Quickly turn the page, restart at any time, this kind of competence is very "queen's heart", and it is also a professional woman.
In the eyes of many people, Yang Mi is a proper rationalist:
She is good at forgetting, has the skill of "quitting emotions", and faces everything with a strong heart.
But Yang Mi said: "The end of reason may be the ultimate romance." ”
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Romance doesn't need to be formalized
"The details of my life are particularly unromantic." Yang Mi said this about himself.
"Who says you're not romantic? I heard that you also give everyone red envelopes on Valentine's Day, which is very romantic. ”
"Well, a while ago, on Valentine's Day, I sent red envelopes to my sisters, and I sent 520. Some people also sent me red envelopes, and I was really happy after receiving them. ”
"Why are there red envelopes coming and going?" Do you think red envelopes are more practical than flowers and gifts? ”
"Then, of course, what girl doesn't like 520 red envelopes?" If you have the conditions, you can also send it to others! ”
Among the gifts received and sent in the past, Yang Mi could not recall which one was the most surprising and touching. In fact, Yang Mi is wary of everything that is described as the ultimate, because in the real world, the word "most" has been used too extensively. Yang Mi always wondered, is it true and appropriate enough to reflect our emotions and perceptions?
"You know, life is still long, and when I die, if we still have a chance, I can tell you at that time what is the most touching and surprising gift I have received in my life." 」
In contrast, Yang Mi knew exactly which gifts would come in handy just right. "I buy what I need, and I put it on a daily basis, so I don't have to wait until a certain point in time to send it."
Once, Yang Mi went to a friend's house to have a supper and chat, and found that the other party casually found an empty lunch box, poured a shallow layer of water in it, and used it as a small trash can. Later, Yang Mi packed a portable trash can that he had bought in advance in his bag. "Similar to this, I think that what your home may be missing, what may be missing in your life, after paying attention, next time remember to bring it, but will not deliberately pick a more exquisite so-called 'gift' to send." 」
Ask Yang Mi, when people become more and more mature, will they become less and less fanciful and more and more blunt in terms of romance? It's as if gaining one ability is losing another.
Yang Mi replied very seriously after pondering for half a moment: "I actually don't know what maturity is, and what a mature person should look like." After all these years, I don't know if I've become more mature. But one thing I'm sure enough is that my pursuit and understanding of romance has changed completely. When I was a child, I may have pursued something formal; now, I feel that there is no more romantic between people than companionship and understanding. ”
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In his own way, Yang Mi made the traditional Spring Festival romantic enough.
"I have been living at a friend's house during the New Year, counting me as three girls in total, and we call this time 'dormitory life'. Every night, I drank tangerine peel tea, did not drink alcohol, chatted until three or four o'clock in the morning, then went to bed, got up the next day and everyone was busy, came back one after another in the evening, and then continued 'dormitory life'. ”
Throughout the holidays, the all-night conversations that took place in "Dormitory Life" covered emotions, careers, trivialities in life, joys and troubles, as well as various life confusions and even beliefs faced by women of this age.
"Including lifestyle, they are not entertainers, doing different jobs, and may have different lifestyles, but that doesn't prevent us from being friends." They have questions they want to ask me, and I have questions they want to ask them. At the end of the conversation, you will find that in fact, everyone's life is similar, and the bad things that have to be faced in life are also similar. ”
"So, I think it's romantic enough to have someone who knows you, knows what you're talking about, chats with you like this, or gives you one or two small gifts in life that come in handy." Companionship is the longest confession of affection, and romance is the thoughtfulness and tenderness that persists. ”
Truth or Dare
When talking about love, people will be surprised by Yang Mi's frankness and never hide it. She can bluntly say in the interview that "she is looking forward to love every day"; she will also confess in the face of deeper exploration that "it is too troublesome to look forward to looking forward to it, and it is too troublesome to really talk about love"; and even push herself and others to summarize a little social observation.
In Yang Mi's observation, "tired and not loving" seems to have become a common disease among young people today. In this fast-paced and high-pressure era, most young people are in a state of exhaustion.
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"For many people, just tidying up their work and life has exhausted all their energy. I haven't finished my work today, I haven't put on my mask when I get home, and I haven't cleaned up the house yet. At this time, I have to put on makeup and wash my hair for love, too tired. In the face of love, the young man chose to lie flat - "don't toss, wash and sleep." ”
On the one hand, it is expected, and on the other hand, it feels troublesome, Yang Mi explained, this state is not contradictory.
"In life, you will also have a feeling of anticipation and trepidation about many things, right? Love is the same, with it, it will be taken seriously; no, not tired of yourself, but also feel very good. ”