"White-haired wearing flowers and smiling, years have never defeated beauty", this sentence seems to be specially tailored for Liu Xuehua.
The 62-year-old Liu Xuehua has played from a young girl to a grandmother, but her unique temperament will make people ignore her age.
Not long ago, she went on a variety show, "Under the Eaves", and confessed her life of living alone.
Looking back on her life, it is like the heroine in the Qiong Yao drama she played.
Life has been full of twists and turns, three marriages and one miscarriage, as if to move television to reality.
But she is also as strong and tenacious as the heroine in the TV series, who will not be defeated by these difficulties and live strongly.
Lived her wonderful life.
Watching TV, not recognizing his uncle, and showing a talent for acting since childhood
"TearFul Eyes" Empress Liu Xuehua, born in Beijing in 1959, has five sisters in the family, she ranks fifth, there is the love of her parents, the care of her brothers and sisters, she has developed a strange and unafraid nature.
Not yet old enough to go to school, her parents are busy, her brothers and sisters are going to school, she is bored at home alone, and often runs outside with her friends.
Every day when her parents came back from work, the first thing they did was go door to door to find her.
"Yazi, is yazi here?"
Every day after work, neighbors will hear such sounds.
Some people don't know, so they can't help but ask, "Is it okay to find your duck when it's lost?" ”
Her parents explained that this "yazi" was not a "duck", it was her family's maid, nicknamed "Yaya", and the neighbors who were not familiar with her before also remembered this name, and also remembered this little girl named "Yaya".
She grew up with no sense of direction, and once she ran away, couldn't find her way home, and was taken to the police station by well-meaning people, waiting for her parents to pick her up.
At that time, her family was poor, and no one could afford to buy a TV, and her family was no exception.
The TV at the police station was playing a TV series, and when I was young, I couldn't understand what was being played, so I was curious and fresh, blinking my eyes, and sitting quietly watching TV.
Thinking about how to show off to the children when I go back.
When it was time to leave work, my uncle heard that she had been sent here and came to pick her up.
The TV was watching with relish, and where he was willing to go back, he said to the policeman, "I don't know this person."
No matter how his uncle explained it, the police did not believe it, so he had to go back on his own and ask her parents to come over.
When my parents came, the TV had just finished, and it didn't make any sense to stay here any longer, so I followed my parents back.
She is young, but unlike other children, she simply loves to play and make trouble, she will look at the color, see her parents' faces are not good, and return home to kneel on the ground and admit her mistakes.
Her parents were no longer able to punish her.
She's weird and likes to do tricky things.
At school, the child will bring snacks to school with better conditions at home, she can't afford it, and she wants to eat, so she comes up with a way to trick others.
"I'm going to be moving in a month, so I can't go to school with you."
Li Xuehua, who is in kindergarten, told his classmates this.
She is good-looking, frank, very pleasing to children, heard that she is leaving, children are reluctant to give her all their snacks.
For a month, she had snacks almost every day, but no one dared to ask her when she was moving away.
A month passed, she showed no sign of moving away, and the children forgot about it.
Next month, she repeats her trick and wins snacks for her little ones again.
Children are simple and always believe her words.
Not only children, under the influence of television, she will always imitate the appearance of the heroine in the TV series and make a sad spring and autumn appearance.
On the bus, sometimes when emotions come, they will act very sad, tears will swirl in their eyes, and the uncle and aunt on the bus will ask her with concern what happened.
These things when she was a child made her have a great love for acting, and indirectly made her want to be an actor.
In order to be an actor, the six relatives do not recognize.
Liu Xuehua was born in a family of scholars, his father has two degrees, his mother is illiterate, he does not know a word, the two are considered "blind marriage", traditional marriage, following the words of the matchmaker, have not met before marriage.
The father was a high-achieving student and was unwilling to marry a woman who had not read in the countryside, so Grandpa tried to trick his father back into marriage, and even agreed that he would not be satisfied with marrying the younger one after marriage.
