Recently, there are media reports that Xiao S mentioned the recent state of her sister Big S in the program, saying that she seems to have returned to the appearance of 17 years old, which is very beautiful.
Zhang Yu, a guest of the show, also agreed with this statement and said that his friend became more and more beautiful after divorce. Little S went on to say: You can see that she is married and may not be so happy. ”
This sentence caused an uproar on the Internet, and then it was on the hot search. Although Little S later clarified that he did not mean Big S, there was something he said that everyone could hear: Big S was in much better shape after his divorce than before.
In November last year, Big S and Wang Xiaofei officially announced their divorce.
The two worked together for more than a decade and had a pair of children. Although there are rumors of emotional discord, they have all been debunked. I thought they would stay married like Little S, but I didn't expect that this time they were really divorced. Compared to the marriage supported by the small S, the reason why the big S must divorce is really worth pondering.
For the marriage of both men and women, marriage is actually very simple, either addition or subtraction.
After the divorce, Big S gave his children wholeheartedly when they were not yet in school. After the children go to school, he can leisurely watch some TV dramas and live another life that he wants, and for these stars, their economic income does not need to worry about these food and drink.
After the divorce, Big S returned to singlehood, went out to parties with his sisters, and drank with the opposite sex. You can openly embrace the fashion of the opposite sex group photo eyes are a little confused, there is a feeling of drunkenness. Divorce is not a big deal, life is going on as usual, there are fewer people around you, and the burden is much lighter.
After being married for so many years, Big S felt that he was not taking care of himself, but more of his family needed to be taken care of. Since Wang Xiaofei and Big S married, Wang Xiaofei and Big S have been tied too tightly.
S Hotel, S Milk Tea, each project not only did not make a profit, but let Big S lose its savings.
In addition to her career, Wang Xiaofei has a fiery personality. If there is anything she doesn't like, she immediately vents her anger on the Internet, and let the big S who follows him bear a lot of grievances. Big S was either a mediator for many years or both sides were enraged.
In the education of children, both sides have more differences. On top of the constant superposition of contradictions, their marriage is not a addition, but a mutual consumption, a subtraction of the feelings of two people.
Just like the statement made by Big S at the time of divorce: "I chose this time to divorce because Xiaofei's career is improving, and he is handsome but not old, and I also hope that he will find a girlfriend with better conditions." Although the sentences are generous and decent, you can hear between the lines that when Wang Xiaofei's career is stagnant, the two have a bad life. And Big S didn't want to endure it anymore, so he had "hope that Xiaofei will always be better than me." Two people together can make each other stronger and grow. Even if you encounter difficulties, you will not feel very hard. On the contrary, if two people spend more time together, the more tired they feel, even if they do not encounter any major difficulties, it is a mutual loss.
When one party just acts according to their own personal wishes, regardless of the other's feelings, over time, the relationship between the two will crack.
You can live beautifully without scruples
After the divorce, big S's biggest change was to start dressing again. He is not only young, but his image is getting better and better, the younger and more beautiful, the more charming there are media photos of big S and little S attending the event together. She wears a U-necked kaftan, showing a white neck, full of sexy beauty, and her figure is much thinner than before the divorce. Note that after dressing up, the makeup looks delicate and young, as if it has returned to its former state.
When she was not divorced, Wang Xiaofei once "scolded" Big S in a variety show: "I don't like to go out to relax, I don't like to party with friends, I don't like to dress up myself", her words are full of resentment. Now, it's all happening.
After the divorce, Big S went to eat Western food alone, began to party with many friends, and went out to "recover" into a beautiful girl. She finally "fulfilled" Wang Xiaofei's request, but this had nothing to do with Wang Xiaofei. When there was no divorce before, Big S did not like to socialize, and her and Wang Xiaofei's every move would be amplified by the media and became a topic. She wants to protect herself and her children from being affected.
I don't need to dress up because I don't want to go out and because I don't need to socialize, so I can wear it casually at home. Big S grew up in a family with many sisters and got used to the way he got along with his family. Because they are family, they don't need to disguise, they can show themselves and live the easiest life.
Wang Xiaofei, on the other hand, grew up in the most prosperous part of Beijing. From a young age, I have been used to being lively and funny, talking to different people, constantly dressing myself up, and showing myself in front of different people. Because the living environment is different from childhood, the requirements for life are also different, and the living habits are also different.
And because of the fear of adding trouble to life, there will be scruples, scruples will reduce social interaction, avoid what you don't want to happen. When all the troubles are solved, everything is calmed down, the social circle can be re-established, and dressing up is a kind of self-motivation.
Without marriage, you have to live beautifully and not be looked down upon by outsiders.
I don't want to repeat my mother's mistakes
Big S Mom is a very traditional woman, Big S Dad likes to drink, and he will punch and kick Big S Mom when he drinks too much. Of the three daughters, only Big S dared to support his mother. However, the patience of Big S's mother did not achieve good results. In the end, Big S's dad has a lover out there. Mom was sad, but she just proposed to be separated from her father. Big S asked her why she didn't divorce her father directly? Mom sighed: "No courage."
This sentence has always been remembered by Big S and has also affected her life. Many of the actions of big S after understanding things are very brave. Against his family's wishes, he insisted on applying to art school. After meeting Wang Xiaofei three days ago, he decided to get married, and despite everyone's persuasion, he insisted on divorcing Wang Xiaofei.
Courage, the two words that are read lightly, can give girls unlimited power to make many decisions that others dare not make. A stubborn girl who wants to change her destiny as a woman through her own efforts.
Marriage is not the end of life, nor is divorce.
The most important choice a woman has in her life is to live a more comfortable lifestyle.