#哪个年龄段的夫妻, emotional problems are most likely to occur #
The "seven-year itch" is described as "the left hand touching the right hand", which means that the husband and wife have become numb to the point that they are like their left and right hands, and there is no feeling of contact, no contact, no pain, no itch.
Most of them have not survived the "seven-year itch", an originally sweet marriage, and folded wings of the "seven-year itch". The "Seven Year Itch" is like a spell that plagues many couples.
However, in addition to this "seven-year itch" prone to emotional crisis, there is another age group that should not be underestimated, that is, middle-aged couples who are in the "year of confusion".
When people reach middle age, men have a small career, a little power in their hands, a little money on their bodies, and a more sleek situation in dealing with people; and women no longer have to worry about children who have grown up, although their faces are slightly wrinkled, but there is still no lack of exquisite beauty.
Feng Tong works in a large state-owned enterprise, 42 years old, has been ranked as a senior worker, although it is a technical cadre, but everyone knows that Feng Tong's authority in the enterprise is unmatched. Feng Tong's wife is a middle school teacher, the two have been married for more than ten years, the child is in the third year of junior high school, such an enviable fairy companion, but people are shocked, Feng Tong cheated.
There was not a lot of "color" in the matter, and a young female assistant plucked the strings of love that Feng Tong had been silent for many years. In the morning, a cup of green tea or black tea with the aroma of tea on the desk; on-site office, Feng Tong never has to worry about whether to wear a hard hat; a few times a month the technical department gathers, Feng Tong in front of the wine glass, always contains water that will not be intoxicating. Including the occasional missed meal, when he returns, there will be a box of rib rice, or Guilin rice noodles will be delivered later. And all this comes from the very shy female assistant.
During a short business trip, Feng Tong and the female assistant broke through the taboo, the fire failed to wrap the paper, the ending was unexpected, and after some boiling legends, Feng Tong chose to return to the family. The female assistant was dismissed by the unit.
If it is said that the men who are not confused years "look for flowers outside the wall" are largely due to improper management of their hormones, then, women who are also in this age group "red apricots out of the wall", is it really not because they are not willing to be lonely?
Suddenly, one day when the children no longer used her to pick up and drop off, and there were only two people in the family after her husband left work, Qin Hua suddenly felt that the family quietly made her panic.
It was that time that really made her feel unspeakable, because Brother Wang had been calling her "Strawberry Sister" ever since.
The direction of things is very old-fashioned, and the story of the "old king next door" is a fait accompli in Qin Hua. After the East Window incident, the husband and the old Wang next door fought, Brother Wang was half crippled, her husband was imprisoned, and Qin Hua's future had not yet come to an end. The emotional spillover caused by emptiness or loneliness is not only an emotional crisis that middle-aged couples may encounter, but also a little careless, and similar crises can even spread to couples of all ages.
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