These days, Venus and Mars have both switched to Aquarius.
However, the drama of Venus and Mars is still closely "colliding".
Yesterday, the news of the marriage of Big S and Gu Junye made netizens "greatly shocked", which is a typical example.
In the main life disk of big S, there is a Mars located in the constellation of Libra.
For Big S, it's not easy to live out her Libra Mars. Because Libra is a constellation that will compromise in order to be recognized. This contradicts Mars' nature to aspire to independence and establish itself.
However, as Frank, Dean of astrology School in London, puts it, to have a healthy love, fire scale crowd, "must be aware of the importance of their own unique individuality".
Because the real needs of Mars are the key to connecting all unique relationships.
So, triggered by this golden fire celestial phenomenon, let's continue to follow Frank, dean of the London Astrology School, and look back at our own power- Mars:
What kind of attraction "code" is hidden in our interpersonal and intimate relationships?
What are our real needs in relationships like love?
What can I, a sign of Mars 12, do for "our love"?
Placement reference:
Martian Libra or Mars 7 house
Mars forms phase with Venus
The 5th house head is Libra
When the ego, impulsive, direct Mars falls into such a concerned, gentle sign, that inherent contradiction and conflict will always exist in the life and feelings of the Martian Libra people.
"Outer softness and inner rigidity" seems to be a more appropriate description of them, although it may take a while for many people to figure this out.
What does he need in love?
There is no doubt that the fine wine and food, the stylish restaurants, the elegant music and the exquisite speech and manners are all elements that make martian Libra move.
Another well-known characteristic is that they are very kind, sometimes so friendly that others ride on their heads and do not see them resisting. Well, usually, they don't say it directly, but they choose some more ingenious means, but it is not known whether others can read these "words in words".
In fact, they hate this unequal relationship – different levels of tolerance and understanding on both sides, uneven pay and gain, etc., will make them feel unhappy.
Some people will think that this is a sign of their evasion of responsibility, but in the eyes of the fire scale, this is just the charm of how they know how to use language better.
Like all wind-like Mars, Martian Libra doesn't like sudden outbursts of emotion and irrational behavior, preferring to deal with problems with calmness and rationality.
Once they make up their minds (which is easier said than done for Martian Libra), they put a huge amount of energy into building relationships and are very good at creating romance.
They have a strong need for recognition in their bones, so much so that early in a relationship, they are likely to consider changing themselves to fit into their partner's lifestyle. When lovers ask them "what do you need," they answer by asking them the same question. It is important to remind The Scales of Fire that you should never overlook what is important to "you" as a unique individual.
Relationships are the backbone of Martian Libra, and some of them are likely to want to achieve their personal ambitions and status through a lasting marriage.
How to better love with ta?
The companion of the Fire Scale can:
Praise them as much as they praise you
Involve them in decision-making (even if they have to make the final choice)
Enjoy adult discussions, but don't get too intense
Agree with the idea that both parties in the relationship should remain equal
It is best not to:
Criticize their appearance
All decisions are made to listen to them, or refuse to discuss them
Criticize their tastes, or call them snobs
Don't take them to places that are too bad or embarrass them for rude behavior
Mars is in Scorpio or the 8th house of Mars
Mars forms phase with Pluto
The head of the 5th house is Scorpio
Mars has always been the dominant planet in the constellation Scorpio. So it's no surprise that Mars in this position is filled with such extreme energy.
For Martian Scorpio, love is either all or nothing.
Martian Scorpio is easily attracted to people who have a strong and attractive personality and strong sexual ability.
Lukewarm relationships, non-state sex, superficial lovers, none of these will make Mars Scorpio stay. What they are looking for is a deep and lasting union that permeates every aspect of their partner's life.
On this basis, they will explore deeper passions that transcend pure animal instincts. For them, sex is a sacred emotional bond.
They will always test their physical and emotional limits and are always looking for partners who can accept their extreme desires. Therefore, the ideal lover must also be able to challenge them at all times to gain and maintain their respect. If it's just a dull life, it's easy to get bored.
Of particular importance is that Martian Scorpio will never allow betrayal. Even the slightest hint can instantly turn their enthusiasm into indifference. Ridicule and sarcasm are their usual weapons to cut off unfaithful partners.
Martian Scorpio is good at getting the object of his desire through rigorous planning. They have great power and deep wisdom and strategy to quietly achieve their goals.
If you are their perceived soul mate, then they have enough determination and courage to sustain the pursuit of your life and never give up.
