispensable confidant of each other.
As for the win-win cooperation in interests, there will also be real feelings and righteousness.
It's just a pity that some people approach you just to take advantage of you. There will be no equivalent exchange with you, only one-way demand and use on you.
Such a person, when you have use value, he will behave very "friendly", but almost always ask for more, pay less, or even only take and do not pay.
To use you is to want your flat land to show the height of the majestic mountain; to use you is to obtain the greatest benefit of ta himself through you!
When you have no use value, he is not even willing to accommodate you with half an eye!
It turns out that he has never really respected you as a person, so how can he see that you have a heart-to-heart relationship with you?
In addition to the above 3 characteristics, people who look down on you, there is also a characteristic:
When you succeed, he tries to give you a trip, and he doesn't recognize you in his bones! When you fail, after stepping on three feet, don't forget to tease you!
It's not easy for people to live! It is not easy for people who value affection too much!
It's just that they are all the first and only time they are human, so why should they be trampled on endlessly? Some people, when it is time to turn their faces, they have to turn their faces, and when they should break off their contacts, they must not look ahead and look back.
Some people will not be friendly to you from the bottom of your heart because of your tolerance and generosity.
On the contrary, the more humble and tolerant you are to him, the more you increase his courage to act maliciously.
For the rest of your life, I hope that you will be a person who knows how to protect yourself well, stay away from garbage people, and become a smart person who knows how to put more energy and time into running your own life! At the same time, give the most sincere love to the people who are truly worthy!
As for the people who do not want you to be good and look down on you in their bones, they must fight back strongly or stop losses in time!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
Topic Discussion: Are there several "hateful" people around you? Leave your unspoken words below.