She used to be the "sketch sister" of the Spring Festival Gala,
The actors I work with are all comedy masters,
Guo Donglin and Zhao Benshan were also her collaborators,
At the reddest time, even Song Dandan could not bury her style,
But in 2004, after completing the last sketch of the Spring Festival Gala, she suddenly retired.
What exactly made her choose to leave at the peak of her career?
What has she been through over the years?
According to Yang Lei's own words,
The first half of her life can almost be described as a smooth sailing,
Forty years have not encountered any difficulties.
In 1963, Yang Lei was born in an ordinary family in Xi'an.
Although the material conditions are average, her parents regard her as a pearl in the palm of their hands.
Spoiled her since she was a child.
At a very young age, she showed a strong interest in sketches.
Every day, as long as the homework is finished, I will run to the theater to learn drama.
Parents see that their daughters like drama so much, and they are also very supportive of their daughter's choice,
With their help, Yang Lei not only did not leave the learning behind,
The study of drama is also getting better and better,
In 1981, she successfully entered the Gansu Provincial Drama Club with her own efforts.
Her talent and effort quickly caught the attention of the leadership,
In just three years, his reputation rose and he was soon transferred to the Xi'an Drama Theatre.
It's gold that shines everywhere,
Even if she changed to a new place, her light was not covered,
On the contrary, with the passage of time, it has become more and more eye-catching,
In 1987, she and Guo Da cooperated in "In front of the birth room" and won the first place in the professional group in the competition.
That year they also got the opportunity to perform at the Spring Festival Gala.
At this time, Yang Lei was only 24 years old, which was a very high starting point for her.
After the Spring Festival Gala, she became a hit, and she could hear the discussion of her when she walked on the road.
The ubiquitous praise filled her eyes with smiles,
But she was not complacent because of a momentary victory,
Still put all your mind on polishing the sketch,
In the next few years, she brought more excellent works to the audience,
Each one is addictive.
When her career was booming, she met Dai Zhicheng,
Yang Lei has become a hot sketch sister after several Spring Festival Galas,
And Dai Zhicheng, whether famous or strong, is not as good as Yang Lei,
It is reasonable to say that the excellent Yang Lei should not like this man,
But this man's mouth is really too strong,
Can exaggerate the flowers of the young girl,
Under his entanglement, the two gradually came together.
Although the status of both men does not match,
But in Yang Lei's eyes, as long as the two have love, then status money is something outside the body.
In order to help Dai Zhicheng,
She used her connections in the circle to push him out,
He was also introduced to Jiang Kun.
With her help, Dai Zhicheng also slowly became popular,
In the tenth year of their love, they entered the palace of marriage,
At this time, Yang Lei believes that she is the happiest person in the world.
After marriage, Dai Zhicheng still has no change,
He almost held his wife in the palm of his hand and spoiled it,
Every time you chat, you will sweetly call each other "baby",
Under his favor, Yang Lei quickly became blessed,
At the heaviest time, she directly weighed 160 pounds,
At that time, Yang Lei couldn't imagine anything,
A husband who loves him deeply will one day leave him.
Her marriage with Dai Zhicheng has a rift,
It was when her husband helped Hou Yaowen take care of his wife.
In 1993, Hou Yaowen married a 20-year-old girl named Yuan Yin.
In the fifth year after marriage, his wife gave birth to a daughter for him.
Hou Yaowen is usually busy with affairs, even if his wife gives birth, he can't help.
In order to prevent the wife from having an accident when she leaves,
He found Dai Zhicheng, who was living in a small area with him at that time.
Please ask him to help take care of his wife,
But he never expected that he had actually lured the wolf into the room.
At first, Dai Zhicheng sincerely helped Hou Yaowen take care of his wife.
He even brought his wife Yang Lei to help,
In this frequent relationship, Yang Lei and Yuan Yin became a pair of good girlfriends.
But as the two spend more time together,
An inexplicable feeling grew slowly in the hearts of the two,
Gradually, Dai Zhicheng's heart leaned towards Yuan Yin.
The two secretly form a relationship in an unknown corner,
After determining the feelings for each other,
Dai Zhicheng was unwilling to let Yuan Yin live so inexplicably,
In 2004, he filed for divorce from Yang Lei.
At this time, Yang Lei did not know anything about this matter, and had just returned home from the Spring Festival Gala stage.
And I heard the news,
For a moment she felt as if the sky had fallen.
She thought her husband was just joking.
But her husband's attitude was resolute as she had never thought.
