On the long road of life, there are thousands of people, and among thousands of people, each person has his own way of living. Some people like to pursue vigorous, some people are always melancholy and depressed in their lives, some people live a life in a vacuum, and some people try to live a clear and clear life... Along the way, in the stumbling, in the ups and downs, I gradually understood a truth, frank life, for people to deal with things without shame, simply walk life, and strive to be a better self, is the most important thing in the process of life.
Confucius had a saying: "Gentlemen are frank, and villains are often related." This means that a gentleman should have a broad mind, an open state of mind, be able to tolerate others, accommodate all kinds of events, and not consider personal interests and losses. Villains are narrow-minded, calculating, playing tricks, scheming, embarrassing others and themselves, often worried and uneasy.
However, it is not easy for the world to be open in their hearts. Because of the different understanding of things, people's mentality will be different. If people can live frankly and frankly when, there will probably be no problems in life, and life will be very happy. What is the principle of living frankness? I thought that to be open is to have a peaceful state of mind, no matter what you do, you can maintain a balance in your heart, and you are not bound by the complexities of the world. However, life is often intricate, with the temptation of fame and fortune, the greed of its own delusions, and if you are not careful, you will be involved in it. Therefore, if you want to be open to people, you must clear the demons in your heart, always get rid of the delusions in your consciousness, avoid the distractions of the world outside the world as much as possible, be calm and calm, live in the world with peace and integrity, not tilt because of greed, do not shake because of likes and dislikes, and do not forget your form because of joy.
Living a life frankly and simply walking a lifetime is a manifestation of the inner qualities of inclusiveness, pampering and not alarming. Openness is based on the realm of whether a person's heart is broad or not, and it arises from people's hearts, feelings, spirits, and behaviors all the time and everywhere, and it is always accompanied by many holy, open-minded, and awakened. From this, it can be seen that being able to be open in the heart is a person's inner, bottomless mentality at work. And how can all thoughts invade the heart, and how can it be open? Impetuousness and frivolity in mentality are bound to float in suspicion, confusion of mind, depression in the heart and difficulty in extricating themselves, and eventually become a shallow and ignorant fool. Therefore, to live a life frankly and frankly is to take the right path, not crooked or evil, not flattering or confused, not timid and afraid of things, nor arrogant and self-effacing, so that in daily life, you will eat well, sleep sweetly, and be happy and simple to walk through life.
Li Bai wrote in the poem "Sleepwalking in Heaven and Leaving Farewell": "The same is true of the joy of the world, and everything in ancient times flows east. When will you pay it back? And put the white deer between the green cliffs, you must ride to visit the famous mountain. Ann can crush the brow and bend the waist of the magnate, so that I can't be happy. "Unyielding, exhilarating, and dashing out of the dust, this is the "poetry immortal" Li Bai's frank spirit and mind. I think that only when the heart is frank and frank, can we be happy in life, this is a great wisdom of life, only by living frankly and frankly, there is no heavy burden in the heart, people can live happily, and there are many less troubles and regrets in the heart, which is also the true meaning of our life that we will always maintain a happy life.