Smart women must be both weak and strong.
In the past, it was often said that men were made of soil and women were made of water.
In the eyes of many people, being strong seems to be the exclusive domain of men, and weakness has become a woman's specialty.
In the old society, the male cultivator and the female weaver, the male lord outside, the female lead inside, the serious unequal social status of women determined their living state.
In a doomed dependency relationship, independence and autonomy have become unobtrusive attributes, and being strong may not be as gainful as being a spoiled child.
With the progress of society, the new era, women have the same opportunity to participate in society as men, and with the improvement of status, equality of opportunity makes everything possible.
For women, relying on dependency to survive has long become a thing of the past, and women in the new era no longer regard weakness as an advantage for survival, and strength has become a symbol that must be possessed.
Rights and obligations are always equal, more freedom means more responsibility, women finally hold up half the sky, but also gradually bear more and more pressure.
To be a gentle wife, or to be a strong woman; to be a mother who is always around, or to be a "warrior of the Southern Expedition and the Northern War", in the new era, this has become a choice
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Sometimes the more choices, the more confusion, what should I do? Smart women already have the answer.
01 Strength is the cornerstone of personality
Whether men or women, strength is the cornerstone of personality.
There is no freedom without being strong.
Women, whether they choose to be strong women or housewives, have different lives, encounter different challenges, as long as they are born as human beings, there is no once and for all life.
Having a strong heart is the foundation of happiness in life!
Maybe life is unfair to you, maybe love disappoints, maybe there is too much unfairness in life, if you are not strong enough, you will hate this society, abandon this life, you will gradually give your heart to the dark soul, and never experience true happiness again.
The world is what it should be, and it has never changed, but whether you have the courage to accept it, whether you see the truth of life and love life.
Only those who are strong in their hearts can break all the illusions of ignorance and bravely face the truth.
Being strong allows you to not complain about yourself, self-harm and self-pity no matter where you are, let you look down on the hardships of the world and laugh at the coldness of life.
If the heart is strong, the person is sunny.
02 Weakness is just the love I am willing to present to you
Women must be strong, but they do not have to show their strength at all times.
Weakness is the most gentle and efficient tool for women, and smart women have long been familiar with it.
I love you, so I'd rather show my weakness in front of you.
To love a person, it is necessary to remove all disguises, let go of all guards, and hide in the arms of the lover with peace of mind, which is also a kind of bravery.
Weakness is a kind of trust in a loved one.
To love you is to give you the softest part of your heart and to seek the feeling of happiness in your care.
Men, have an illusory sense of self-esteem, the woman they love depends on themselves, needs themselves, not only will not be disgusted, but will stimulate a strong sense of gain and achievement in the heart.
On the contrary, women are too independent and are always accustomed to carrying everything alone, which will also make men feel alienated, respectful, and close but difficult.
Women, properly show their weakness, perhaps each other's hearts can go further, love will also be sublimated.
03 Smart woman, soft on the outside and tough on the inside
Gentleness is a woman's most powerful weapon!
Smart women, with a strong heart, also have it at the same time
Seemingly weak appearance.
Psychology shows that people are always happy to trust those they have helped.
Men are always willing to be close to women with weak appearances, and a gentle request from a woman can make men go to the soup and even fall in love.
A wise woman will make good use of her weakness and will also make good use of her own strength.
The occasional weakness in life will make people feel pity for me, but blind dependence will make people disgusted and even despised.
Weakness without strength is fragility.
Smart women will not lose their independence, nor will they treat love as the whole of life, willing to be a pet that pleases others, and self-growth is the ultimate goal of life.
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