In order to get rid of this wife, he even used cold violence against her,
Yang Lei is a proud person, and at that moment she only had one thought, that is, to end this relationship.
In just 22 days, she and Dai Zhicheng completed the divorce procedures.
Stubborn, she refused to shed a tear on her husband, and she was even more unwilling to say anything to save it.
Dai Zhicheng did not seem to find her sadness,
It's like welcoming a new life with joy and not caring,
He just moved his stuff away.
In order to cover up the divorce is their own cheating,
He rightfully took everything out of the house,
Only an empty house remained.
Yang Lei, who grew up with a smooth wind and water, suffered such a big blow for the first time,
For a time it was completely decadent,
She didn't understand why two people who used to be so in love with each other would go their separate ways.
During that time she shut herself in her room, no one wanted to see her.
She suffered from very severe depression,
Couldn't sleep all night.
She knew that her body would collapse if she went on like this.
In order to force herself to sleep, she could only take medicine,
Even so, these drugs don't work much.
After only two or three hours of sleep, she woke up from her dream again.
Looking at the empty room, she cried uncontrollably.
Later, Yang Lei did not dare to take medicine, she was afraid that eating too much would really cause problems.
She can only drink, she is not good at drinking, but during that time she drank a lot of red wine,
Every day, you need half a bottle of red wine to get yourself drunk so that you can barely sleep.
After the divorce, her mother found out that she was wrong,
Bring your father over to play, and check out her state by the way.
As soon as I got off the plane, my parents were stunned.
The man in front of him whose face was as pale as a ghost, and who was now carrying a thick blue color,
It's their clever daughter,
Yang Lei herself recalled those days and said,
At that time, what color the bottom of the pot was, what color her face was.
In order not to worry her parents, she forced a smile during the day,
Holding his sister at night and crying bitterly,
At this time, she always thought that it was her fault to separate,
Who knew that after the two were separated for half a year, Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin got married.
It wasn't until this moment that she understood,
It turns out that all the departures are actually premeditated,
But by then her self-confidence had been completely shattered.
There is no way to recover at all.
For a long time she couldn't look directly at the camera.
She was like a candle, and someone had the cotton core in the middle,
No longer able to burn.
Friends around her are worried that she can't think straight,
Spending time with her, it is impossible to leave her alone,
With the help of these friends,
It still took her nearly a decade to get out of the grief of this relationship.
Later, Yang Lei and Dai Zhicheng had an encounter the day after the Spring Festival Gala,
He walked over with a smile on his face and held out his hand to shake hands with Yang Lei.
At that time, she had two friends around her.
They all thought that Yang Lei would not pay attention to this man,
But Yang Lei smiled and reached out her hand to shake him.
Subsequently, newspapers reported that she and Dai Zhicheng had released their former suspicions.
But did they really reconcile?
In the interview program, Yang Lei made it clear that she did not reconcile with this man.
Even at that time, there was still hatred in her heart,
But even if you hate it, what can you do?
She can't let someone else's mistake trap her,
She never reconciled with Dai Zhicheng, but she was willing to reconcile with herself.
Now Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin's family of three are living a happy life,
He treated his wife's daughter as his own biological child,
Who would have thought that such a gentle and affectionate man would be so cruel to his ex-wife,
Did he really not love Yang Lei?
Maybe they've had love before,
It's just that these loves have long since dissipated after meeting Yuan Yin.
As for Yang Lei, after so many years of silence, she has finally come out of the shadow of the past,
She began to reappear in everyone's sight,
Sometimes she regrets it, if only her heart had been a little tougher.
I won't leave you for so many years.
She can bring more shows to everyone during the decade,
Just because of the departure of her husband,
She had been wasted for so long, and I was really sorry for the people who liked her.
Fortunately, now she has regained her strength.
Also played the mother in the sketch "Hello, Li Huanying",
I believe that she will bring more excellent works to everyone in the future.
2004 is an important node in Yang Lei's life,
04 years ago, her career was smooth, her family was happy,
After 2004, she lost her family and the ability to stand on the stage.
Some people think that Dai Zhicheng's blow to Yang Lei is also an emotional blow.
In fact, it is not the case that Dai Zhicheng gave her the heaviest blow in her career.
If it were not for his sudden departure, then Yang Lei would continue to shine in the sketch world,
Even when Song Dandan met her, she was just a foil,
He dealt a fatal blow to his wife at the peak of her career,
In addition to her feelings, it is her career.
Fortunately, no matter when Yang Lei is around, there is no shortage of friends and family who accompany her.
In this deceitful entertainment industry, friendship is far more tenacious than love.