To this end, my father threw all the things that could be dropped in the family before getting married, so that her mother saw that all the things in the family were squashed on the day of her marriage.
Angry and angry, her father was a responsible and responsible man who was particularly kind to her mother.
Let the young Liu Xuehua have a fantasy about love.
Because he was born into a family of scholars, his father deeply understood the importance of reading and required all five of their brothers to have a skill.
Liu Xuehua chose Chinese painting.
Because she has been painting since elementary school, she has an innate classical temperament.
Everyone thought that she would take a path of her own in Chinese painting and become a master of Chinese painting, she resolutely chose to become an actress despite her father's obstruction.
Because of the drama, but the personality is not compatible
In 1978, at the age of 19, Liu Xuehua was selected to join the Great Wall Film Company and later to the Shaw Film Company.
Liu Xuehua began to run dragon sets in the crew, coupled with her classical temperament, cameo many chivalrous images, but has been tepid.
Until 1983, Liu Xuehua switched from martial arts to the court, played "Maiden Cixi", played the Manchu girl Yehenara Yulan, her image of intelligence and ambition, not willing to be poor and male superiority and female inferiority won the love of the majority of audiences, stunning Hong Kong.
In 1886, she met the director of Qiong Yao's drama, who was now looking for the heroine of "Several Degrees of Sunset Red", and Liu Xuehua's appearance surprised him, as if letting him see the Mengzhu coming out of the book.
So the director recommended her to Qiong Yao.
This TV series spans a long time span, and Qiong Yao is worried that she is too young to control this role, and she is hesitant.
The director pushed her film as "Young Girl Cixi" to Qiong Yao, and with the director's affirmation, Qiong Yao finally agreed to let her play Mengzhu.
Liu Xuehua has liked to read Qiong Yao's novels since he was a child, sometimes a novel can be read twenty or thirty times, and he is not unfamiliar with the plot inside, and he can act like a fish.
After the broadcast of "Several Degrees of Sunset Red", it once set off a ratings frenzy.
Immediately after that, she filmed Qiong Yao's "Six Dreams".
During the filming, she met zhang Peihua, the "Yao boy", and fell in love with him because of the drama.
Liu Xuehua is eccentric, mischievous, and completely different from the characters in the play. But when she was a teenager, she also had fantasies about love and longed for a romantic love.
Zhang Peihua is different from her, a "straight man" who does not understand romance and is completely "straight".
Once, on a whim, Liu Xuehua filled the ground with candles and wanted to surprise Zhang Peihua.
After doing all this, she hid in the door, expecting Zhang Peihua to see the scene.
Surprise or shock.
The moment the door opened, Liu Xuehua's heart raised to the throat eye.
"It's like walking on the set." Zhang Peihua's words extinguished all of Liu Xuehua's expectations.
Qiong Yao fell in love with Liu Xuehua for ten minutes, heard that she and Zhang Peihua were in love, and based on the two of them, tailored the script "Xueke" for them.
Before the script was finished, the news came that the two of them had broken up.
After the script was created, Qiong Yao still liked the two of them, and with a dedicated attitude, Liu Xuehua and Zhang Peihua still cooperated with tacit understanding to complete the script.
Being green before marriage, resulting in miscarriage and inability to have children
Filming "Love in the Wind", Liu Xuehua met the "nightmare" of his life, Liu Dekai.
Young Liu Xuehua was very moving, with a smile with the unique agility of a girl, Liu Dekai fell in love with her at first sight, and then launched a fierce attack on her.
The two of them have the same personality and like romance.
Liu Dekai once said to her: "I want you to be my girlfriend", I thought it was a joke, but I didn't expect that the two people really came together and fell in love.
The two of them are in a sweet moment, and someone broke out that Liu Dekai already has a family.
Liu Xuehua was inexplicably called "Little Three" and had no idea what the situation was.
At this time, she learned that Liu Dekai had concealed the fact that he had a family.
She could not accept the deception, coupled with the pressure of public opinion from the outside world, she resolutely proposed to Liu Dekai to break up.
Everything should have come to an abrupt halt at this point.
