People often say, "Why should a woman be embarrassed by a woman?" ”
However, in real life, there are too many marriage relationships where the biggest problem is the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. They are also born as women, and the mother-in-law should be particularly able to understand the situation when the daughter-in-law first married into her own family, after all, the mother-in-law also had a young age, and she also came from being a daughter-in-law.
In fact, there are now a special number of mothers-in-law always again and again, again and again to harass their daughter-in-law, mother-in-law feel that they and daughter-in-law have no blood relationship, even if the son marries her home, then she will always be an outsider, the daughter-in-law will not be sincere to herself, so the mother-in-law will think of various ways to give the daughter-in-law a horse.
Some mothers-in-law actually instigated their sons and daughters-in-law to implement the AA system after marriage, the AA system was originally a fair and just system in today's society, but it was used by mothers-in-law to the fullest, and the mother-in-law was afraid that the daughter-in-law who married back would spend a lot of money and may subsidize the mother's family, so let the son propose to AA with the daughter-in-law, but this practice is right? How would you think about it as a daughter-in-law?
01. Decide to go on a blind date
Liu Shuhan has been well-behaved and obedient since he was a child, and the children of other families will have a rebellious period after going to junior high school, and Liu Shuhan seems to have never rebelled, listening to his parents at home, going to school to listen to the words of teachers, so Liu Shuhan has been among the best in his academic performance since he was a child, and has always been the envy of everyone "other people's children".
When Liu Shuhan was admitted to the local key university with excellent results, her parents saw that she had always been so well-behaved, and told her to make more friends and communicate with people after going to college, otherwise finding a job after graduating from college would become a problem, and her parents always felt that Liu Shuhan was too well-behaved to belong to introverts.
After going to college, Liu Shuhan did listen to her parents and made a lot of close friends, seeing that other classmates had made boyfriends, Liu Shuhan was quite envious, she also wanted to talk about a sweet love, and also wanted someone to care for herself. However, almost all the boys I met during college regarded her as the source of my buddies, which also made Liu Shuhan have a little regret during college, regretting that she did not find a pleasant boyfriend.
Later, Liu Shuhan successfully graduated from college, after graduation, Liu Shuhan was recruited into a newspaper and started to work as an editor, this job was busy and even her parents sometimes couldn't take care of calling her, at first her parents felt that young people should work harder and be busy.
But then the parents did not think so, the daughter's age looks getting older, until now do not say to bring a boyfriend to the family, so Liu Shuhan began to be urged by her parents after working for two years. Three days of phone calls at both ends of Liu Shuhan feel that his work is about to be affected, work in the past two years, in fact, Liu Shuhan also has the pursuit of his own boys, but he is the career of the rising period, Liu Shuhan did not think about the feelings.
Liu Shuhan was with the boy who was pursuing himself at the urging of his parents, but this relationship did not last long, and the other party disliked Liu Shuhan for being too busy at work and often ignoring himself, so he proposed to break up. This also makes Liu Shuhan, who is in love for the first time, very sad, and slowly walks out of the sadness under the comfort of friends.
When her parents once again urged her to have a boyfriend, Liu Shuhan decided to follow the advice given to her by her girlfriend and go on a blind date.
02. Get married after a blind date
In this way, Liu Shuhan embarked on the road of blind date, and met Wang Zhipeng, when the blind date, the two had a good impression of each other, Wang Zhipeng's home is rural, but the family father died in an accident a few years ago, and only Liu Zhipeng and his mother were left in the family, fortunately, after the accident at that time, the other party lost a sum of money, which also made them have no great pressure on the economy.
After that, the two began a formal exchange, this time Liu Shuhan did not spend all his thoughts on work, learned from the experience of the last failed love, only he did not work, he went shopping with Wang Zhipeng to watch movies and do some things that other couples would do.
After a period of interaction, the two met each other's parents, the two families were very satisfied, so they began to discuss the marriage, Liu Zhipeng's family bought a two-bedroom house, Liu Shuhan's parents were responsible for the decoration of the house and various furniture and electrical appliances in the home. So the two got married.
