Thinking in human nature is very interesting, and everyone's instinctive nature is to "seek advantage and avoid harm".
Many people can't make money and can't do things, it's not that you don't have the ability, it's not that you don't work hard enough, it's just that you're reversing the direction.
There are always people who like to copy dogmatic principles, be good teachers everywhere, and destroy people tirelessly.
Talking about altruism all day long can be self-interested, and thinking about others before you can think about yourself...
Don't believers say that altruism is bad, right?
Rather, everything has two aspects of contradictions and opposites, and you must look at the specific situation and conduct specific analysis, which is the correct attitude of seeking truth from facts.
For example: if you and a child are traveling on a plane, the plane breaks down in the air, and the oxygen mask in the cabin suddenly falls, do you bring it to your child first, or do you put on the oxygen mask for yourself first?
Most people will choose to put an oxygen mask on their child first, and the mood is understandable, but you are completely wrong.
If the cabin is full of oxygen, before you bring a mask to the child, I am afraid that you will already be suffocated by lack of oxygen, and in the end it will only make adults and children life-threatening.
Just like many families buy insurance now, it is a priority to give their children a protection.
Based on the same principle, once adults lose their continuous income and the ability to pay premiums, adults and children will lose the protection of insurance.
Therefore, the right choice is to take care of yourself first, so that you have the opportunity and ability to take care of others, and don't do the opposite.
In essence, there is no good or bad right or wrong, you yourself have no ability, and it is useless to say that the next day comes.
Don't be fooled by the so-called big guys, the big truth of the empty head.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Liu Bei was benevolent and kind, and there were countless sworn enemies around;
Cao Cao has a white face, a sinister and cunning face, and a large number of friends with interests;
Sun Quan is left and right, and there are enemies on both sides!
Liu Bei was taken in by his uncle Liu Biao when he was first in distress, and later Sangu Maolu invited Zhuge Liang.
Mr. Wolong went out of the mountains and the first piece of advice he gave to Liu Bei was to kill Liu Biao immediately and seize Jingzhou.
Uncle Liu Huang was unwilling, but how did Uncle Huang do it?
Not only did he refuse to return Jingzhou, but he also privately provoked a contradiction between Liu Biao and his two sons.
In the end, everyone shouted and beat him, calling him a usurper of power, Cao Cao, had not yet been called emperor, and Emperor Liu had actually called himself emperor early.
You must know that the Han Dynasty was orthodox at that time, and Emperor Xiandi of Han was still living well in Shanyang County. Ha ha.
Push history forward again, the era of Chu and Han contending for hegemony.
Xiang Yu was domineering and the most moralistic, and even set up a Feast at the Hongmen Gate, but because he felt that he was not a hero, he let Liu Bang go.
As a result, Chu and Han fought each other, and countless people died on the battlefield.
In the end, Xiang Yu's army was defeated, and he had no face to see Jiangdong's father and elder, and he killed himself in Wujiang, at this time, who in the world would pity Xiang Yu?
Only those who can take good care of themselves in the first place can take good care of others.
Even if you take ten thousand steps back, you are generous and tolerant in everything, gentle and patient, first consider the feelings and interests of others, and the things that hurt you will stop disappearing?
The ancients said that those who know others are wise, those who know themselves are wise, history is used as a mirror to learn from the rise and fall, and people are used as a mirror to see gains and losses.
There is no need for any big truth, the most important thing in this world...
It is to take care of yourself first, and strengthen your own ability, which is stronger than anything.
Because, only you are good, you have the ability, you are strong.
You have the opportunity to take good care of your family and have the ability to help those who are good to you.
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