It turns out that once most men change their hearts, they will not return to the original family, you only have to be strong and strive for the greatest interests to bring the children well. After the divorce, the path you have traveled will have to go again, and it will not necessarily be good. Even worse.
Personally, I think that since your marriage has come to an end, there is no need to let the child participate in the judgment of who is right and who is wrong, if there is no child, you can go your separate ways without being involved, but there are two children who are really not necessary, you should think about how to do the least harm to the child, how to do the best for the child's growth.
We should also completely abandon the entanglement of who is right and who is wrong, learn a lesson well, since the husband can not count on it, they must work hard to create a good living environment for their children and cultivate their children well, so it is advised that young people should still consider carefully, children are not for whom, they are born for themselves, and you have to consider whether you can give your children a happy and safe family.
Many men often don't love, they put all their faults on their wives, and say their reasons for cheating so freshly. It feels ridiculous to think about, when you were in love, you cried and begged you not to separate, but people changed their minds and said that separation is also for the sake of children, and I believe that if God closes a door for you, it will also open another window for you.
What do you think?