The daughter of my cousin's family, a beautiful face, a university teacher, on fangling is nearly thirty years old, but she is still unmarried. The love is currently underway, the boyfriend she talked about, doctoral degree, foreign company supervisor, can be called a successful beautiful man, diamond king old five.
He has been admiring and pursuing his cousin's daughter for nearly two years. Everyone thinks that the two are a natural couple, and they encourage them to get married and start a family early. But my cousin's daughter, for some reason, hesitated, until one day she shook her head at me and sighed and said:
"He was well-off, generous and generous, but his unit called him a nickname: Broad Self!" He had two suites and two cars. It's just his arrogance, only for himself. Extremely stingy with others, like this strange man, do I dare to entrust it for life? ”
Later I heard my cousin tell me that her daughter and the man, the two of them dating to eat at a restaurant, were always AA to each other. The man thinks it is natural and has never mentioned inviting guests or paying for his girlfriend. Valentine's Day roses or whatever, don't even think about it.
Even more, one time it rained heavily, and his cousin's daughter asked him to drive her home. When the car stopped at home, the man actually took out a gas invoice and asked his cousin's daughter to think of reimbursement. This incident made her unexpected and unbelievable, and she gritted her teeth in anger.
At that time, the cousin's daughter took a few bills from the bag and threw them away, and the man accepted them with a shameless smile. I listened to my cousin turn over the words, deeply surprised and inexplicable, how can any man in the world talk about love like this? Oh, the so-called broad qi, the original is "broad self"!
Red dust crowds, all kinds of colors. It seems that whether a person is generous or not is not necessarily proportional to his income savings. Some people have a lot of money, a simple life, a good family style and virtues. Some people are poor and poor, know how to work hard, and people are not short of ambition.
The philosopher Augustine said: "Miserliness will be punished, and bad habits will become a necessity of life if they are not suppressed." Like the cousin's daughter, this "generous" boyfriend, miserliness can be described as terminally ill. For the woman who wants to marry him, there is still no compassion.
As far as I know, this "generous" man is very generous to himself, the home is luxurious and luxurious, and the dress is exquisite and high-end. And once you get along with people, you dig out your mind and think in a sinister way. Can you eat it for free, and take it for free, except for selfishness, at first explanation?
Some people are rich, but they are not necessarily generous. Some people, although they are tight on money, dare to give generously. Magnanimity, although related to finance, highlights the character and pattern. If people are poor, they will help the poor, and if the country is in difficulty, they will serve the country, which is the real broad-mindedness of ---- magnanimity!
So one day later, in front of my cousin and her daughter, I said that the relationship did not end well. For this kind of "self-indulgent" man, simply pull down as soon as possible. See micro-knowledge, even the external objects stare at the man who is going to die, how to care for the love marriage with heart!
Author | Wind and rain, red dust prosperous, and read with jun.
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