Capricorn people tend to have a strong willpower, they are not afraid of encountering setbacks, or competing with others, most of them have a certain ability to resist pressure, but they do not like to be emotionally hurt.
It can be said that rational things are not enough to overwhelm them, but if anyone hurts Capricorn's feelings, or makes their "pride" damaged, then it will make them unbearable, then Capricorn often can not bear what grievances?
What are the grievances that Capricorns can hardly bear?
Capricorn people often have a heart of steel, but they still have a certain fragile side, which is also because Capricorns mostly feel that only emotionally hurt will make them feel uncomfortable.
However, they can choose to close their hearts and keep some negative things out of their lives, but there are still some things that cannot be put down so easily, and once some harm takes root in their hearts, it is difficult to be erased.
First, being perfunctory is not important in the other person's mind
Capricorn people often do not like to be perfunctory, or when they think that a person is important, but the other party does not think so of them, then, that "hot face against cold ass" feeling, often let Capricorn feel disappointed, even chilled.
I have to say that this is also related to the pride in their bones, Capricorn people often have a kind of self-confidence, but they are also afraid that this confidence is a kind of "castle in the air".
That is to say, Capricorns often worry about their own mentality, which has no basis in reality, and lacks a corresponding status in the hearts of others.
Therefore, Capricorns often cannot bear this grievance of not being valued, and they may also have the opposite behavior, that is, deliberately showing a noble side.
Feelings or being "used" in life
Capricorn people, who may be able to endure hardships in their feelings or life, also have a very sensible side, can accommodate and tolerate others, and do not like to advocate too much about themselves.
However, Capricorns are prone to have a cautious attitude in their feelings, and they can give sincerely, but they may not be able to withstand a trace of deception and doubt in their feelings.
Because Capricorns are often easy to think about, when they see some of the other party's unreliableness, they will instinctively think about how to evolve next, even if it does not evolve to the extent they speculate, but Capricorns will still feel afraid.
Therefore, many Capricorns are more worried about being hurt in their feelings, if they may be "used" by others, even if the lover is not a heart with themselves, there is a possibility of escaping at a critical moment, which will make them feel a deep "fear", thus closing their hearts, or making their hearts no longer simple.
Strike at their goals and shake their foundations
Capricorn people tend to live in the future, and sometimes, the reason why they can get through the difficulties of the present is also because they still have hope and a vision for the future.
It's just that when Capricorns' goals for survival, or their foundations, are shaken to the point that they become obscure, they may feel very worried.
Because, if Capricorn even loses his future, then what should be the next way? Therefore, they often cannot withstand someone to hit them on these issues of survival and meaning, so that their hopes are disappointed, which may be a more "fatal" blow.
Fourth, being judged, even blamed
Capricorns tend to have a hidden tendency to make themselves the center of attention, which may make them feel a sense of insecurity.
They like the state of strategizing behind their backs, working hard silently, and do not like to present their lives, but if Capricorn has to stand on the cusp of the storm, or even become a "target" for many people, then it will not make them feel good.
Because, Capricorn knows, in this state, there is basically no rational analysis, mostly a kind of emotional understanding and speculation, which often makes them feel meaningless and offended.