The dark side hidden in passion sometimes manifests itself in intense jealousy, possessiveness, and the urge to try forbidden desires. For this, I would like to remind the Fire Scorpion that if a relationship fails, please be sure to avoid extreme behavior and learn to look forward.
Of course, I know it's a little difficult for you, because the obsessive pursuit of love is a deep and intense journey that's hard to turn back, but maybe letting go and transcending attachment will also be the beginning of your transformation.
Fire Scorpion companions can:
Keep some of the mystery and keep them full of exploration
Respect their privacy, and their need to have secrets
Enjoy sex and get rid of all taboos
Develop your own perception and better perceive their needs
Look away at someone else (never do this)
Risk losing them and play some tentative mental games
Delve into their past and personality
Question their loyalty and dedication
Mars is in Sagittarius or Mars 9 house
Mars and Jupiter form phases
The 5th house head is Sagittarius
Sagittarius is concerned with the future, ideals and growth. So, for Mars Sagittarius, sex and love are a colorful series of adventures that will be boring to them with any rules. So, when they want to move forward, no one can stop them.
Their approach to life and feelings can be described by a song from Fire Shooter singer Janis Joplin, "Get It While You Can," which sings, "I'd rather have a decade of extremely brilliant times than live to be 70 years old sitting in that damn chair and watching boring TV." ”
Martian Sagittarius is easily attracted by free souls and exotic atmospheres. In their love game, they must not be bound. Being freewheeling and straightforward seems to inspire their enthusiasm even more.
Fire shooters tend to have the moral upper hand, and in the face of criticism and criticism, they are always willing to fight back and fight for their beliefs. Their breadth of experience has always enabled them to speak out and confidently defend themselves. After all, in their eyes, there is nothing more important than their own lofty ideals.
When they talk to you about their ideals and beliefs and get positive feedback, you may already be their next target.
Sagittarius Mars can never spend too long with people who try to control their every move, or are jealous. Because, no matter how much stress they work every day, they need to have the time and space to let go.
In fact, fire shooters are not a type that deliberately tries to please their partners. They only care about having fun and growing up in it. What's more, their high emotions and optimistic spirit can easily let others follow in their footsteps.
They can quickly enter a relationship, but they are easily trapped by their partner's excessive expectations and responsibilities and obligations very quickly. You know, in essence, they are travelers, explorers, who appreciate the journey far more than they desire a destination. Therefore, the idea of settling down for life immediately scares them away.
When there is a person with whom they can share the joys and joys of life without emphasizing the commitment to limit their freedom, Martian Sagittarius will consider whether to continue. Under the right conditions, no one can be more loyal than they are.
A fire shooter's companion can:
Go with the flow and don't burden them with your expectations
Take a long-term view and be passionate about learning anything new
Respect their need to get rid of everyday chores (including the need to stay away from their partner)
Love sports and outdoor activities and travel whenever you get the chance
Encourage them to be more reckless and wasteful of habits
Strike their optimism with cynicism and harsh reality, kidnap them with emotion and responsibility
Read their promises on the surface and try to demand that they deliver
Mars is in Capricorn or the 10th house of Mars
Mars and Saturn form phases
The head of the 5th house is Capricorn
Sometimes it's challenging to separate Capricorn's lusts from social ambitions. Because only when the two are closer together, their own feelings will be smoother.
Long-term commitment and love do inspire them, though some of them may see it as as important, if not more important, than worldly achievement.
For Capricorn Mars, a partner's prestige, ambition, and power are all effective aphrodisiacs. When these factors are incorporated into a relationship, they get incredibly excited. Therefore, it is best for the other half to be able to adapt to this desire to always pursue success, and be ready to work with them step by step towards material goals.
Martian Capricorn's steely determination and seriousness would never accept a man without a brain. Those who treat things particularly casually and frivolously, not noticing that they are seriously invested in the relationship, will be forced to accept their notorious indifference and arrogance.
While they are conservative and cautious when it comes to love, the partner they choose may be outgoing and bold. In this way, deep down in their hearts, it seems that a person with an experimental nature is needed to help them abandon all inhibitions.
Martian Capricorn always wants to be respected. In their eyes, this is an affirmation of their efforts. If a loved one exhibits unfaithful behavior, then they will not be polite, and it is not impossible to use the other person mercilessly.
In either case, it's important not to forget that Capricorn Mars loves to be in control. It's a thrill for them.
They are looking for a candidate who fits their life plan, so they will approach this "task" with a precise, serious, and reasonable strategy. People will be attracted to their serious charm and focused look, but only when they are sure that their personal ambitions are not threatened will they begin to see the future of a relationship.