A few days after marriage, under the proposal of the mother-in-law, the husband and wife began to implement the AA system, and Liu Shuhan inevitably felt very uncomfortable in his heart for the AA system, and talked with her husband once that it was a bit too outside, very hurtful, but in the end Liu Zhipeng still insisted on the AA system, and Liu Shuhan could only say nothing more.
Liu Shuhan thought about AA on AA, so that no one would take advantage of anyone. Her husband's salary she never asked how much, nor did she ask where the money went, her own money did not just think about spending it herself, and sometimes the family needed to buy things Liu Shuhan would not be vague at all, and directly took the money to buy.
A few months later, the mother-in-law came from the village to live in the city, saying that she was not at ease with the two young people, and how much she could help them, Liu Shuhan was particularly happy about the idea of her mother-in-law, the old man could come to help, and he usually did not need to be too busy.
After the mother-in-law came, Liu Shuhan used her rest time to accompany her mother-in-law to go shopping and buy clothes, thinking that since she was married, the time to live in the future would be very long, and it was also key to have a good relationship with her mother-in-law. So Liu Shuhan has always been very generous to her mother-in-law, and as long as she sees beautiful clothes and shoes outside, she will buy them home for her mother-in-law.
And after the mother-in-law came, it was not as good as Liu Shuhan originally thought, and after coming, she found that the housework at home was not as good as her son often helped her daughter-in-law to do together, so that where the housework was done by men, handed over to the daughter-in-law, so Liu Shuhan in addition to working outside every day, returned home to do all kinds of housework.
Everyone will be irritable after a long time, but Liu Shuhan does not want to affect family harmony because of these things, and can only complain to his girlfriends.
03. Divorce
Married for three years, the mother-in-law has also been urging to hold the grandson, the two young people have not been contraceptive, but also have not been pregnant, so at the request of the mother-in-law two went to the hospital to do an examination, the examination of the marriage is not a problem, the doctor said do not worry, slowly there will be.
After another two years, Liu Shuhan is still not pregnant, and the mother-in-law is also because Liu Shuhan has not been able to get pregnant, the more she looks at Liu Shuhan, the more unpleasant it is, often there is nothing to find trouble with her daughter-in-law, Liu Shuhan thinks that the mother-in-law is the elder herself after all, and she can't say anything, so most of them endured. However, the next thing that happened made her unbearable.
On this day, Liu Shuhan came home from work, heard her mother-in-law in the bedroom and people on the phone, the mother-in-law said: "You don't look at my daughter-in-law is so good to me now, every three to five to buy me clothes and buy things, she is weak-minded, married for a few years even can not have a child, what is the use, fortunately I originally wanted my son and her to implement the AA system, if there is no grandchild next year, I let my son directly send her back to marry a daughter-in-law." ”
Liu Shuhan did not expect that he was bent on being good to his mother-in-law, but in the end he heard that his mother-in-law was so unwilling to see himself, and when he pushed the door in, he quarreled with his mother-in-law. After Liu Zhipeng returned home, Liu Shuhan directly proposed a divorce to him, took something, and Liu Shuhan did not return.
Liu Shuhan, who returned to her mother's house, explained all this to her parents, and her parents were particularly angry, and the next day her parents took a few relatives to contact the moving company and went to Liu Zhipeng's house, removed all the furniture and electrical appliances in the house, ripped off all the wallpaper on the wall, the house was moved into a wool embryo room, Liu Shuhan also took away all the clothes she had bought for her mother-in-law, and there was nothing left
One piece of underwear.
When Liu Zhipeng and his mother returned home, they were dumbfounded by the scene in front of them, and the two collapsed instantly.
The five-year AA marriage ended like this, but Liu Shuhan was also very relieved, thinking: No wonder people say that marrying someone can't marry a phoenix man, indeed.
A lot of married life in life was originally a good relationship between husband and wife, but under the intervention of the mother-in-law, they lived a bad mess, and finally they could only choose divorce.
In fact, when the daughter-in-law marries in, the mother-in-law has one more filial piety to her, but the mother-in-law never thinks so, and always thinks that the daughter-in-law is an outsider, and when outsiders come, I have to guard against her. However, he never thought about the consequences, never thought about how uncomfortable it was for his son to be caught in the middle.