Raising children and preventing old age is people's traditional concept, so many people think that it is a natural thing to let their sons support them when they are old. Some elderly people let their sons give money and food and live alone, and some elderly people live in their sons' homes. There is a Yang wife in the village, because she lived in her son's home for the elderly, lived in her son's house for five years, and the daughter-in-law left home and separated from her son for five years.
Mrs. Yang had two sons, the eldest son was called Dabao and the younger son was called Xiaobao. After the two sons got married, they both started their own families, and Mrs. Yang and her wife lived alone.
Dabao's wife is named Jin Xiang. When the two were married, Jin Xiang said to Dabao: In the future, when the parents of both sides are old, they are not allowed to live in our house, and the old people will live their own lives, and what they need will give us. Dabao said: We are two brothers, how did my parents come to my house when they are old, even if they come to my house, our two brothers are also taking turns to support, I am worried about you, you are an only child, what should your parents do when they are old? Jin Xiang said: My parents are old, as long as they can move for a day, I will let them live alone, can not move, I go to serve.
Since the marriage of her two sons, Mrs. Yang has been particularly distressed about her younger son and daughter-in-law, and she often said to her eldest son: When the older brother should care more about the younger brother. Therefore, after Dabao and Jin Xiang had children, they wanted to let Mrs. Yang coax the children, and Mrs. Yang said that she wanted to cultivate the land and had no time. When the younger son had a child, Mrs. Yang coaxed the younger son to have a child every day. Mrs. Yang also planted a few acres of land, because she coaxed Xiao Bao's children and delayed planting the land, so Mrs. Yang asked her eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law to help her plant the land. Usually, Mrs. Yang made delicious food, and also brought some to her younger son, never caring about the eldest son.
Because Mrs. Yang was too good to her younger son and not good to her eldest son, Jin Xiang had a lot of opinions, and what made Mrs. Yang and Jin Xiang quarrel was that Mrs. Yang let Dabao pay for Xiaobao's children to buy a car.
In the blink of an eye, Dabao's son has married and started a family, and Xiaobao's son has also reached the time of marriage and family. Xiao Bao's son is looking for an object, asking for a house in the city, a car at home, Xiao Bao poured everything he had, and there was still some money, And Mrs. Yang found Dabao and said: Your son is married, and his heart is also, take out your money to help Xiao Bao! Jin Xiang said: Our son has just gotten married, and the money has been spent! Mrs. Yang said: Don't lie to me, last year your cattle farm sold dozens of cattle will have no money? You can't come up with money today! Thinking that Mrs. Yang is usually good to her younger son everywhere, and today she forced herself to take money to help her younger son, Jin Xiang couldn't bear it and had a big fight with Mrs. Yang. Since then, Mrs. Yang and Jin Xiang have met like enemies.
In the blink of an eye, many years passed, Mrs. Yang's wife died, leaving her alone, she lived in Dabao's home, Dabao asked: Why do you live in my home? Mrs. Yang said: You feed me! Dabao said: We are two brothers, you can't just let me feed you alone! Mrs. Yang said: You are the eldest son, and it is your responsibility to feed me!
Seeing that Mrs. Yang lived in the home for the elderly, Jin Xiang said to Dabao: First, we agreed that the old man was not allowed to live in the home for the elderly. Second, your mother has always been bad to us, she can't see me, I can't see her, why let her live in the house? Dabao said bitterly for a year: She wants to live in, and I can't do anything about it! Jin Xiang said: Well, she lives in and I will leave!
Sure enough, Jin Xiang packed up her things and left, she returned to her mother's house and lived with her parents in her mother's house. Dabao and Yang Taibo lived together, husband and wife, because of Yang Taibo and separated, only five years later Yang Taibo died, Jin Xiang never came back in five years, Dabao, is often to go to his father-in-law's mother-in-law's house, meet Jin Xiang, he has never quarreled with Jin Xiang, he feels that people are old, each other to give each other a free living space, it is also a good thing.