Chen Jiaorui is a career-oriented woman, working hard to reach a certain height, her kind of person is very common in the workplace, she is independent, confident, she is very desperate in her work, desperate, although it is also very painful, but when she is fierce, it makes people very sad.
In the original work, Chen Jiaorui and Xiao Yan are the leaders of various departments, the two can be said to be competitors, and she works hard, but she has been trampled by Xiao Yan.
After Chen Jiaorui gave birth to a child, she directly suffered from depression, which is not surprising, Chen Jiaorui became pregnant during the rising period of the position, and chose to give birth, but you can imagine, for this matter, she had to consider how many times in her heart before making a decision.
From the workplace women to full-time mothers, live with the mother-in-law, all day long to listen to the mother-in-law to say no milk, give birth to a second child, the husband is indifferent, for this situation, as long as the heart is fragile will get depression, later, Chen Jiaorui chose to divorce, relying on Xiao Yan to return to the workplace, Xiao Yan has been helping her, did not expect Chen Jiaorui but play a means to replace.
What is her purpose in doing this? Is it really career-oriented? Do you like to compete for a competitive game?
In the days that followed, Chen Jiaorui's mother helped her with the child, she switched between her mother and work every day, and even her mother was complaining that Chen Jiaorui was incompetent, and suddenly one day.
Chen Jiaorui said to her mother: Mom, our leader said: I have a mental illness, and he refuses to hand over a long-term project to me on the grounds that he is afraid of my illness. I also wanted to transfer me to Germany, and so did Mo Ming, who and his lawyer found me a lot of evidence. Prove that I am sick, want to sue me in the second trial, want to snatch the child away from me, I will not let them bully me, I must do something, I want to protect myself, I want to protect the child.
At this time, her mother realized that her child was really sick, and Chen Jiaorui worked so hard, nothing more than to make herself strong and have the ability to protect her children, she just wanted to fight for the custody of her children, after all, there is no mother in the world who does not love her children.
Many people of the older generation are very confused to say "now life is so good, I really don't know why I have a child and depression, I see it is idle", for this sentence, I believe many mothers have heard it, and listening to it will be extremely uncomfortable, maybe this is the generation gap with the older generation!
Why are women now prone to depression?
- Endocrine disorders
- Lack of communication
- Overworked.
- Family reasons.
I think the fourth point is the most important, after giving birth, is the time when the mother needs warmth the most, and many families often ignore this, transfer the center directly to the child, the only concern for the mother is "eat fast, how can you have milk without eating the child?" This is often the direct cause of maternal depression.
Surveys have shown that marriage satisfaction is low, lack of family support and help, especially women who lack husband support are more susceptible to depression, some women may lose the opportunity for labor and employment due to childbirth, reducing the source of family economics and leading to increased economic pressure, often causing maternal depression.
And Chen Jiaorui's depression has a lot to do with her family.
After the child is born to understand what, as long as they eat and drink enough, the most need to take care of the mother, the mother's mood is good, the child naturally has milk to eat, the family will be harmonious.