"Every time I walk through this coffee house, I can't help but slow down." How many memories of this sweet song are after the 80s and even the post-90s!
Qianbaihui once became a classic of the times with masterpieces such as "Walking Through This Coffee House" and "A Thousand Nights and a Thousand Nights", but her figure has long faded from the public eye for many years.
This year, Qianbaihui held coffee in his hand on the short video platform, posted his mainland ID card, and said that he had settled in Chengdu, and a wave of "memory killing" poured into us.
Qianbaihui chose to quit the music scene at the peak of her career, what kind of life is she living now after getting married?
What is the experience behind the years of "Disappearing"?
Born in 1963 in a small village in Hsinchu, Taiwan, She was an ethnic minority girl.
Qianbaihui's parents are farmers, she is not an only child, there are four brothers and sisters in the family.
Since she was a child, Chibue has been particularly fond of singing, and her neighbors say that she is very talented.
But because the family is not rich, Qianbaihui has not received special training, and singing is only her personal hobby.
Her parents were very supportive of her hobbies, and her brother was her little fan since she was a child.
The originally happy family was broken by an accident, and Chibuki's father died unexpectedly when she was in high school.
At that time, his brother was still young, and his mother not only had to earn money to support the family but also take care of her brother, in order to help her mother share the pressure, Qian Baihui decided to go to the song hall to sing part-time to earn money.
At first, Chibue hui would be a little nervous on the stage, but what she didn't expect was that her singing voice was very popular with everyone.
On the stage, someone will hand her a small note, which makes Qianbaihui's confidence double, and slowly she will not be afraid of the stage.
Chibue, who sings in the song hall, receives a lot of criticism, but she doesn't care, and she happily gives her money to her mother every time.
Her mother was very upset with her, but Qianbaihui said that she did not feel tired at all when she could turn her hobby into work to earn money.
After singing like this for two years, Qianbaihui's name is no stranger to the song hall, many people are her fans, and I did not expect that even Liu Jiachang, the godfather of music, had heard of her.
In the third year of Qianbaihui High School, Liu Jiachang privately found Qianbaihui, and Liu Jiachang felt that Qianbaihui was a good seedling and wanted to sign Qianbaihui.
To be appreciated by Liu Jiachang was the dream of many singers at that time, and even Teresa Teng, who was extremely popular, was a student of Liu Jiachang.
Qian Baihui naturally understood that she did not refuse Liu Jiachang's invitation.
Sure enough, under the professional cultivation of Liu Jiachang, Qianbaihui made rapid progress and changed from a resident singer in a song hall to a professional singer.
Qianbaihui also knows that her opportunity is rare, so she cherishes it. Every day she would work harder than others, get up early and practice greedily, and did not dare to slacken off for a quarter of an hour.
With professional guidance and redoubling his own efforts, Chibue soon released his first album and was a huge hit.
In the years that followed, every album was sold out, no one knew her songs, and the streets were filled with her singing voices.
With her sweet singing voice and pure appearance, Qianbaihui became a hot singer, not only on both sides of the Taiwan Straits, but also in southeast Asia.
After becoming famous, Senbae Hui never forgot her mother and brother, and she bought a house for her mother in the city, so that the whole family could move from the countryside to the city.
In order to share the pressure of her mother, Chibae alone bears the tuition and living expenses of her brother and sister so that her younger siblings will not drop out of school.
Even the marriage house when her brother got married was bought by Qianbaihui, she said: "I desperately want to make money just so that our family can live a happy life." ”
Qianbaihui single-handedly changed the fate of the whole family.
After becoming famous, she has many suitors with good conditions, but Qianbaihui said: "I came from the countryside, I know the gap between myself and others, and the boyfriend I am looking for does not need to be rich and famous, but it must be talented." ”
Qianbaihui pursues like-minded and spiritually compatible love. This also made her reject the pursuit of a group of rich people, and she always believed that she could meet her own love.
In 1990, Qianbaihui was invited to participate in the opening ceremony concert of the Beijing Asian Games.
