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Tang Ruoxin learns original works, and those who violate them will be investigated
In life, everyone needs to understand that the really powerful master often has two extremely strong concentrations, which are the key to the growth of self-life, and also the key to leading the gradual iteration of self-life.
The first type of concentration, the internal drive, determines how far you can go
Every powerful master, in the process of growing up in life, is not driven by others, but driven by himself. The internal driving force tells us that the most powerful masters come from our inner driving force.
When you have the inner drive, your life will go further. When your internal drive is insufficient, you stagnate.
Psychology has found that a powerful master is often because of awakening the inner driving force. When a person's inner driving force is awakened, he will find that life is an infinite process of growth and wonderful infinity.
In fact, growth is a process of gradually opening oneself, but also a process of gradually breaking illusions. The closer we get to reality, the less we will be hit by life.
Many times, the reason why we suffer is that in essence we are living in an illusion, and if this illusion is continuously reinforced and not dissolved, then this illusion will become a huge barrier to our deep exploration of life.
A person's intrinsic drive depends on the exploration of life, and more importantly, on our desire to see the larger world. When your heart is opened, when you yearn for the future life, we will automatically and spontaneously enter into continuous exploration, which is the root of our growth and the root of our ability to have the courage to explore.
Good growth is to activate a person's courage to face the world, but also to activate our determination and perseverance to face the world.
Internal drive is the root of a person's continuous growth, when we see a powerful person, often you will realize that his growth is inseparable from the internal drive to shape and choose him.
Only by maintaining a continuous yearning for inner life can our growth truly achieve our life, and let us know where the ultimate foothold of our lives is.
The second, self-control, determines what kind of person you become
Life is a process of trade-offs, a great master, often life is minimalist. This kind of minimalism is not that life has no goals, on the contrary, behind this minimalist life is the desire and pursuit of extreme goals.
Learning self-control is a profound understanding that life is a process of gradual choice and gradual trade-offs. When you have more exciting, advanced goals, you will gradually abandon those that are not important.
Everyone's growth needs to make trade-offs, choose more important goals for self-improvement, and mental expansion.
For example, human energy is limited, and when you maintain enough love for a cause, you will often reject those ordinary causes, and we will devote all our energy to the most important cause.
When you know how to do this continuously, your vitality will be deeper and you will find the mission and purpose of your life. For example, some people enjoy dancing, and often they will retreat from those hobbies that are not enjoyable, which is a process of trade-offs.
Self-control is essentially a process of connecting with the self, is to understand what is important to the self, when we maintain enough love and motivation to enjoy the one thing we love to do, often our inner mind will also be vigorously opened, naturally your life will become more and more open.
Self-control is not to force us, self-control is a kind of enjoyment of the inner spirit, which is to gradually clarify what we want and desire most in the exploration of life.
When you have great self-control in life, you are often not wrapped up in superficial emotions, but truly enjoy your life.
The fairy tale king Zheng Yuanjie told that when he was young, he liked to write both stories and poetry, and later in the process of writing stories, he found that his pleasure often exceeded poetry, and later he gave up poetry and wrote stories specifically, which also achieved his title of story king.
The energy of life is limited, learning self-control is to find out what is the most important thing in life for ourselves, to do what we want to do to the end, and our lives will certainly be open.
Whether it is the god of Ono Jiro sushi or the king of Go, the path to becoming a king and becoming a saint must be a process of gradual trade-offs and gradual evolution.
Every powerful master is not to let themselves be comprehensive, on the contrary, in the process of growing up, they know how to make choices, choose what they want to do most, and be recognized by others and others, when you can continue to persevere, your life will have its own highlight moments.
People who are really powerful often have two extremely strong concentrations, the first of which comes from our continuous exploration of ourselves, continuous activation of our own internal motivation, and responsibility for our own lives. The second kind of concentration comes from our inner self-control, which is to gradually optimize the choice of life, to devote ourselves to the things we desire most, and to achieve the life of our own lives.
Today's topic: Do you think that powerful people often master two extremely strong concentrations, welcome to discuss and communicate?