Their own private lives are usually a no-go zone. Therefore, they prefer those who respect their privacy. If necessary, they can hide years of intimacy without being discovered by anyone.
A partner of Fire Capricorn can:
Stay single-minded
Respect them and give them the necessary privacy
Let them schedule most appointments and activities
Keep a youthful mindset, but make reasonable arrangements for money and future planning
All kinds of extravagant waste (they hate waste)
Embarrass them in public, especially in the workplace
Non-compliance with commitments
They feel their position is under threat because they spend a lot of time at work
Mars is in the house of Aquarius or Mars 11
Mars forms phase with Uranus
The head of the 5th house is Aquarius
In life and relationship, Martian Aquarius wants to rebel against authority and abandon tradition. In other words, everything fresh, original, cutting-edge, is within their range.
In their world, they are the only ones who make the rules.
Mars Aquarius will be attracted to people who are different and cutting-edge in their thinking, and the more special the better. Regardless of their status, ethnicity or creed.
But Mars Aquarius doesn't want anyone to find themselves trying to attract others. When dealing with intimacy, they have an innate sense of reticence and pride, and perhaps a little fear.
For Mars Aquarius, it's better to start with a friendship and see what happens next.
Martian Aquarius opposes any form of restriction, and nosy people will drive them crazy. When they are hurt, they usually appear more isolated, and that state of silence can be suffocating. They hate to show their emotions openly, seeing it as a sign of loss of control or emotion. So even in the relationship, they need to have personal space.
They are less likely to lose their temper over personal matters and are more likely to condemn inequalities in the broader sense of their lives. If you're in a vulnerable position, then they're more than willing to fight for you.
One might think that Martian Aquarius is impersonal or not interested in seizing the opportunity of love. In fact, this is not entirely the case. Sometimes, though, public welfare activities such as protecting animals, or anything else they do to save their fellow collectives, seem to inspire more emotional fluctuations than a loved one who weeps in misery.
Martian water bottles, stay away from the things that distract you, let your nerve cells come alive, and find a way to express your body's desires! When you are interested in the passion in love, you will become one of the most provocative and active lovers, and exude a special charm that attracts those who are brave.
At this time, for them, only they can't think of it, and there is nothing they can't do.
The companion of the fire bottle can:
Keep them interested by looking to the future and its possibilities
Stay calm and independent on the surface, but passionate on the inside
Stimulate their minds and make them "sexually" excited
Share goals and beliefs with them
Emotional blackmail, excessive possessiveness, over-dependence
Attitude or appearance is too conservative
Too much management, nagging
Have any form of bias
Mars is in pisces or the 12th house of Mars
Mars and Neptune form phases
The 5th house head is Pisces
Martian Pisces, the full-fledged romantic.
Many times, they don't have a clear idea of what they want, only to say that they are in love with "love" itself and are always looking for their own uniqueness.
What Martian Pisces needs is a water-milk intimacy, and tolerance and understanding from the inside out.
The Martian Pisces quest for true love is always full of romantic imaginations and tends to play multiple roles in relationships – lover, caregiver, protector and redeemer.
They are good at using their innate advantages to adapt to the thoughts and feelings of their lovers, and integrate into each other's lifestyle, becoming part of their partners, and at the same time being ready to save each other from danger.
When attacked or criticized, they choose to play the role of a victim. They don't want to hurt other people's feelings and always try to avoid direct confrontation. It's just that they know very well how to be self-pitying and make others feel guilty in this way.
They treat others equally, have keen insight, and make choices intuitively. Sometimes they feel obligated to save another person's tragic fate, or choose to be with someone because they look like a spiritual teacher and promise to be their savior.
Essentially, they are dreamers with a perfect picture in their minds.
When reality clashes with ideals, they often choose to escape. Therefore, when they find that their lover is not as perfect as they think, they will try to make their partner perfect in their hearts. However, learning to see reality can help them get rid of people with ulterior motives.
So, once they realize they've been lied to, they'll soon be on the road again in search of a true soul mate.
It's just that, Martian Pisces, remember to make sure you know exactly what you want from the beginning, and always use your extraordinary perception to filter out the unworthy objects so that you'll be closer to your ideal love.
A partner of a Fire Pisces can:
Show your gentleness and thoughtfulness
Always stay romantic
Like them, believe that the relationship is real
Powerful and reliable
Let them indulge in self-pity
Say hurtful things to them
Force them to become another person