On January 13, 2022, when participating in the variety show "See You Again", Qianbaihui broke the news that she had divorced her husband Gao Dalin and returned to single status.
Chibue sighed in the program: "For the so-called husband godson, at that time, many companies sent me invitations, but I directly refused. ”
At that time, Qianbaihui's career was at its peak, but he was suddenly attracted by the tall forest that was inferior to him in all aspects.
In order to marry Gao Dalin, Qianbaihui put down her career and stepped into the "grave of love", and in the following 12 years, she did not see her relatives or pick up the microphone.
How much love we once had, how desolate it is now, what made Qianbaihui end this marriage that had been desperate?
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In 1963, Qianbaihui (stage name) was born in Taiwan, and his original name was Zhong Lanrui. His parents were farmers with their faces facing the loess soil and their backs to the sky, and there were several other brothers and sisters in the family, and the family was not rich.
Although Chibue loves singing and is very talented in singing, the poor family has no way to get her special training.
When Qianbaihui was 16 years old, his father died unexpectedly, which was nothing less than worse for this poor family. The burden of the family suddenly fell on the weak mother.
At that time, in order to help her mother reduce the burden, the young Chibaihui went to work in the restaurant, and by chance, Chibaihui's musical talent was discovered by the restaurant owner, so he let her sing in residence.
That day, while singing in the restaurant, Qianbaihui met Liu Jiachang, a well-known music producer from Taiwan, who came here. Liu Jiachang was immediately attracted by Qianbaihui's sweet and fresh singing voice, and made up his mind to sign her at that time.
The two quickly signed a contract at once, and under the packaging and marketing of Liu Jiachang, Qianbaihui began to embark on the road of music.
A song "Silk Rain Long Lane" made Qianbaihui a well-known singer. And the release of "Walking Through the Coffee House" made Qianbaihui burst into flames in an instant.
I walked past this coffee house again and couldn't help but slow down
Never see you and me again in the house The beautiful past is blurred
Every time I walked past this coffee house, I couldn't help but slow down
The first acquaintance between you and me is here that we begin to meet each other
How many post-80s and post-90s have not heard this song?
At that time, Qianbaihui not only exploded in China, but also had a very high reputation in Southeast Asia. It is precisely because of this that the director of the Asian Games, when selecting guests, the first thing that comes to mind is Qianbaihui.
In 1990, Qianbaihui was invited to a concert on the eve of the Beijing Asian Games, and she met the man who influenced her life, Gao Dalin.
But the first time the two met was not pleasant.
Chibae, a newcomer, was not familiar with the road and was late for her first rehearsal.
Gao Dalin was working as a music producer in the concert at the time, and when he saw the late Qianbaihui, he directly scolded and said directly to Qianbaihui: "If you can do it, you can do it, and if you can't do it, you can leave." ”
In the face of the furious Gao Dalin, although Qianbaihui was very aggrieved in his heart, he was reluctant to admit his mistake with his neck. The beam between the two was thus formed, and every time they met, they would mock each other.
But gradually, QianBaihui gradually developed a fondness for the serious Gao Gaolin. When she was about to leave Beijing after the recording of the Qianbaihui program, she confessed to Gao Dalin after repeated hesitation.
In the face of Qianbaihui's confession, Gao Dalin's heart was struggling.
After a few days of getting along, although the two of them were always tit-for-tat, he also gradually liked this confident and cheerful girl who dared to love and hate.
But at that time, Gao Dalin was already married to He Jing, and although the marriage between the two was extremely flat, and even quarrels broke out from time to time, he did not want to betray this marriage, so he fiercely refused Qianbaihui.
He Jing, Gao Dalin
After being rejected, Qianbaihui could only hide her feelings deep in her heart and leave this sad place.
After Qian Baihui left, He Jing found that they were still disconnected from each other, and began to quarrel frequently with Gao Dalin, and the marriage between the two was in jeopardy.
For Gao Dalin and He Jing, the feelings between them have long faded, and Qian Baihui's intervention is like a catalyst to end the marriage early, and in the end, He Jing and Gao Dalin peacefully divorced.
After learning that Gao Dalin had divorced He Jing, Qian Baihui quickly rushed from Taiwan to Beijing to pursue Gao Dalin fiercely.
Qianbaihui's strong love touched Gao Dalin, and the two quickly established a romantic relationship. But unexpectedly, the love affair between the two was opposed by the parents of both sides.
