What is slow?
Xun Zi said, "If you don't accumulate steps, you can't go thousands of miles; if you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become a river and a sea." ”
Life needs to come step by step, don't be greedy and think fast, go to an inch of joy, take a step and a step of harvest.
No matter who it is, the premise of eventually becoming a powerful person is not to avoid the slow step-by-step progress, let yourself walk steadily and comfortably on the road of life, live up to the current time, and have a beautiful life that suits you.
In a person's life, he is afraid of the ups and downs of big ups and downs, and what he lacks most is to have a heart that is not shocked by honor and humiliation.
For the rest of our lives, let us remember that the best way for adults to live is to speak slowly, things to be slow, and peace of mind.
1 The language should be slow, so that it will not come out of the mouth
Hu Hong of the Song Dynasty said in the "Beard Zhiyan Wen Wang": "If you are prudent in your deeds, you can strengthen your ambitions, and if you are careful in your words, you can worship his virtue." ”
Doing things cautiously can make your ambitions more firm, and speaking cautiously can make your virtues more noble.
The so-called caution is to slow down the speed of speech, slow down, let yourself think more, rather than talking endlessly, but it is easier to cause trouble.
In history, there is a general Xiao Yong who is good at war and has repeatedly gone out on expeditions to make great achievements, but he has not been promoted for a long time, which makes him resentful.
After waiting for a long time, when the emperor finally decided to promote him and bring the meaning of the reward to him, he said thank you very much, but he complained bluntly, without consideration, and complained that the emperor was not well considered.
These words reached the emperor's ears and made him furious. Not only did he withdraw the original reward, but he also sent him to a small border town to fend for himself.
In fact, if you blurt out without going through the brain, it is easiest to leave a handle and cause trouble.
These words are often full of loopholes, all of which are absurd words caused by emotions, let alone the feelings of the occasion and the other party, and when they really realize their mistakes, they are often too late to regret it.
Therefore, it is advisable to speak slowly, think twice about everything, give yourself more time to think, and don't be greedy for a while to bury hidden dangers for yourself.
2 If things are slow, everything is done
In the Art of War of Sun Tzu, it is said: "Plan and then move." ”
Doing things, the most taboo hurried, in a mess to do things in a mess, not only did not solve the matter satisfactorily, but left many flaws in the omission, let yourself sigh continuously.
However, if you think about it before doing things, slow down a little, and make various preparations in advance, you can really solve the problem and let yourself gain enough experience to have greater success.
In real life, too many people only seek it quickly, and ignore the principle of doing things perfectly, so that they have gradually developed a bad habit of doing things in a vacuum, even if there is a real opportunity to come, they will not seize it tightly, they will only pass by.
To do things slowly is to let yourself not make mistakes in the busy, keep yourself sober,You can still maintain your composure in the midst of danger, and truly become a master who can solve problems.
The Maxim of Governing the Family says, "Prepare for the rain, and dig a well without thirst." ”
Doing things slowly, not procrastinating, procrastinating, but making full preparations when dealing with problems, doing a good job of solutions in various situations in advance, and really doing more with less and becoming a reliable person in everyone's eyes.
3 If the heart is at ease, then the honor and disgrace will not be alarmed
In the "Vegetable Root Tan", it is said: "Do not be shocked, watch the flowers blossom and fall before the court; go to stay unintentional, and look at the clouds in the sky." ”
Only when a person's heart returns to quietness can he be honored and humiliated, and can he truly see the beauty of life around him, and can he let himself unload his burden and live comfortably and comfortably.
Too often, our troubles actually come from inner anxiety and instability, so that we lose our minds in madness and let ourselves be overwhelmed in an unstable state.
When our hearts return to peace, we have a strong heart, and we will not be angry because of trivial things, nor will we suffer from gains and losses because of the ups and downs of life.
To tell the truth, whether a person has a good life or not depends entirely on what kind of mentality he has.
To return to peace in the heart is to have a pair of eyes that see through the world, to let yourself realize the true meaning of the world in peace, and to let yourself live clearly and live thoroughly.
Not trapped in self-entanglement and unable to extricate themselves, not disturbed by the impatient temper, and lost the square inch of being a person at first glance, allowing themselves to frequently fall into failure.
The road of life is very long, and it is necessary to walk steadily in order to live up to the good times in the world;
The road to life is very short, and it is more necessary to slow down, which is a good way to be kind to yourself.
Slow down, not to stand still, nor to give up on yourself, but to find a rhythm that suits you on your own life path, live well in the present, and have a picturesque future.
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