Here she heard Gao Gaolin's songs for the first time and was deeply attracted by his talent.
Gao Dalin, a native of Harbin, was born into a musical family since childhood, his parents were engaged in the music industry, and even his brother was a musician.
Gao Dalin and Qianbaihui have the same life experience, once dropped out of school due to an accident, and worked hard in the orchestra for many years to achieve today's achievements.
Similar life experiences, the same love for music, their souls are highly compatible, which makes Qianbaihui deeply fall.
But at that time, Gao Dalin and singer He Jinggang were married not long ago, and she could only hide her admiration in her heart when she considered the problem of identity, and Baihui regarded Gao Dalin as a friend and confidant.
Gao Dalin and He Jing have an age gap of 11 years, and after marriage, the two have differences in all aspects, and constant quarrels have brought the marriage to an end in less than a year.
Chibae Hui, who is far away in Taiwan, learned the news of Gao Dalin's divorce from a friend, and she decided to boldly pursue her love.
Qianbaihui took the initiative to express his heart to Gao Dalin and flew directly from Taiwan to Beijing.
However, Gao Dalin did not accept the love of Qianbaihui and just ended a failed marriage, which made Gao Dalin feel uneasy.
What's more, the gap between the two was there, at that time, Qianbaihui was already a well-known singer, and Gao Dalin's income was less than one-tenth of Qianbaihui's, and even the distance between the two was a big problem.
Faced with this kind of problem, Gao Dalin rejected Qianbaihui's confession.
But Qianbaihui did not give up because of this, she felt that it was not easy to meet a person she liked, why should she give up easily.
Not to mention the female chasing the male compartment yarn, and then Qianbaihui launched a fierce pursuit.
Gao Dalin was touched by Qianbaihui's persistence, he let go of the mustard in his heart, accepted Qianbaihui's pursuit, and the two fell in love.
However, when the love affair between the two reached the ears of their parents, Gao Gaolin's parents opposed them being together.
Gao Dalin's parents feel that the distance between the two is a big problem, and they are afraid that their son will be hurt by their feelings again.
QianBaihui promised Gao Dalin's parents: "I like Gao Dalin very much, I will never leave him easily, as for the distance problem, I can come to Beijing to settle down after marriage." ”
Hearing Qianbaihui's promise, Gao Dalin's parents had no reason to oppose it.
But Qianbaihui's mother did not want her daughter to marry so far away.
Her mother knew that Qianbaihui had grown up suffering since she was a child, and after her father's death, she paid unconditionally for the family, and it was difficult to get better, of course, the family was together.
Friends also advised Qianbaihui to stay, and the family is the happiest together.
But Qianbaihui did not waver, she told her mother: "Mom, it is difficult to meet a love that you like each other, and I don't want to miss this fate because of the distance problem." ”
Looking at her daughter's resolute attitude, the mother let out harsh words: "If you go to Beijing with him, you will never return to this home." ”
A sentence made the feelings of the mother and daughter drop to the freezing point, and neither of them was willing to compromise.
In 1992, despite the family's obstruction, Qianbaihui married Gao Dalin in Beijing, and she lived in Beijing with her husband as promised.
After marriage, Qianbaihui has been trying to reconcile with her mother, but her stubborn mother does not give in at all, and even the things her daughter sends her she refuses to accept, and even refuses her visit.
The sad Qianbaihui said his grievances to her husband, and Gao Dalin always said painfully: "One day my mother will figure it out, and I will always accompany you." ”
After marriage, the relationship between the two has been very good, and soon gave birth to a son Gao Luwan, with the addition of children to make the life of the two more warm.
Knowing that Qian Baihui's mother would not come to visit her daughter, the mother-in-law took the initiative to go from Harbin to Beijing to take care of her daughter-in-law.
After giving birth to a child, the mother-in-law was afraid that Qianbaihui would fall into the root of any disease, and never let Qianbaihui do any housework, and eating and drinking were taken care of by the mother-in-law.