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After hearing the news of the love between the two, Gao Dalin's parents felt that the income gap between the two was too large, Qianbaihui's income was almost ten times that of Gao Dalin, and the distance between the two families was too far away was also a very serious problem.
After hearing about Gao Dalin's parents' concerns, Qian Baihui took the initiative to find the old couple and promised them: "I really like Gao Dalin, I will never fail him, and the distance between the two of us is not a problem, I can come to Beijing to settle down in the future." ”
Hearing Qianbaihui's promise, the old couple knew that they had no reason to stop them.
On the other hand, Qianbaihui's family also has an opposing attitude to the love affair between the two, because they have not met with Gao Dalin, and the only little understanding of him is also obtained from television, and they are reluctant to marry their children so far away, worried that Qianbaihui will be bullied.
But at that time, Qianbaihui, who was bent on pursuing love, flew to Beijing without hesitation.
After coming to Beijing, QianBaihui and Gao Dalin were very affectionate.
In 1992, the two married in Beijing. In order to take better care of her husband, QianBaihui decided to give up her career and concentrate on staying at home to take care of her husband.
After marriage, Qianbaihui is very good to the in-laws and in-laws, especially with the mother-in-law, and every time the in-laws come, they will take good care of them.
Gao Dalin's hometown is in Harbin, because his parents are reluctant to live with relatives and friends who have lived together for half a lifetime, so they did not move to Beijing to live with their sons and daughters-in-law.
During the New Year's Festival, QianBaihui will go to Harbin to visit her in-laws and mother-in-law, and every time she goes, she will prepare a gift for the neighbors around her, hoping that when the in-laws have any difficulties, the neighbors around them can help.
Once, when her mother-in-law was sick and hospitalized, and Gao Dalin was unable to rush back on a business trip in the field, Qian Baihui called Gao Dalin and said, "You work with peace of mind, and I will take care of my mother's side." ”
In those days, Qianbaihui stayed in the hospital and took care of her mother-in-law with all her heart. Under her careful care, the mother-in-law's health quickly improved, and the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became more and more intimate.
At that time, almost everyone in the Gao family's left and right neighbors couldn't help but give a thumbs up when they saw Qian Baihui, saying that Gao Dalin had married the right person.
At the same time, the concern between people is relative. Qianbaihui is very filial to her in-laws, and her in-laws also take care of Qianbaihui.
The mother-in-law knew that Qian Baihui could not go back to visit her family for various reasons, and often came to Beijing from Harbin to visit her. During senbuki's pregnancy, she took great care of her.
In 1994, Qianbaihui gave birth to a son for Gao Gaolin, named Gao Luwan, and the name was full of her thoughts about her family.
After having a child, Qianbaihui devoted herself to her husband and children at home, hoping to become a good wife, a good mother and a good daughter-in-law.
After truly putting herself in her shoes and feeling the difficulty of her mother, Qianbaihui missed her mother even more.
As he grew older, the young Gao Luwan said to Qianbaihui, "Mom, why do other children have grandmothers, I haven't seen grandmothers." The childish voice stabbed a knife in her heart.
At that time, Chibuki would often hide and cry secretly by herself, and her husband and in-laws, who found her so miserable, could only do their best to comfort her and accompany her.
Accompanied by her husband and in-laws, Qianbaihui's condition gradually improved.
In 2002, Taiwan's relevant departments relaxed all kinds of restrictions on the mainland visiting relatives in Taiwan, and after learning of this news, Gao Gaolin rushed to Taiwan with his wife and son.
After more than ten years of absence, Qianbaihui finally met her mother. Seeing her mother's gray hair, Qian Baihui hugged her mother and cried silently.
The mother and daughter duo, who had not seen each other for 12 years, seemed to have endless words. After returning to her home in Taiwan, QianBaihui and her mother spent the whole night in the bedroom, and she told her mother that she was living happily, that her husband and in-laws were very good to her, and that her son was very sensible.
Looking at the lively and lovely grandson, and the son-in-law who was full of daughters, Qianbaihui's mother finally believed her words, and the heart that had carried it for more than ten years finally fell, and she handed over her daughter to Gao Dalin with confidence.
Finally meeting with her family, Qianbaihui's mental state is visible to the naked eye, she consults with Gao Dalin and prepares to return to the music scene, and Gao Dalin is very supportive of his wife's decision.
In 2003, Qianbaihui participated in the program "Gathering Together" and officially announced his return to the music scene. But the entertainment industry has changed over time, and the queen of heaven at that time no longer has the original influence.
