Author: Bree Five
More than 3 months after leaving Wang Xiaofei, Big S suddenly officially announced his remarriage on Women's Day.
"Life is impermanent, and I cherish the happiness of the moment." Thanks for everything that allowed me to get to where I am now. ”
The marriage partner is her ex-boyfriend more than 20 years ago, the Korean singer Ju Junye.
The man shared the details of the two entering the marriage hall on the ins:
He and Big S broke up after falling in love more than 20 years ago, and this time when he heard the news of Big S's divorce, he plucked up the courage to reconnect Big S, and was pleasantly surprised that Big S had not changed his number for so many years.
After getting along, he had further ideas and proposed to Big S:
"Too much time has been missed and cannot be wasted any longer."
Big S and Gu Junye are married, which fully proves the truth - "Don't delete the ex phone"
From the world's point of view, the love story of "breaking the mirror and reuniting" is rare, not to mention that this still happened to a 46-year-old middle-aged second-child mother.
However, when this person is the big S yes, everything seems very reasonable again-
She is super executive and says one thing and one thing. In order to make a movie, the weight will be accurately adjusted to 42 kilograms, and the TV shooting or hosting program will be controlled at 44.4 kilograms.
Emotionally, it is also cut to the point.
When he fell in love with Lan Zhenglong, he was high-profile and flamboyant, and later Lan Zhenglong did not want to get married, and the big S quick knife cut off the hemp to cut off the 4-year love.
And Wang Xiaofei met for 49 days of flash marriage, after marriage still live a wonderful career and life;
Later, even if the marriage lit up with a red light and proposed a divorce, she did not say that Wang Xiaofei did not say half a sentence.
When various tabloids wrote that she was abandoned, she met with her friends to eat thousands of pieces of caviar.
On the other hand, her ex-husband Wang Xiaofei, after the divorce, she was out of control of various emotions, all kinds of hot searches with people, and was repeatedly photographed drunk.
In the eyes of others, Wang Xiaofei is quite an unforgettable look of old feelings, while Big S is too cold-blooded.
Until later, Wang Xiaofei's deep affection could not continue, and his new relationship with female Internet celebrities was exposed, and everyone came to ask Big S how he felt.
But she only responded lightly once: "I hope That Xiaofei will always be better than me." ”
I lost my old love and shattered my life, but I never cried and rushed to the ground, but just continued to move forward with a hard scalp and silence.
Until, finally, out of another piece of willow dark flowers.
She has planted and tasted sweetness, but she has never owed anything to others, nor has she lost her money.
From beginning to end, for so many years, Big S has been so crisp and decent. Even, with a little bit of coolness.
This reminds me of a question I saw on Zhihu:
What kind of people have you ever seen who are cold and thin?
The answer with the highest number of likes is exactly: I don't like to owe others, and I don't like what others owe me.
How many people's hearts have been poked in this answer?
I don't bother others, and I don't want others to bother me, which seems unkind, but it is also a lot less disturbing.
The rest of his life is cool and thin, cold and warm self-aware;
It's good not to owe each other anything.
Such a person lives too high.
A life of light clothing
In order to go further and more exciting
When Chen Daoming filmed "Siege of the City", he once visited Qian Zhongshu and asked about the psychology and demeanor of the characters in the play.
As a result, he pushed open the door, and Chen Daoming saw an unexpected scene-
The first thing that catches your eye is a room full of books.
In addition, Mr. Qian's home has no telephone or electronic equipment, and the only electrical appliance he is using is an electric pot for decoction.
Such a well-known writer of high moral standing, life is so simple.
And even living in such a simple environment, you can still feel the happiness and self-sufficiency of Mr. Qian's family.
Chen Daoming sighed that in front of culture and learning, his fame was not even a fart.
After returning, Chen Daoming gave up the socializing he used to hang out at the wine table, gave his wife and children all the time outside of work, and left the rest to himself, quietly wandering in the fragrance of books and art.
He made handmade bags for his wife, made candy and noodles for his daughters, played saxophone and accordion by himself, and practiced calligraphy when he had nothing to do.
After subtracting from life, he instead attained spiritual abundance.
As Qian Zhongshu said: "There is no need to find some people who are not in the same way and say things that are not painful or itchy." ”
The rest of your life is short, leave more time for the things you love, for the most important person around you, and don't let irrelevant people and things take their place.
Only by packing lightly can we go further and more exciting.
Condense your circle of friends
Different circles do not have to be strong
Recently, in the popular variety show "Sleep at 11 o'clock", a conversation between Chen Xiaolun and Huang Zitao has aroused heated discussion.
In the program, Chen Xiaohong asked Huang Zitao: "Are you blocking me from the circle of friends?" ”
Huang Zitao quickly denied it after hearing it.
However, Chen Xiaohong did not spare, she continued to open WeChat, clicked on Huang Zitao's avatar to show to the other party, and asked: "Is this you?" ”
So far. Huang Zitao naturally couldn't argue, so he had to say, "I don't remember anything." ”
Everyone can feel the suffocating awkward atmosphere across the screen.
In fact, after Chen Xiaohong first found out that Huang Zitao shielded himself, why did he need to ask again? Point to point, self-explanatory, is the most appropriate sense of proportion.
Let's tell another story of "cutting off the table and breaking off diplomatic relations" -
In the Eastern Han Dynasty, Guan Ning and Hua Xin were a pair of close friends, and they often sat on the same mat to read and study, and they were brothers and sisters.
However, once, when Guan Ning and Hua Xin were studying at the same table, a carriage of a high-ranking official and eunuch passed in front of the academy, Guan Ning was unmoved and still concentrated on reading, but Hua Xin did not hold back and ran out to join in the fun.
When Hua Xin returned, he saw guan Ning cutting the mat he was sitting on from the middle and dividing it in two, and gently said to him: "From today onwards, we are no longer friends." ”
Different ways do not conspire with each other, and different aspirations do not make friends with each other.
When two people who used to be similar in the past each choose a different direction, there is no need to force each other to blend together.
Although it is impossible to walk together, respecting each other's choices is already a deep understanding.
And the sense of security of adults is given to themselves, and you do not need to deliberately fit in and force yourself to fit into the circle. Nature that should come will come, and what should go is destined to go.
Only by moving forward at your own pace can you get out of your own willows.
Share it out, for the rest of your life, and be a better version of yourself!
Author: Bree-5, graduated from the Hong Kong Polytechnic University, once had three thousand troubles, and then only one thousand and five, and now only wants to spend a long time with you. Source: Network, intrusion and deletion.