In order to prove his feelings for Liu Xuehua, Liu Dekai made a major decision to divorce his wife.
He ignored the accusations of the crowd and only wanted to be with Liu Xuehua.
After the divorce, Liu Dekai stalked Liu Xuehua.
Liu Xuehua hated his deception of himself, and at the same time, he had no feelings for him, and finally softened his heart, and the two reconciled.
Liu Dekai wanted to be a director and producer, and start his own business, Liu Xuehua took his dream and successively gave him nearly 30 million yuan.
They were together for six years, and after Liu Xuehua became pregnant, Liu Dekai proposed to her, promising to give her a home for her child.
When Liu Xuehua was waiting for a romantic wedding that belonged to the two of them, Liu Dekai called her from overseas.
To break up with her, the reason is that Liu Dekai fell in love with a foreign girl.
Liu Xuehua's head was confused, and the whole person could not support it and fell down.
This betrayal plunged Liu Xuehua into pain, and excessive grief led to a miscarriage.
The great pain of betrayal and miscarriage almost made Liu Xuehua unable to slow down, and even had the idea of taking his own life.
After this incident, Liu Dekai was attacked by the media, countless people spit on him as a scumbag, his career was blocked, and the audience no longer bought his account.
In desperation, he turned to the interior, although it was also a small achievement, but it was no longer the glory of the year.
After this incident, Xu was that he still had some feelings for Liu Xuehua in his heart, or that he needed Liu Xuehua to correct his name, or Liu Xuehua was helpful to him, and he tried to contact Liu Xuehua and wanted to get her forgiveness, but he was rejected.
After being hurt by the scumbag, Liu Xuehua slowly walked out of the pain and returned to work after self-mediation.
Confessed the love of his life, Deng Yukun.
Deng Yukun wrote "Forrest Gump" in Shanghai, Liu Xuehua was also in Shanghai, and under the introduction of Zhang Peihua, the two of them met.
Deng Yukun invited many friends to eat hairy crabs, and Liu Xuehua was also among them.
When he went, Liu Xuehua came in with short hair, a hat, and long pants, and the moment he opened the door, it was like a ray of sunlight into Deng Yukun's eyes, and at the same time entered his heart.
At that time, he had only one thought in his mind: This girl, mine.
Literati are all romantic, and so is Deng Yukun.
Deng Yukun launched a crazy pursuit of Liu Xuehua.
There is Liu Xuehua, the muse, which also inspired Deng Yukun's creative inspiration.
He wrote countless poems to Liu Xuehua.
The beauty and romance in the poem deeply touched Liu Xuehua.
She finally accepted Deng Yukun, who was 13 years older than her, and the two eventually became a couple.
The two were officially married in 2001.
Deng Yukun has two children, the eldest son is already in his twenties, and liu Xuehua became the stepmother of two children after marrying him.
The two children understood their father's lonely heart and wanted to remarry, but for a while they could not fully accept this strange woman.
Liu Xuehua did not force them to accept themselves, to communicate and treat them as their friends.
Slowly the two brothers and sisters accepted her.
The daughter has developed a motherly dependence on Liu Xuehua, likes to say anything to her, shares everything with her, and even likes to sit next to her when eating.
Seeing this scene, Deng Yukun was very pleased.
Once Liu Xuehua had a friend come to play, and when it was time to eat, he naturally sat next to Liu Xuehua.
When the stepdaughter came down to see this scene, her face suddenly shrugged down, and she had a feeling that her territory had been encroached upon.
Liu Xuehua found out that she was different, but did not care about her, but went to play cards with friends, and when she finished playing cards, she dialed her daughter's phone and went to talk to her about it.
The daughter told her that she had explained her point of view to her and that she was jealous.
Liu Xuehua talked to her like a friend and opened her heart knot.
On another occasion, she received a scam call saying that her daughter had been kidnapped.
At that time, there were many scam calls, and Liu Xuehua saw that some people were deceived, and he would not understand why these people did not have the judgment to send money to the scammers.