In the face of this situation, Qianbaihui had long been prepared, and she adjusted her mentality early in the morning. When there is a job to find her, she will complete the work conscientiously and responsibly, and when there is no work, she will be willing to be the little woman behind the tall forest, and teach her husband and children at home.
Gao Luwan perfectly inherited his parents' talent in music, and after graduating from high school, he was admitted to the composition department of the Central Conservatory of Music with excellent results.
After graduating from university, Gao Luwan independently composed a number of songs and had a lot of influence in the industry.
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The child gradually grew up and became an excellent music producer, and Qianbaihui gradually grew old and no longer looked good.
The years are merciless, and as they grow older, Qianbaihui no longer has the original appearance that can make people fall in love at first sight, and gradually becomes old.
In 2017, a herpes made Chibuki's face stiffen and her body gradually become bloated.
Looking at Qianbaihui, whose appearance is no longer gorgeous and whose figure is gradually blessed, Gao Dalin can no longer ignite the passion of love for her. Communication and exchanges between them gradually decreased, and sometimes they were relatively silent.
Many times, they get along more like brothers and sisters than husband and wife.
Without the maintenance of love between Qianbaihui and Gao Dalin, this kind of Guan Xiu will become very simple and fragile.
Especially among the stars, there are many beauties in the entertainment industry, and for Gao Dalin, the outside world of flowers and flowers is confusing to the human eye. And the endless quarrel between the two also made both sides feel tired.
In the end, QianBaihui and Gao Gaolin decided to let each other go and abandon this precarious marriage. After deciding to divorce, Qianbaihui and Gao Gaolin openly told Gao Luwan about the matter.
At this time, Gao Luwan was 26 years old, and his parents thought that he had enough psychological endurance.
In October 2020, the 57-year-old Qianbaihui calmly went through divorce procedures with Gao Dalin, ending their nearly 30-year marriage.
Although Gao Luwan is very sad about his parents' divorce, he also hopes that both parents can get their own happiness.
As early as when she had not yet met her mother, Qian Baihui missed her mother very much, but could not return to Taiwan, so she wanted to live in Chengdu, where the environment and climate were very similar to Taiwan, to relieve her homesickness.
However, due to the focus of Gao Dalin's work in Beijing, Qianbaihui has not been able to achieve his wishes.
Now divorced, in order not to let her elderly mother worry about herself, but she really misses her hometown, Qianbaihui settled in Chengdu.
Not long after settling in Chengdu, Qianbaihui once posted a short video on the Internet, posted his mainland ID card to netizens, and admitted that he had already obtained it 20 years ago.
In the video, Qianbaihui hid herself very well, and the smile without haze did not reveal her depressed mood at that time.
At that time, Qianbaihui once couldn't give up The Tall Forest, but in order to start a new life, he had to strengthen his spirits.
Fortunately, his son Gao Luwan could never let go of his mother, and he knew that although his mother was grinning on the surface, she was extremely sensitive inside, otherwise she would not have been able to sleep all night after coming to Beijing without hesitation.
Gao Luwan would share the music he had recently listened to for his mother and would tell her interesting things about recent events.
Qianbaihui's family also returned to the mainland to accompany her.
Now Qianbaihui has gradually let go of his feelings for Gao Dalin, because his son is the most solid reliance on his future.
When recording the show, Qianbaihui has been able to face her marriage with Gao Dalin very calmly. For their own love away from home, giving up their careers can also be very calmly spoken out in front of the audience.
When talking about her son, Qianbaihui's tone is full of pride and love, as if she has regarded her son as her spiritual pillar.
When I first heard the news of the divorce between the two people, most people did not believe it, and how could Qianbaihui give all his feelings for it.
But in the show, Qianbaihui's bland tone also clearly tells the audience: they are really divorced.
For the divorce between Qianbaihui and Gao Dalin, countless netizens are very sorry, after all, so many people have witnessed how loving they were.
But some netizens said that Qian Baihui's divorce from Gao Dalin was to take He Jing's old road, and no one could keep the heart of Gao Dalin, the prodigal son.
Qian Baihui gave up a lot for Gao Dalin, her career, her family, and of course, she also gained a lot of in-laws' love and filial piety in this relationship.
Today, Qianbaihui lives alone in Chengdu, enjoying her old age in this place that is very similar to her hometown, and her son is very concerned about her in life and career, and he can also be regarded as old age.
But in any case, after so many years, few people have explored what the original truth is, and only hope that they can be well with each other.
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