Even when the son and daughter-in-law sometimes talk, the mother-in-law is also toward the daughter-in-law.
The mother-in-law's meticulous care made Qian Baihui moved, she remembered her mother, and the tears couldn't stop flowing down.
Whenever this time comes, the mother-in-law will hold her and say, "Child, I am your mother, and I will tell my mother if I have any grievances in the future." ”
The mother-in-law's concern made Qianbaihui feel warm inside.
However, as the mother-in-law gets older, it will become difficult to take care of the family, but at this time, Qianbaihui and her husband's career are very busy, and she resolutely decided to quit the music scene for the sake of the family.
Qianbaihui began to circle her husband, mother-in-law and son every day.
Every day, I do laundry, cook, and clean, and my mother-in-law wants to help her, but she will not let her.
Qianbaihui said: "You have always been taking care of us before, but now I will take care of you and let you enjoy the blessings." ”
Every year during the New Year, Qianbaihui will send blessings and red envelopes to the little uncle, and this habit is still retained until the little uncle gets married.
The younger brother felt that he was so old that he could no longer take his sister-in-law's money, but Qian Baihui said, "No matter how old you are, you are our younger brother, and of course our intentions will be accepted." ”
Not only that, Qianbaihui will also take her husband and children back to Harbin for the New Year during the Spring Festival, and visit relatives and friends with her mother-in-law, without feeling trouble at all.
Originally, there were great differences in customs, but Qianbaihui would accommodate her mother-in-law every time, never arguing with her mother-in-law, she always smiled and said: "Mom, you are the one who came over, I listen to you correctly." ”
Qianbaihui will also take her mother-in-law to live in Beijing, massage and wash her feet, and she is not abandoned at all.
Taking the mother-in-law to get a haircut, go shopping, and buy clothes, the two walked on the street arm in arm, and passers-by said that the mother and daughter had a really good relationship. Who would have thought that these two people were actually mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
My mother-in-law often said, "This is my daughter, not only is she knowledgeable and understanding, but she has nothing to say about me." ”
To her mother-in-law's words, she always said, "This is not what I should do." ”
Not only is she filial to her mother-in-law, Qianbaihui will send money to her mother every year, and she will also send her grandson's life photos.
The mother watched her grandson grow up day by day, and her heart was slowly relieved, and she gradually accepted her daughter's kindness.
When Gao Luwan was 6 years old, her mother finally picked up a call from Qianbaihui, and the mother and daughter cried bitterly on the phone.
Qian Baihui brought her mother to Beijing, and she did not ignore her mother-in-law because of her arrival. She treats her mother-in-law and mother equally.
Both mothers praised the filial daughter.
In 2003, we once again saw the long-departed Qianbaihui on the stage, and the cheers in the audience immediately boiled over, and Qianbaihui, who had not heard from for more than ten years, made a comeback again.
On the stage, Qianbaihui told about her life trivia for so many years, and sang a song of her own past, and her singing voice was still so beautiful.
Chibuki said: "I never regret my every choice, and I am also very happy to take care of my family. ”
Today, she still focuses on her family, in her eyes, family is the most important, only occasionally come out to sing, her love for music has never diminished.
This year, Qianbaihui said that he would hold a personal concert in Chengdu, and even her mother-in-law was sparing no effort to promote her own concert for her daughter-in-law, which showed that the relationship between the two has been good.
Now 58 years old, Qianbaihui is still dedicating her strength to social welfare, and every time she meets someone in need, she will always take out her savings to help them.
She said: "I was born in a poor family, I know that life is not easy, I hope everyone is safe. ”
Now she no longer has the unique appearance of the past, but she has a happy family.
Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the contradiction of married life, but Qianbaihui and her mother-in-law are in love with mother and daughter, and they are also filial to their own mother.
For the past she has no regrets, Qian Baihui said that she came to Beijing because she loved her husband, because she loved her mother-in-law, she liked Harbin, and because she loved her family, she fell in love with the land under her feet.
For the future, she will continue to love music, and she will continue to love her husband and family.