Until she received the call, her mind was confused, and she went to the post office according to the instructions of the scammer to send money, afraid that if she took a step later, her daughter would be in danger.
Fortunately, her abnormal behavior was discovered by the neighbors and called the police.
The police stopped her from remitting, but she repeatedly said that she had not been deceived and was remitted to a friend.
It wasn't until her daughter showed up that she woke up like a dream, and it turned out that she had almost been deceived.
This is true for her daughter, and it is also true for her son.
Deng Yukun is a strict father, and she is a loving mother.
Deng Yukun is at home, strict with the children, they dare not disobey their father, eat such a small matter, but also in accordance with the father's requirements.
Young people like to play with computers, when Deng Yukun is not there, the son will express his views to Liu Xuehua, the heart to heart, Liu Xuehua can understand their mood, respect their choices.
The family and a harmonious life, Deng Yukun did not live up to her feelings, and during his marriage to her, he always treated her as a child, and a pet was ten years.
Liu Xuehua thought that he was treated favorably by heaven, although he did not have his own children, so it was also very good.
A bad news came at this time.
Deng Yukun accidentally fell to his death.
This news was almost a fatal blow to Liu Xuehua.
She stood in front of the Deng Yukun Spiritual Hall, staring blankly at the black-and-white photo in front of the Spiritual Hall, and her heart hurt like someone piercing it with an awl.
She felt her world collapse at this moment.
Not only the pain of the widow, but also all kinds of rumors and spit from the outside world, almost overwhelmed and breathless.
Many people say that the husband and wife have long been at odds with each other, and quarrels are even more commonplace; even more unscrupulous media have pointed the finger at Liu Xuehua, saying that she was once the third in the small position, and she did not even have basic character and morality, and would not really be good to a person at all.
These words were like a knife deep in her heart.
For a time, the outside world had various versions of the explanation of this matter.
Even if Deng Yukun's own son came forward to explain, it would not help.
Liu Xuehua's family is very worried about her, afraid that she will not be able to survive and want to come back to accompany her.
She politely refused their kindness, and this kind of thing still needs to be mediated by herself and walked out by herself.
She is lucky enough to use her work to dilute her grief.
She had an idea, if she couldn't hold on and fell down, she would fall.
She adjusted her mindset and got back into her work.
On the set, everyone understood her, and the original annoying dressing room was silent, as if everyone accompanied her into sadness.
She pretended to have nothing to do, still joking with everyone and mediating the atmosphere.
The look of her made everyone breathe a sigh of relief, thinking that she had let go.
The TV series she is filming," "Ruyi", has a scene, which is the scene where the husband in the play dies and the heroine cries bitterly.
When she acted, she was in pain, not only in the play, but also brought in her own sense of truth.
She slowly came out of the pain and raised the dog left by Deng Yukun with peace of mind and let them accompany her.
With them, it was as if Deng Yukun's love had always been with her.
After the baptism of time, everything seems to have passed
When interviewed by the TV station, Liu Xuehua frankly believed in love, and when love came, she would definitely grasp it firmly and did not want to have regrets in her life.
Ten years later, she still keeps Deng Yukun's love alive, and she has expectations for the future, more to reassure everyone.
Now she lives alone, before she was on a variety show "Under the Roof", she confessed that she would not order takeaways and would not communicate with people.
There is a scene where Liu Xuehua has a dinner party with several girls and says that there are gifts to give them.
It turned out that the girls' parents had recorded a video for them, and the girls were moved to cry when they saw this video.
Liu Xuehua was also touched, and the tears could not stop falling, bluntly saying that it was good to have parents.
It can be seen that Liu Xuehua is still very fragile in her heart, and netizens have left messages saying that they are very distressed by her.
As he grew older, Liu Xuehua was also a little afraid of living alone, frankly saying that in a few years he would go to a nursing home to live, afraid of being alone at home and falling down, no one knew.
These words brought tears to the eyes of everyone present.
Now she is still filming and bringing us good works.
I hope she can be as good as possible and be happy in her later years.