As a young man, Serenity married Anthony Klein of the United States and had a son, but after their divorce, the children followed their mother most of the time, and over time, the children had grown into handsome men. This can't help but make us think: in the face of marital mutations, do women have the courage to pursue a new life like tranquility, or do they retreat to the second place and maintain the status quo ante?
There is no standard answer to this, more answers depend on your heart, because too many factors are mixed in marriage, not everyone can bravely go forward to "break away", but there are also people who are born with a momentum, life is only a few decades, why sad and strong?
The book "Life by Me" is a biography written by Meyer Musk, the mother of Elon Musk of "Silicon Valley Iron Man".
Meyer was subjected to domestic violence and control by her husband after marriage and gave birth to 3 children within 5 years. Many women may choose to be patient for the sake of their children, but Meyer resolutely decided to divorce, and eventually she insisted on fighting a divorce lawsuit, and finally got rid of her tyrannical husband at the age of 30.
Now in her 70s, Meyer has become popular on social media as a silver-haired fashion grandmother, and her success is difficult for us ordinary people to replicate, after all, with elon Musk's mother hanging over this aura, her success is much easier than ours.
But if Meyer hadn't asked her about those difficult years, there would probably have been no elon Musk celebrity in the world, let alone her being able to be popular all over the country.
Today we will take a look at a few revelations left by this "perfect woman":
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >, courage to move forward, learn to please yourself</h1>
Maybe you have encountered some sad experiences, and these experiences make you unconsciously confide in others, and these things are making your mood sad, you can try to regulate yourself, and having the ability to regulate your mood is one of the compulsory courses for adults.
We need to look ahead and learn to please ourselves. If you can talk humorously, speak in a brisk tone, and your colleagues know the art of self-deprecation, you will become more interesting. Of course, I also understand how difficult it can be for those who are struggling to keep them shut up about their tragic experiences. However, you have to change! You can definitely become a more attractive version of yourself.
Our lives are so short, and if we have a plan, we will have troubles; if we cling to it, we will be bound; if we have gained, we will lose.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > second, self-confidence - make the appearance the same as the heart</h1>
"Women for their own pleasing appearance", many women do not have enough confidence in their looks, so use makeup to enhance their appearance, do not know, the confidence of the heart and appearance is equally important, your charm, your temperament is makeup can not be improved, this can only be a lasting inner precipitation, followed by gentle and gentle outwards.
Meyer was not so fashionable at first, compared to her inside, her appearance seems to be much inferior, but she has friends who think it is fashionable, help her lead her, so that she is no longer afraid of her head and tail, completely reborn. Therefore, Meyer's appearance and heart match the best, and resources roll in.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > three, plan ahead and pave the way for your future</h1>
Life is short, no one knows what tomorrow will be, especially for Meyer, she works independent professional women, but also raises children, life pressure ensues, so it is necessary to learn to plan ahead and plan for her next step.
Although I earn as much as I pay as a dietitian, I insist that a dietitian is a stable, never-destroyed source of basic income that I have to rely on to pay for admissions, rent, car fares, and school uniforms, gas, and car services.
For single mothers, this kind of life pressure is conceivable, so plan your every step, force yourself to choose the right path, and make your life orderly in the busy,
Although life is full of difficulties, there are still methods for successful transformation.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > four, maintain a healthy body</h1>
"The body is the capital of the revolution", and all material rewards are obtained on the basis of good health. Exercise helps your body and also helps to spread your mind.
We should listen to our own body and not let him get into pain.
Exercise can make people produce positive emotions, vent their negative emotions, promote personal mental health, good emotions can increase the body's resistance, so that you can face this chaotic world more confidently.