People will feel lonely when they are old, there are fewer and fewer people around them, their sons and daughters are in other places, they can't see each other several times a year, they were once crowded, and now the room is empty, and they always want to go out for a walk...
Some people are afraid of loneliness all their lives, and they are lonely without friends around them, and after they are old, they have a strong sense of loss.
Young people have the life of young people, the old people have the circle of the old, can not squeeze into the circle of young people, just continue to survive in the world of the elderly.
Life must have momentum, no one to accompany life is too boring, so some people are old, the heart is not old, some people are old, still want to live "lively", but some people, has long been not the mentality of the year, many people's hearts have changed the "taste"!
The old people get together, play chess and mahjong fishing, is the best entertainment activity, a few good old people get together every day to play the most popular "game" in this life, which is good.
However, after people get old, some people's hearts have changed, and if you go to play mahjong again, people may be disgusted!
When people are old, they must see themselves clearly, but also see through others, and some people, for the rest of their lives, do not have to twist together.
Relatives with discordant faces and hearts
Relatives in this life, there are too many unclear accounts, you say your reasoning, he remembers his grievances, people are old, they love to talk to their children about their relatives in this life.
In fact, everyone looks down on the love of relatives, brothers and sisters, when they were young, their feelings were very deep, and when they grew up, they established their own families and formed their own families, and their respective cores gradually changed.
Maybe when you were a child, your sister was very good to you, but after she had a child, of course, the child was more important!
Some brothers and sisters have deep feelings since childhood, but after they have established a family, the feelings of husband and wife are far more important than brotherhood and sisterhood.
Some people are not convinced, and even when they are old, they are still naïve, they feel that their hearts will become better when they are old, and they feel that the feelings between relatives will "warm up", so they take the initiative to go to relatives' homes to play cards, but some relatives have already regarded him as a "friend".
The "field" of young people, it is best not to squeeze
Young people come home for the New Year, sit together and play cards, to enhance friendship, but also to maintain their own relationship chain.
Some people are old but not old, there used to be many card friends, everyone sat together to play, all gave him enough face.
But time flies, people are old in the blink of an eye, many old brothers are no longer there, and the friendship they once had has dissipated.
But he was not convinced, and wanted to let the young man circle around him, even if the young man did not invite him, he came uninvited, the young man out of courtesy, gave him a chair, but in his heart - playing cards with the old man, it is really boring!
After people are old, they can't serve the old, young people have young people's ideas, the old people should stay in their own circles, enjoy themselves, be down-to-earth, do not show in front of young people, is a kind of great wisdom, is a big mind, to give young people the space to develop, to give themselves a quiet world.
Some old buddies don't have to be reunited
Brothers with deep feelings, live to the old age is the gentleman's friendship, there is something at home he will come to help, send you a few duck eggs on weekdays, occasionally meet on the street, give you a cigarette, chat a few laughs and leave... The friendship of the old man, the older the more polite and exchanged.
Even if you have formed a friendship throughout your life, don't expect people to still revolve around you every day, unless the family is still poor and cares about your money, unless the son has not yet married his daughter-in-law, and thinks about your daughter.
Some old buddies, who have not been in contact for many years, he has not come to your family, you have not gone to his family, occasionally met on the street, there is no smile on the face, even turn a blind eye, turn your head and leave...
Such an old brother, it is best not to bother people, the feelings are not in place, or because the years have diluted the love, people are old, just look down on it...
When people are old, it is good that no one takes care of them, just to realize the "dream" of youth, when they are young, they are tired of human feelings, and when they are old, they finally restore "freedom".
When people are old, they would rather enjoy loneliness than lose their dignity, prefer to live alone, rather lose their faces, rather be quiet and quiet, and not lose their innocence.
When people get older, the flowers and plants are better than people's hearts.
When people are old, a person fishes, the whole river and pond belong to you, a person drinks, you must pay attention to your body, a person watches the sunset, and has the whole sky.
When people are old, they live quietly and quietly, and it is good to have an old partner and children to accompany them, without the need for others.
When people are old, they don't bother others and don't be disturbed by others, which is very good!